Chapter 387
finally learned that Lao Rao's wife died a few years ago.
His children and their wives lost their lives to a natural disaster.
When he learned that the child died, he could be extremely painful at that time, only felt a dull pain in his heart, and originally thought that he would also pass away, but thanks to his wife, with the support of his wife, he persevered, and he survived.
In the end, he and his only remaining wife depended on each other.
But after that, within a few years, his wife also died, and that time, he was still very sad, but in the end, he persevered and survived.
He's almost 70 this year.
Originally, he could choose to die like this, but he was reluctant, because he also had a grandson, and his grandson was lost, and he firmly believed that his grandson would come back, so this became the only motivation for him to live.
After listening to Lao Rao's life experience, Liu Da also felt a lot.
Not a lot in general, but very, very much.
And he is also very sympathetic to the old man, he now understands why the old man is so good to him, I'm afraid one of the reasons is that he regards himself as his grandson.
In fact, Liu Da didn't care about such a thing, on the contrary, he was a little happy, because he was originally lonely, if he could rely on the old man for his life, he would not actually feel so lonely, so from then on, he made Lao Que his grandfather in his heart and regarded himself as his grandson.
Because he hopes that the old man can be happy, and kind people should be treated gently by this world.
With the passage of time, Liu Da also witnessed Lao Rao's hair becoming thinner and whiter year by year, and he was really helpless about such a thing, and he was still a little uncomfortable in his heart.
But although he is not very old, he knows that such a thing is irretrievable.
And what I can do is to accompany the old man well and do a good job of being a grandson, as for the real grandson of the old man, I guess he will never be able to go back!
But the old man doesn't think so, maybe this is the only obsession he has to live, it is estimated that if this obsession is shattered at this moment, the old man is estimated to not live long.
For such a thing, Liu Da obviously will not destroy it.
Although he can see the truth clearly, sometimes the truth may not be so important, what matters is what you care about, not what the facts are!
And this did not reach the real despair, maybe there was really a miracle in the end?
When the last thing doesn't really go as planned, there's nothing wrong with keeping the expectation right away.
However, Liu Da knows that such a possibility is really not big, not big at all, and all of this may just be self-deception.
But it seems to be good to go on like this, at least the old man has expectations and can live with more motivation.
As the saying goes, life is rare for seventy years. It's enough to live to seventy at that time, it's very enough, and it doesn't make much sense to go up the life again, and if it ends like this, it's not necessarily a bad thing.
But in the end, the old man chose to survive in such a poor environment, which also has his reason, and we also respect his choice.
And Liu Da undoubtedly has this opinion, but he is not only respectful, but also has an expectation, expecting that the old man can keep it like this, if the old man can keep it like this, then he will really be happy.
Because he's too old. He longs, very much for the old man to live a long and healthy life, because he no longer has any relatives, at this moment, when he feels the old man's kindness to him, he has subconsciously regarded the old man as his own relatives.
He only hopes that the old man can live a long life, and when he is old and successful, he must treat the old man well, let the old man experience an unprecedented good life, and let him eat well and dress warmly.
In the eyes of some people, such a goal may be nothing, but really, in the eyes of the old man and Liu Da, it is completely different.
Because they are all from the bottom and the poorest, they are the poorest families, and for the poorest families, they are already very satisfied if they can eat and clothe.
Because they will never forget the days when they were not well fed and clothed, and those days can be very difficult, like living like a year.
For example, now, Liu Da still doesn't eat too much, but in fact, it's pretty good.
Because the last few days were the hardest and most uncomfortable days.
At that time, he couldn't find anything to eat, or after he found something to eat in his stomach, he couldn't feel a little food and clothing at all, and all he felt was endless hunger.
But he's done his best!
He's not lazy!!
But why is it such an ending, really, he can't figure it out, in fact, it's not that he can't figure it out, but he doesn't understand it at all, why he works so hard, why can't he open his eyes when he is old?
Why do some people be born with fine clothes and food, and they don't have to worry about their livelihood at all, all they need to do is to be obedient, and when they reach the corresponding age, they will marry or accept their parents' family business, and they have never experienced what kind of life it is to be hungry and unwarm.
Even eating the delicacies of the mountains and seas disliked the delicacies of the mountains and seas, which were particularly unpalatable, and complained about how there was such an unpalatable thing underneath.
You know, such a thing is simply unimaginable in their place.
But it happens all the time in real life.
They may exist in the same world, but in fact they live in two different worlds.
This may be the class barrier, people may have been avoiding it, but they can't deny that such a thing is firmly in this world
The hierarchy is so clear, and the gap is so obvious.
What others eat in one bite, others may struggle for a year and may not be able to afford it.
So many people feel very helpless after thinking of such a thing............
But what!
But there is really no way, because the class of this world is too solidified.
If you want to climb up, you can't do it without any special skills.
One of the most climbable is the exam.
