My husband's condition has improved greatly, and after breakfast, he can finally go for a walk in the sun, and before leaving, he said that he would eat a large row of noodles at noon.

The spirit is better, and he is "picky" again as before, "Wife, you are too wasteful, Ma Lan's head only needs to be removed from the yellow leaves"...... Actually, I just picked up the old stalks, I frowned slightly, turned around and walked away.

I remember that we were newly married, and my daughter's gift was to book a round-trip air ticket and hotel for us to travel to Yunnan on the Internet, and before returning to Shanghai, I bought a small bag of tea for the catwalk teacher at the airport, because the teacher had brought back a piece of cheongsam fabric to me when he went abroad.

Looking at the delicately packaged tea leaves in my hand, he suddenly changed his face and blamed me for not buying them in ordinary stores. In an instant, it was like a basin of cold water poured on my head. I didn't want to argue outside, but he chattered after him, and I finally couldn't help it, "Husband, please make it clear, I also have a retirement salary, do I have to ask you first to buy a bag of tea and give it away?" My "counterattack" stunned him, maybe he thought that I usually whispered softly and would obey him, but he didn't expect it...... He took the initiative to take out his gold card and led me to the airport lounge......

Our economic conditions are not bad, but every time we travel, we are not happy. I wanted to go to the supermarket to buy packaged souvenirs for his younger siblings, and he insisted on buying them from the stalls, saying that his family was more affordable and there was no need to make a false set.

He knew that I was not used to it, and once explained to me that because my family was poor when I was a child, and I was the eldest, I followed my mother to dig wild vegetables after studying, and after being admitted to a technical school, in order to save fare, I had to walk several stops......

Maybe it's because of the age difference, he is the eldest who helps his mother share the burden of the family, I am my mother's pampered little daughter, and different life philosophies often cause conflicts between us. Such trivial matters have happened repeatedly in our lives, and the edge of the bowl he brought from his old residence was not allowed to be thrown away, and a set of blue and white porcelain bowls I bought from the Internet has always become an ornament; When my daughter came to eat, he kept reminding me not to buy too much food, so as not to waste it; When you see a large item thrown in the hallway by someone else in the building, drag it back and say that it can come in handy later...... I feel like I've won the jackpot, is he "Grande"? I'm not used to paying more attention to the quality of life, but when I think of the long-term family environment that has created his living habits, I try not to mind.

I tried to think about his good, for example, I liked the blue and white porcelain short cheongsam, and he would pay for me to buy it outside my home, but on the condition that I could only wear it when I was with him; When crossing the street, he would hold my hand tightly with his big and generous hands; Dining in a restaurant outside, I don't like to eat vegetable stalks, he doesn't dislike eating the leftover vegetable stalks from my bite leaves; Every time I come back from a trip, I will be subsidized with some of the money; As long as I like it, he will let me go first.

After he fell ill last year, I posted a poem on the website on the circle of friends, expressing my yearning for a beautiful love:

If you were my lover / I would like to be your close friend / Take your big hand / Browse the mountains and rivers all the way

If you are my lover / I would like to be your favorite little sister / tease your witty / coquettish smile and raise your eyebrows.

If you are my lover / I would like to be your confidante / Listen to your heart / Warmth is better than poetry

If you were my lover / I would like to be your romantic lover / With my singing / The sound of the piano surrounds the evergreen vines.

If you are my lover / I would like to be your lifelong partner / strong and gentle / hand in hand to embark on a journey of happiness

After reading my poem, the gentleman wrote his heart:

Thank you for your love, wife! You're my favorite! You're my little sister! Yours my lover! You are my lifelong companion!

My friends are very envious that I have a husband who loves me and praises us as a loving couple.

Maybe life is like this, as long as the heart is full of sunshine, everything in the world is still so beautiful.