Today is the first seven of Mr.

Since the beginning of the morning, the rain has not stopped, as if I am crying for my husband.

It is said that the first seven should be done by the son, and the son of the gentleman has never cared about his father, but he is very concerned about his father's inheritance and urges me to solve it as soon as possible.

I asked him to come to my house to burn paper for my father, and he agreed.

In any case, I will let my husband, like all fathers in the world, receive the worship of his son in the first seventh.

Early in the morning, I ordered the ingredients for the memorial at Hema and prepared seven dishes that Mr. usually likes to eat: steamed sea bass, chicken wings with green onions, fried shrimp in tomato sauce, sliced cauliflower meat, scrambled eggs with tomatoes, stir-fried Hangzhou cabbage, and cold tofu and mustard.

At about twelve o'clock, the husband's son came empty-handed with his wife. It was only today that I made up my mind to take a closer look at his son, as Mr. usually described, a little depressed, short and fat...... There is no trace of a gentleman, and the daughter-in-law is more gentle.

My daughter's ankle was so swollen that she couldn't fit her shoes, and she didn't come back to the hospital at my urging.

While waiting, I chatted with my husband's son and daughter-in-law, intentionally or unintentionally......

Chatting and chatting, our estrangement seems to be dissolving, and I feel that Mr.'s son does not seem to be as unbearable as everyone describes, but maybe it is a superficial phenomenon!

But I never cared about my father's behavior to him, and I couldn't get over this hurdle in my heart no matter what.

I invited my husband's son to take his daughter-in-law upstairs to see his father's bedroom.

The furnishings of the bedroom are very simple, with a custom-made five-door floor-to-ceiling wardrobe, a carved dresser, a bedside table table on both sides of the eight-foot bed, and a red gauze table lamp that is quiet and silent, as if missing the deceased owner.

Above his bedside table, there is a large wedding photo of my husband and wife, which is a selfie of my husband and wife, and he is quite proud of his photograph.

Sitting on the rattan chair, I was wearing a plain cheongsam, a self-hooked red hollow flower shawl, a pair of round-mouthed white leather shoes, flesh-colored pantyhose wrapped around my slender and well-proportioned legs, and I smiled comfortably and sweetly; The gentleman who stood with his hands on my shoulders affectionately wore a short-sleeved shirt with a black and blue thin stripe of stand-up collar, and he used a cow belt to tie the shirt inside his gray trousers, and on his feet he wore black leather shoes issued by the army, and he smiled brightly and happily.

I picked up the 1,000 yuan red envelope I had prepared for my husband's grandson from the bedside table and handed it to my son. said that my grandfather didn't see my grandson during the Spring Festival this year, and this was what I supplied for my grandfather and asked him to hand it over. His son seemed a little embarrassed and looked back at Madame......

After coming down from the bedroom, my husband's daughter-in-law mentioned several times that I was gentle with her, and afterwards my daughter also said that my daughter-in-law recognized my mother very much. The son was more direct, saying that my mother and I were two extremes, and it turned out that he did not approve of his own mother......

The rain was very heavy, I couldn't find a place to take shelter from the rain to burn paper money, we lived in a commercial and residential room, in a hurry, I didn't think a lot, Mr.'s son drew a small place in front of a locked shop downstairs and burned it.

Just after a while, perhaps someone notified the shopkeeper, and the shopkeeper came angrily and scolded him, and I realized that we had committed a big taboo. Although many shops were closed due to the slump in business, after all, it was still a business shop, so I was busy saying hello, and I borrowed a container from the proprietress of another shop with whom I usually had a good relationship, washed the floor with water, and under the persuasion of several shopkeepers, the shopkeeper scolded and left.

Tears are rolling in my eyes, what if I have a lot of paper money left? My husband's son said that he had something to do in the afternoon and wanted to leave first, and I reluctantly agreed......

