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And these regrets can be very painful and painful, but we can't just dwell on this kind of life. It's about doing what you have to do, trying things that you have never experienced before.
Even if we know that the road ahead is very difficult, we will be dissatisfied, but as long as we try, it is possible to succeed, if we don't try, no matter how many things we think about, no matter how many thoughts we have, in the end there is still no way to achieve it. Because the fulfillment of any goal and any wish lies in practice.
Only when we learn to practice and work hard can we achieve something.
If we don't learn how to work hard and time, then in the end we can't do anything, we won't get anything.
Is it good to understand such a truth? The answer is obviously no, and we should know that we must learn it from now on. Because human life is very short, if we are not careful, time will be fleeting.
Then days, days, days, hundreds of days slipped past us, and when we woke up again, we would wonder why time passed so quickly, why it was so fast that we didn't even react.
For many people are like this, they didn't realize how precious time is at that time, how precious a wealth is for a person, some people because they are young, so they don't feel the preciousness of time, when they grow up, feel that the body begins to degenerate, at that time they realize that their time is so short, in the original time is so precious, if he doesn't cherish it, it may have consumed all the time, In the end, nothing came of it.
Some people may understand this truth, but they just can't control themselves, and they just can't get things done.
We sympathize with such people, but there is no way, this is the way it is in this world, that is, some people always do not work hard, and it is because of this effort that it is particularly important, if everyone works hard, then this world is more by virtue of talent and luck, at this time, the world seems so unfair.
Because such a world is determined by nature. , in this way, it corresponds to the person who wants to grow up the day after tomorrow, which is undoubtedly a very terrible result and reality.
Presumably, no one wants to accept such a cruel and unforgiving society.
Therefore, God is fair to give some good conditions for being born, but they may have some flaws in their character, which leads to their acquired good conditions, and if they don't work hard, the good conditions they give innate cannot be fully brought into play, and in the end, they will not form a fixed gap with others, and will be left behind by those who may be far inferior to them.
In this way, it is actually the fairest for everyone, and the poor congenital conditions can also be compensated for by acquired diligence, which is equivalent to giving them hope, rather than the kind of despair that is determined by nature.
Otherwise, there will be no such sentence that people will win the day, as long as a person works hard enough, firmly enough to believe that he can do it and work hard for it, in the end, even if there is no way to complete it to the point where he wants, but he can also do it** not far from ten, can do ** not far from ten, to some extent it is already very good and very good, almost not many people can do this level, even if there are very few people who can do this level.
People who do such things or are close to such a level are all dragons and phoenixes. I may have many people who say they are envious, but those who envy them say that they don't know how much they have put in behind their backs, and how unimaginable the effort it is.
If we had known, we might not have had that kind of thought, and maybe at that time we would have realized how naïve and ignorant our original thoughts were.
There is no love for no reason in the world, and there is no person for no reason, and there is no gain and loss for no reason, and many things have a causal connection and a causal relationship.
Basically, everything has his logic in it, and sometimes we don't observe carefully, we may not be able to find out, but when we make observations, when we go into the lives of people we envy, we can find out what kind of situation it is.
Without understanding, we may make wrong assessments, and under wrong assessments, we will also have wrong ideas and wrong ideas. Persisting in the wrong thoughts, it is only possible to make our mentality unbalanced, and we will feel why life is so unfair. Why do others have it but you don't have why, these things can't be obtained by yourself, obviously you have paid so much, but you don't know that their efforts and others' efforts are not at all on the same order of magnitude.
Therefore, the final reward is not the same, and to a certain extent, it is understandable, although it is understandable, but they may not understand such a truth, they will only subjectively think that these are not their mistakes, these are other people's mistakes, they are all God's injustice, and it is because of God's injustice that they will get such a result. Otherwise, why is this happening, it is indeed normal for them to have this kind of thinking, because they only see their own and do not see others, so they can understand to some extent when their mentality is unbalanced, but this mentality is definitely wrong.
Because their understanding is fundamentally wrong, they are like taking the initiative to report to the whole world, they don't know that there is a correct cognition, they don't have a correct concept, when they don't have a correct concept and a correct understanding. It's understandable that they think that way.
Understanding is understanding, but their behavior is definitely not reasonable and legal. The reason why such a thing occurs is that some people are too arbitrary, and the facts tell us that it is best for us not to be too arbitrary and rash to draw conclusions before fully recognizing a thing.
This is very unprofitable and unreasonable, and they may not realize the limitations and narrowness of their approach at first.
When they really understand and understand, they will realize how ridiculous their actions are, not only will they not make themselves happy, but they will also be physically and mentally tortured, and the result of physical and mental torture may be physical and mental exhaustion.
