Today, I received a text message from Mr. registered on WeDoctor and found that the consultation area was different from usual. I've been tossing around for a long time the previous time, and in order to make sure it's correct, I dialed Director C's mobile phone. He not only told the exact location, but also guided us to pay attention to the hospital's official account, and we can make an appointment directly on the hospital platform in the future.

It's funny to say, but after I got married, I gradually realized that I had to avoid both older and younger men, just because my husband was unhappy.

During the hospitalization, I was not there, Director C asked about me, and my husband said to me during the voice call, "Director C cares about your ......", and I didn't answer.

After seven years of marriage, there were three times when I almost got divorced because of men's attention.

The first time I renovated my house, because the young male designer praised me, he asked me to turn down the renovation company and use his appointed private boss. My daughter disagreed, and she had reached a consensus with the designer, and I naturally disagreed.

He forced me to agree to the divorce. According to my personality, I would break up with him without hesitation, but considering that my daughter has always thought that her mother was happy, it will cause her to fear her future marriage and never believe in love again......

At night, we lay on our backs at a distance from our beds. It was winter, I was afraid of the cold, and he would put his hot feet against my cold feet to help me cover my feet before going to bed, but at this time he ...... My tears were dripping silently on the pillow, and I could feel it, and he couldn't sleep. Both have strong personalities, and neither wants to compromise first. Although I didn't expect much to remarry, I didn't expect him to do so. If such a cold war continues, the already unstable relationship will collapse. What to do?

In a hurry, I touched his feet with my feet and cried out: "Sir, I am cold, can you lend me your feet and feet to cover them?" He smiled and turned around and took me into his arms...... Afterwards, he praised me for being a wise wife.

Later, the daughter still obeyed her mother's choice, how did she know that her mother had made a compromise for her daughter!

The second time was because of the male classmate who invited him back from Lanzhou, and I often heard him say that he and this classmate were not separated from each other when they put together the meal tickets at school, and this time they also brought Lanzhou specialties to us, so they should be courteous. The scarves and bags I gave to my classmates were all handmade by me, and they were praised by this classmate. sent away his classmates, and at night he got angry for no reason, and used the question to play......

I went out in tears that day, braved the rain, pulled the tow box, walked to the door of my house, hesitated and did not knock on the door. What happens if my daughter sees it? I stayed at the Jinjiang Inn near my house for one night, and the next day I waited for my daughter to go to work before opening the door and entering...... The idea of divorce began to sprout.

After calming down for a few days, I emailed my husband:

Hello husband.

That night I stumbled in the wind and rain, and I couldn't tell whether it was tears or rain on my face........

I opened the mailbox and revisited our letters, and I was very emotional. If according to the original plan, you go to work within three years, and I am a housekeeper and an online store, I am afraid that those annoying things will be much less. When the relationship is solid, it will be easy to understand when you meet face to face at home at all times.

Before I retired, I was in the cultural circle, although I was not very good, but everyone commented that I was "good at the hall and good at the kitchen", because people always think that women with good literature are not good at housework. Ten years of singleness, let alone good at taking care of men, (you are the first man I took care of with all my heart), so that you have a lot of dissatisfaction. Because of self-knowledge, I looked for someone who was a little older, thinking that I could be tolerated and pampered, but now it seems that this idea is too naïve.

I've been thinking about it repeatedly in the past few days, what my husband needs is your brother-in-law's sister-in-law's type of wife, and I'm not suitable for you. I know that my husband loves me, and his temper has gotten a lot better at the beginning, but once it comes, it's hard to control. I am grateful for my husband's love, but I don't want to upset you because of my stubbornness.

My daughter is not married, I try to open an online store, and I also want to have more money to prepare a dowry, and I don't want to drag you down for this. Please understand me! Wife

A few days later, I received a reply from my husband:

Hello wife!

After you left that day, I also thought a lot: why is it so difficult to remarry; Can we still go on? I've also thought about breaking up; I also want to communicate well, and both sides are under their own constraints.

Reading your letter, your honesty, reminds me of your goodness: your diligence; Your loyalty to your home and to me; Take care of my life. Even though I was careless at times, I was happy and glad I had a good partner. It is really not right to think about our conflicts, quarrels, or trivial matters in life. However, the time we spent in love and affection is still a lot, and we still haven't had any grudges between us, which I think you will feel the same way as me. I admit that sometimes my temper is bad, and I am willing to communicate well again, and both sides are under their own constraints, okay?

When I calm down, think about the three years of married life, we have relied on each other, these days I am dumb again, the rules of life are chaotic again, and the fun is gone. You can't do without me, I'll help you with the wall tomorrow.

"Life is full of tribulations, and it will be sweet, especially when it comes to remarriage", this is what marriage experts say. Thinking of this, I am also calm, I am willing to hold my wife's hand again tomorrow. Wait for me to pick you up tomorrow. Husband

The next day, my husband suddenly called me to take me to see the newly bought house on Long Island, saying that it would be used for our vacation in the future. Of course, I understand that this is the reason for borrowing the house to make me change my mind, and the natural element of admitting mistakes is also in it...... I went as promised, and who let me have him in my heart!

On the way to drive, I learned that he bought a two-bedroom apartment, and the money was not enough, so I borrowed some from a friend. I persuaded him to change the one-bedroom apartment, as long as the two of us were able to live, there was no need to pay the debt at an old age. He happily accepted......

The third time, because I was asked to leave the cheongsam team (to be exact, to leave the male leader of the club), I was really going to divorce. Before applying for the certificate, the news came that he had cancer......

My best friend persuaded me that it was because he loved me too much, but this way of loving me was a little overwhelming......

However, for the sake of his love for me, I have to be "low-key" and "low-key", especially now that he is sick, and I will try to make my husband a little more pleasant......