Cloudy June 22
Hurry up, even the bread is eaten in the car, and I rushed to Huashan North Courtyard before half past seven in the morning, thinking that I would be able to obtain the expert number.
Looking at the nurse at the pre-examination table and accepting the medical insurance card and inserting it into the computer, "Oh, the expert number is full", "Ah......" I took the medical insurance card in disappointment, "You can go to the registration appointment office opposite to make an appointment for the next time", what an understanding nurse lady!
I made an appointment for the specialist clinic on the 24th and hurried to the parking lot. My husband was waiting in the car for me to tell him to come! Every time, I notified him to come over after the formalities were completed, because he couldn't stand the cold air of the central air conditioner.
Recently, I've been tossing about liver function, and I can't take care of other things. Maybe it's the distraction and his complaints less.
In addition to eating and sleeping, he sat on the sofa and watched anti-Japanese war movies. When he couldn't see me, he looked for me, "Wife, where are you"?
It had become a routine every day, he would lie on the three-seater sofa and watch TV, and I would sit on the single sofa next to me and hook my shawl when I had free time after finishing my housework.
Because of the seed implantation, it is said that it is necessary to keep a distance, but every day and night, in addition to moving the small bed to the opposite side of the large room, it is inevitable to have close contact. In order not to make him feel lost, I can only "sacrifice my life to accompany the gentleman".
After we got married, our lives have always been carefree, and we have long been accustomed to watching TV with my husband. Sometimes when I go upstairs to do something, my husband will call out, "Wife, come down and watch TV......
He likes to lie on the couch and watch TV, and in order to get me closer, he prefers to curl up his legs and make sure that I sit on the three-seater sofa. He enjoys this warmth very much, and when he sees the love scene of the protagonist in the TV series, he can't help but grab my hands, and learn the lines on TV, "I love you so much, please let me kiss you", and I often laugh and break free from his embrace......
I still watch TV with him, but he has to watch me sit on the single sofa to feel at ease. Sometimes when I see a place of forgetfulness and wants to get close to me, I think that there are radioactive particles in my body, and I quickly retreat.
Mr. is a man of temperament, and if his personality had been a little more gentle, I don't think we would have had such unpleasant things before......
After the newlywed, once because of his anxiety, I reminded him in the form of an email:
Dear husband, thank you for your understanding and care! I believe that we will always love and accompany each other. Here's an excerpt from a love quote to encourage each other:
It is a joy and happiness for two people who love each other to be together.
Because it is not easy, we should cherish it more, and don't understand it until we lose it; In the same way, love requires inclusion.
I remember that there is a saying that people who love each other have the warmest hearts for each other.
If you fall in love with someone, please, please be gentle with him or her. Love your wife deeply
The sir wrote back to me:
Hello wife!
It's the first time I've addressed you like that in an email, and I'm both affectionate and proud. The kind thing is that my wife is very careful and gentle, and sent me the previous letters again, so that I can relive the process of acquaintance and let me appreciate the hard-won love between the two of us; I'm proud that I finally have you - my tranquility, I'm a success.
I also know that we still have a long way to go, and our happy days are still ahead, and you and I still have to work hard. I will remember the words of the two of us hugging together in the bed the night before, understanding, trust, and tolerance are the eternal foundation of our love, which is the true foundation that we should understand in the past few months of getting along, and the key for the two of us to grow old.
Tranquility, some time ago, our unhappiness was due to my temper being too upright and too impatient, please forgive me, and I am sorry to you. Love your husband deeply.
…… How many times, in this form, we have resolved the contradiction and reconciled again.
Sometimes, words that cannot be said face-to-face will have an unexpected effect than the straightforwardness of the face through the decoration of words.
Maybe that's why I chose a cultured gentleman as my lifelong partner.