Back upstairs, I asked my daughter to guard the incense burner to add incense, so as not to let the incense go out, I put an enamel basin at the top of the staircase, opened the corridor window, and continued to burn paper. I heard that the dark currency is valuable, in addition to the ingots tin foil, I have prepared a lot of dark coins (RMB and US dollars), I hope that Mr. can be convenient all the way.

The smell of smoke alarmed the people in the office in the building, and some people ran out in a panic thinking that something was wrong. I hurriedly said hello, but fortunately, I received understanding and sympathy, and some people even volunteered to explain to the people who came to inquire at the entrance of the building.

Mr. walks regularly in the community every day, his tall figure, and his enthusiasm to help others in case of trouble left a deep impression on everyone.

At 7:30 p.m., the "classmates group" formed by Mr. began to hold a ceremony to bid farewell to the group owner, calling out loudly, full of gratitude and reluctance to Mr. I handed over the position of the group leader for my husband and then withdrew.

I was invited to join the group by the new group leader, and everyone was very happy to hear that I would continue to attend the party in the future.

Husband, I have tried to do everything my wife can do, you go all the way, may there be flowers full of flowers, only joy.

I heard that the first seven people who died will go home, husband, can we meet tonight?

After the death of my husband, his younger siblings avoided him intentionally or unintentionally, and I remember that my uncle once said that it was best for the eldest brother to write a will, so as not to make him feel embarrassed at that time, after all, my husband's son was his own nephew.

However, my sister-in-law's behavior inadvertently hurt me. My sister-in-law lives near my house, and in the last two days, I wanted her to accompany me during the day, and she agreed at first, but then she changed her hexagram again and sent me a WeChat message" "Tranquility, this is an extraordinary time, we still don't meet as well, I hope you can forgive me."

I was very sad, and I recalled that when my husband would rather sell the Chongming house than give the house on Long Island to my sister-in-law at a low price, I persuaded him to agree. When I need to care for me, my sister-in-law thinks about herself first.

But then I also tried to understand my sister-in-law, who not only has a son who has lived in a mental health center for many years, but also has a husband who used the one million dollars he sold to sell his house as futures.

She was unlucky, but she wanted to be open-minded, and she was quite comfortable learning to dance outside, especially Latin dance, and with a group of sisters around her.

Just like my sister-in-law herself said, she and I are not the same kind of people. Women love to wear cheongsam, and the sister-in-law's appearance is not bad, she is 1.65 meters tall, and her figure is also good.

The average person will buy a mid-range cheongsam for the first time, and the sister-in-law will buy a cheongsam for the first time, and buy a cheongsam without lining......

I pay attention to the inner temperament, and she pursues affordability. So, I understand her very well.

Mr. is usually very frugal, but when the uncle's son got married, Mr. wrapped a red envelope of 10,000 yuan, and after retirement, he gave a red envelope of 5,000 yuan to the eldest brother's son. My mother was suffering from intestinal cancer, and in order to alleviate the difficulty of my mother living at my sister's house, my husband drove my mother to visit a nursing home until he chose a satisfactory one.

Although I don't usually have much contact, I found that my younger siblings have a lot of complaints about my husband. Uncle usually speaks not very elegantly, and there are always a few "mother's ......" in every sentence. When I first came into contact, I was not used to it, and my husband often greeted me, saying that my younger siblings did not have much culture, so I asked me to be more tolerant.

When my husband went out to work, his younger siblings were still young. Since joining the army and taking up the leadership position, his living environment has changed a lot, which may be one of the reasons for the estrangement between him and his younger siblings.

What I don't understand, however, is that none of the people who came to the memorial service came empty-handed, with the exception of relatives who were related to him by blood.

Is it because you don't understand the world? Or is it intentional? Only then did I realize why my husband didn't want to trouble his younger siblings? Why don't you agree to sell the house to your sister?

At night, I cried to the portrait of my husband and said, "Husband, I used to blame you for being small, but now I understand that you just don't want to tell me, in fact, you know everything in your heart"......

I seem to have just understood what it means that "human affection in the world is thinner than paper".