Sunny May 4
Mr. named to eat pork belly roasted quail eggs, today I burned according to the recipe he sent me, and I saw that he ate several pieces, and I guess it was more appetizing. But I made a request for the celery lily, "The lily should be burned more, it's a little bitter", I think it's very crispy and not bitter! Seeing that his face was not good for the past two days, he replied, "Okay, I know."
To be precise, it was after the second Haifu surgery that his situation began to deteriorate.
I discussed with Dr. S, "Why did I have Haifu Knife surgery for the second time, and the director left and changed to a little doctor?" Why don't you inform the patient and family members in advance?...... Dr. S replied angrily, "You don't believe me, you can go to another hospital"!
The key is not a matter of believing, when alpha-fetoprotein is 404, the power of the first Haifu knife is 200, and the alpha-fetoprotein decreases after the operation, and the second Haifu knife increases the power to 300 (according to Dr. S, my husband is the first person to try it in the hospital), it is reasonable that it should be operated by skilled personnel in order to deal with emergencies, but the director left and changed the general doctor in the ward...... I have consulted experts in other hospitals, and the answer is: the same equipment, because of the high and low technology, the effect will be different.
To be honest, I have a good impression of Dr. S. He neither promoted imported drugs, nor did he agree to the self-funded and risky "radiofrequency ablation" plan, and recommended the relatively low-risk "Haifu Knife".
"Character determines fate", I really believe in this famous saying. After the husband endured the severe pain and came down from the operating table of Haifudao, he learned that the power had increased, and even said "yes", he thought that the greater the power, the more it could kill the cancer cells, and he did not ask why the technical director left to change the operation of the little doctor before the operation. And I was sitting outside the operating room, unaware of what was happening inside. Fortunately, he was a soldier and has a good physical foundation, in case he ...... I'm afraid of him. As a result, alpha-fetoprotein was reported to be more than 6,000 this time. More than 300 soared to more than 6,000, and the gap was so big that I couldn't help but be suspicious.
There is always a big difference between my philosophy and my husband, when Mr. wanted to send a pennant to Dr. S, and in my name, I objected to his approach, thinking that it was not appropriate to send it before there was no healing effect, he did not listen to the use of an alias to make a pennant and send it, saying that after sending the pennant, he asked for convenience, and indeed he later got special treatment. He could have offered a bed at the window, and each hospitalization required 4,000 yuan of infusion medicine at his own expense, which could later be canceled on the grounds that he would have allergies. But I think Dr. S's attitude towards my husband has gradually become impatient and his tone is quite unfriendly......
I sighed to myself, my husband's attitude to life is much more realistic than mine. My daughter once said that my mother will always be like an innocent girl who does not eat fireworks in the world, and my uncle is a typical "affordable man in Shanghai".
I'm shrewd in the big and sloppy in the small. On the contrary, he is shrewd in everything, except in the big places.
He heard that insurance turned into financial management and made more money, so he implemented it. Every festival, he always receives gifts such as zongzi mooncakes, and I remind him to be careful, don't end up eating your own principal. He was very proud, and invested 30,000 yuan in addition to gifts, and 250 yuan of interest every month. The salesman didn't know the inside story, thinking that I was in charge and wanted to get more funds, so he asked him to take his aunt to participate in the tour many times......
Sure enough, after he fell ill last year, one day he suddenly asked me to help him go to an investment company to do something, and I learned that he had also become one of the elderly people who had been deceived in the market.
I remember that the name of that company has the words "Hans Christian Andersen's fairy tales" in it, and I can't help but think of it and fall into the fairy tale world that I longed for when I was a child......
But the scene in front of me is worrying, and the elderly people in line are in pain, "My pension money is all in it", "I am doing evil, cheating our elderly people's pension money"...... The company promised us to receive a notice of installment payment, and it was my turn, I took out my husband's hospital serious illness certificate, and took the promise that I could repay the money more than others, but I was still standing there waiting. "Okay, Auntie, you can go"! "What, there is no one who pays the money, what can I use as a voucher if I can't receive the money?" At my insistence, the other party had no choice but to sign, and other elderly people who wanted to leave woke up like a dream and surrounded the staff to sign......
The gentleman who was waiting for me in the car looked at me with a blank eye, and I gave him the notice, and he was a little sad, but he actually knew in his heart that the money would not come back...... I regretfully said, "If you had bought commercial insurance with this money, you wouldn't have to sell your house for out-of-pocket treatment at the Heavy Ion Hospital." Forget it, it's not much better. He waved his hand again and again, "Don't talk about it, don't talk about it"......
As for repaying the money in installments, it is just a delaying tactic of the other party, and not a penny has been received so far. Compared with other elderly people who have invested all their pension savings, my husband is a "small witch and a big witch", which is a great luck in misfortune.