As a result of his physical and mental exhaustion, they may feel extremely painful and uncomfortable.
This truth is very simple, but not everyone is clear and clear, but Xiao Ming has already understood this fact at a young age.
And he also has a deep experience.
When he was a child, he did envy when he saw others encounter that thing, but he also knew the fact that this project was useless to some extent, and he also thought about why there was such a huge gap between others and himself.
At first, he couldn't figure it out, but gradually he did.
There is a good saying, the sky descends on the people! They must first suffer their minds, and second, they will work their muscles and bones, empty their actions, and gain what they cannot.
Then he subjectively thought that maybe this was why he was born different, although he also knew that he did not necessarily have such a heavy responsibility, but he said that such an experience was also a great wealth to some extent.
This kind of wealth may be something that many people crave in their lifetimes, and this experience is unique and rare.
Maybe he has this kind of experience, and it can't make him great enough, but in this kind of experience, he must be able to gain and get a lot of things, at least he has gained some experience and some experience.
And after having that painful experience, others will become much stronger. If he had not had such an experience, and he was born conscious, like other added value, then he would never have been able to live well, and he would never have had such tenacious integrity.
In many cases, tenacious conduct is also closely related to the unique experience of the individual, when a person's life is worse, but he is not defeated, then the result must be very unique.
To a certain extent, he has surpassed many people, and even has the necessary bottleneck for success, perhaps only a little accumulation, they can get a new life and undergo a huge transformation, and then go farther and farther on the road of life in the future, others may envy them more and more, but as everyone knows, they have become like that, how many hardships and sins they have suffered in the past, all of this is unimaginable.
However, even if it is unimaginable, as long as your body is not deprived too much, as long as your dignity is not devastated and blown, then after finally standing up again, the earth has a hard heart that cannot be broken by steel, and with such a heart in the face of the future, it will definitely be able to overcome obstacles and do well when encountering difficulties.
Then rely on his own strength to walk on the precious pinnacle throne that others can not reach.
It is true that it is a very enviable thing to have a good family background and family at the beginning, but born in such a family, it is very likely that because life is too smooth sailing, so that they have no way to experience, what kind of pain is it, and people have not experienced pain and frustration for too long, then when they encounter conflicts and setbacks for the first time or again, their body and mind will feel extremely uncomfortable and extremely uncomfortable.
Even once in the eyes of others is just a small blow, in their eyes it seems that they can't bear it, for example, when the time comes, the eyes of others may not be a much uncomfortable thing for those who have grown up in the inside, but for these people, it may be a thing that destroys their body and mind, and they will grow up smoothly from a young age, without setbacks, causing them to think that life is very good, and their self-esteem is extraordinarily strong.
Therefore, when they encounter something simple and very small, they are knocked down at once, and it is incomprehensible and unreasonable in the eyes of others, but the reality is so, even if it seems illogical in their eyes, it is still an ironclad fact.
But do they have some life principles hidden behind this matter, they take it for granted, but in fact they don't take it for granted, they take it for granted, it's just because they have such a unique experience, so they feel that you are affected, but when they have other people's experience, it may not be, and what they take for granted, in the eyes of their rich children, may be an extraordinary thing, For example, when they buy something and send hundreds of taels or three thousand gold and silver, they may not blink their eyes, but for the poor people, they may feel that such money has as much money as the sky, and they have never seen them in their lives, how can they spend this money so easily and without burden?
Why do they have such a mentality, even if they can understand it to a certain extent, but they can't experience that they spend so much money, this state of mind at that time, they will only feel that so much money is spent, and they will feel like a loser.
And I also feel very unbelievable, if they often spend money like this, won't it be very painful in their hearts? On the contrary, they do not feel pain in their hearts, they do not feel ashamed, and they do not feel the slightest burden.
Such experiences are completely different from their experiences and their thoughts, incomprehensible, in fact, to a certain extent, they are also a kind of understanding, sometimes it seems that we live under the same world as other people, but in fact we are in two different worlds, two very different worlds, he can say that there is a world of difference, as if the gap between man and animal is much greater.
After not going through the supervision of social employees, many people may not understand this truth, they will subjectively think that the vast majority of people in the world are similar to themselves, your worst is not much, not not at all, but in fact it is not the case, living in this world The gap between people and people is very large to varying degrees, some people may be endless every day, but some people may not even have enough to eat every day, even eating a full meal is a luxury, and wanting to eat meat is also a delusion. Please keep in mind: Lily, website mobile version computer version, lily free fastest update no anti-theft, no anti-theft, error chapter Ask for a book Looking for a book, please add the lily book friend group QQ group number 548944127