Go to the imperial examination, but what!
The imperial examination is difficult.
Hardly many people can participate in the imperial examinations.
And you have to buy it to study! You have to hire a teacher, right?
Without these things, there would be nothing to talk about.
These things may be nothing to some slightly richer families, but they are very expensive for ordinary families and even poor families, and for them, these things may be very out of reach.
They can't even eat enough food, they can't afford clothes, so in such a situation, let them buy books, pens and paper, is it possible?
You know, a casual book may cost a few taels or even a dozen taels to buy the case.
You know, they may not be able to make that much money at the end of the year.
And they don't have much left after a year of eating.
Therefore, it may take several years or even ten taels of silver to earn land in those years.
You know, that's 10 years!
How many decades does a person have in this life?
Obviously, there are not a few.
Is it worth it to buy such a book in those ten years?
Even if it was really that.
In the end, what is the use of not being able to hire a teacher?
You know, many of the things on it are without punctuation, and it is difficult to understand without the guidance of the teacher.
And if you want to learn, one book is definitely not enough, at least dozens less, you can.
But if there are dozens of books, they may not be able to make so much money in their lifetime, in that case, what is the point of learning?
Isn't this a fantasy?
So this biggest upper body path is blocked.
It can be seen that it is really too difficult for people to break through on their own.
Unless there are nobles to help, and in this world, there are still ordinary people.
So if you are useless, what reason do others have to help you?
Obviously, that's impossible!
At the time, people may be very emotional, but when they grow up, they will clearly realize how useless emotion is in this world.
And many of those resources are in the hands of Da Rao, and adults are often realistic, they have already transformed, and they have long since faded away from the immaturity of time.
At that time, what they cared about was interests, and only if there were enough interests, they would be allowed to act, of course, it was not excluded that people were still childlike, but there were too few such people.
So few that it almost doesn't exist at all.
The most useful thing is still to rely on your own hands.
Only by being down-to-earth and working hard can we get a better life.
But what!
But it doesn't have to be true.
Some people may think that this is a poisonous chicken soup, yes, sometimes, even if they work hard.
I tried my best, but I didn't necessarily get what I wanted.
In fact, this is understandable, because there are some things that are not available at our current level, so we might as well put what we want first, as long as the first point, we may succeed and possibly change.
After tasting the joy of success, we may become very happy and happy.
Since then, it has gained even greater momentum.
And our abilities may also be gradually strengthened in the process of grinding.
At this time, it may become more possible for us to pursue something better and more difficult to obtain.
It's not like before, it took so much time to spend and I didn't get it, and this feeling is very uncomfortable.
Some people have a bad psychological endurance, and after encountering such a thing, they may directly collapse, and then begin to doubt themselves, doubt whether they have the ability, doubt whether they don't have that endowment, or they are just a waste, and finally, they will gradually lose their confidence more and more.
For a person, if you don't believe in yourself, if you don't have confidence in yourself, then who can trust you at the bottom?
You know, the one who knows yourself best is yourself, because you know everything about yourself, and others can only look at yourself from the perspective of a bystander.
If you look at yourself from the perspective of a bystander, it is sometimes incomplete, and you may end up with conclusions or think that your own portrait may also be wrong.
However, there are also some disadvantages in self-evaluation, that is, some people who are not very strong in self-knowledge may misevaluate themselves.
In the end, you can only get a bad result.
For those who are overconfident, they may overestimate themselves when they evaluate themselves.
And those who have excessive low self-esteem may be very muttering about themselves when they judge themselves.
Both of these are particularly undesirable.
And the self you see is often a little beautified, because you never feel how bad you are.
Because if you think you're bad, how bad you have to be!!
Such situations may exist, but they are rare.
It can be seen from this that whether it is his own evaluation or his evaluation, it is biased at some point.
So if a person wants to fully understand what kind of person he is, then it is best to ask himself what kind of person he is, some people who are familiar with him, and when choosing, he must choose those sincere people, because if he does not do this, in the end they may hinder their own face, or out of such and such considerations, they dare not come up with the truth in the end, and in the end if they get the truth of the facts, then the information they get is wrong.
How can a misinformation really evaluate itself?
Isn't this clearly laughing?
Therefore, when obtaining information, it is necessary to consider a lot.
Be sure to rule out some mistakes!
Get as honest as possible.
And other people's evaluation of oneself cannot be just one person, because such results are not representative.
You have to find more people and finally put together all of their opinions. The final result may be real, otherwise, it's just a dream!
After getting the results, you must also take a good look at it, look at yourself through the perspective of comparison, and may send some problems that you usually don't notice for these reasons, and finally eliminate some of the results.
Finally, after writing your own opinion of yourself, and finally comparing the last link, after the comparison of the last link, the final outcome may be true. Please keep in mind: Lily, URL mobile version PC version, Lily free fastest update no anti-theft no anti-theft.