Overcast and rainy June 18
Cooking dishes in different ways every day is quite painstaking. It turned out that Mr. especially liked to eat five-spice braised duck gizzards, because the operation lost his appetite, today changed to salted duck gizzards, he commented while eating, "Well, refreshing, delicious".
I remember one time his ex-wife was hospitalized due to a sudden illness, and for the sake of his precious grandson, he discussed with me and went back to prepare meals for his grandson. I readily agreed, and specially prepared my specialty dish - five-spiced braised duck gizzards.
At dinner, he said that his grandson especially likes to eat this dish I cooked.
I heard that after he remarried, his ex-wife did not allow him to visit his grandson, who was regarded as a baby, and one day, he was disappointed because he did not see his grandson. Sleeping in bed, crying alone, I thought something big had happened,...... No matter how hard I tried, there was a time when I lost the opportunity to spend time with my grandson once a month.
Because he wanted to see his grandson, he had to face his ex-wife with a smile. I remember that after getting married, one day he told me that he was going to move his original hukou to the location of Chongming's real estate, but his ex-wife insisted on going with him, and I didn't care.
While my husband was away, I also went to visit my eldest sister whom I hadn't seen for a long time. When I went home in the afternoon and opened the door, I heard the voice of the gentleman behind me, "Wife, I called you from behind, why did you ignore me?" Oh, I didn't hear that! ”……
After dinner, my husband took out the new household registration book and showed it to me. If you don't look at it, you can see that in the spouse column, the name of his ex-wife is written prominently, and I look at my husband puzzled, "Husband, aren't you divorced?" Why is her name on the new household register? And it's your spouse?"
The gentleman muttered a few words, "She insisted on writing it, and I couldn't help it." I thought I misheard, "Your current spouse is me, husband, what's going on?"
Maybe it's because of his long-term fear that he can't refuse, or maybe it's because his grandson is by his side, and he doesn't want his grandson to know that his grandfather is divorced......
I tried all sorts of excuses to excuse him, but I couldn't let him go.
He didn't feel anything wrong, but said to me, "Why are you so unrelenting like her, is it because I'm not comfortable with her?" No wonder I told you to ignore me in the back......"
Tears of grievance poured out of my eyes...... That night, I picked up the quilt and slept on the sofa downstairs, thinking about crying, crying and crying......
In the second half of the night, he came downstairs to me and took my hand, "Wife, it's cold here, let's go upstairs and sleep!" "I cried even harder.
Through the tears, I saw that his expression was very painful, and he blamed himself, "It's me who is not good, you will accompany me to Chongming to change the household registration book in two days......
A few days later, we drove to the Chongming police station, and I was afraid that my husband would be embarrassed, so I asked him to go in and change it alone. After a while, two policemen followed him to the car, watched me smile for a while, and left.
The gentleman was holding the candy in his hand, saying that it was given by the police, because after listening to his explanation, maybe he was curious, so he came to see his bride......
Although this episode came to a successful conclusion, my husband's fear of his ex-wife worries me, and I am afraid that this psychology will affect our lives, and I am afraid that he will never be able to get out of this shadow.
I heard that his son was the same as his mother, and even suspected that his father had an "illegitimate child" outside. My husband listened to his siblings' relays and came back to tell me that "they are both very perverted."
In order to make up for my husband's lack of affection, I asked my daughter to care more about her uncle, and my daughter did it.
This time, when he learned that his uncle was ill, his daughter immediately sent his husband 60,000 yuan to express his gratitude, but after the uncle found out, he jokingly said that his ex-wife and son would think that his daughter was his "illegitimate daughter" outside, otherwise they would not treat him so well.
At the beginning of people, nature is good, why my uncle would say this, I can't understand. Later, I learned from the side that because he went to the sea, his ex-wife and son had always suspected him of cheating, and even had ...... outside Fortunately, her daughter's age does not match the time period, otherwise she would really be speechless.
I always feel that people should know how to be grateful, so that life will become better.