In the morning, we went to the community hospital for infusion, and the nurses all knew us. "Changing the dressing"?" Yes, the previous medicine did not work, and the medicine was re-prescribed." The gentleman pointed to one of the pill boxes and told the doctor to hang it slowly, and the nurse agreed.

After sitting down and starting the infusion, the nurse told the back bag to be hung slowly. The gentleman took out the instruction manual hidden in his pocket, because it was accidentally torn by the nurse yesterday, I was very impressed, and my first reaction was that the gentleman pointed to the wrong medicine box, but he stubbornly said that it was not wrong. This is a matter of life, I have to ask the nurse to prove it, and the nurse also said that he made a mistake, and quickly adjusted the switch that was being hoisted to the slowest gear.

There are too many similar examples in life, and I often make each other very unhappy, and I understand why he tests my patience when I meet before marriage.

That appointment to meet in Guilin Park was the second time we met. I arrived as promised, but he never showed up, and the phone said that he was in the wrong place and couldn't make it to the moment. After waiting for about an hour, the late autumn wind blew on my body, and I felt cold, I wanted to give up and leave, but I felt that people didn't mean to, so wait! Speaking from the bottom of my heart, I've prepared the wording to say no.

I took refuge in the porter of the park, and when he finally came, he caught my hands when he saw me, apologized, and took me by the hand to the bench by the park's tree-lined path, and said that he had decided that I was the other half of what he was looking for, and talked about his plans for the future with great interest. I was so caught up in the hope of a beautiful future that I forgot the words I had prepared......

After we got married, my husband once inadvertently confessed that the delay was deliberate, in order to test my patience, because he knew that he was impatient. His previous marriage made him unbearable, and he wanted to find a gentle woman to accompany him for life.

However, the gentle intellect that I was praised by all did not satisfy him, and perhaps what he needed was a wife who was absolutely obedient to him. He didn't expect that I was a soft and rigid woman, and I had a clear view of right and wrong, and I had principles of life.

Two things happened after the marriage that invisibly broke our harmony.

At the end of the year, there was a sharp knock on the door outside, and as soon as the door opened, several men rushed in, shouting at my husband, "When are we going to pay our money?"

Gradually, I understood that it was my husband who introduced the two companies to cooperate, and he was the guarantor. The other party's advance payment was unsuccessful in the project, and if he couldn't get the money, he naturally found a guarantor.

Seeing that the situation was getting hot, I hurriedly stepped forward and said politely, my husband is the guarantor and can cooperate with you to collect debts, but it will take time, and your company will cooperate with you. The leader of the other party agreed, and gave a one-month deadline......

Closing the door, I urged my husband to start the operation immediately, unexpectedly, the money was already in his account, I remembered that for a long time there was always a phone call that he did not answer, it turned out to be a debt collector...... I don't know why. Fortunately, he quickly remitted the money.

I didn't expect that the scenes I only saw in the film would actually appear in my life, and I can't help but say that it left a shadow in my heart.

In the summer of four years ago, a colleague whom he called "Sister A" invited him to gather six more people and her team to go to Changxing for the summer, and the uncle's family was invited.

When I arrived at the destination, I found that the uncle and his party were the worst rooms, and the next day, four people checked out and went home...... The day before returning to Shanghai, the "elder sister" quietly came to our room, and after muttering for a while, my husband came to me with 300 yuan, saying that it was a "kickback". I only felt that my head was "buzzing", and I instinctively took a step back, "No, we can't take this money", and the atmosphere was very awkward for a while......

This incident greatly affected my liking for him...... Maybe as my daughter said, I don't eat the fireworks of the world, and I make a bit of a fuss, because this is a common "unspoken rule" in society. Does this count as a disagreement between the three views?