Chapter 599: Marriage is really different
Shen Yufang listened to Shen Yumei's praise for a full hour, how powerful Xie Linsong was, how handsome he was.
Shen Yufang asked, "Then I'll be with Xie Linsong, don't want Chen Zhiguo, okay?" ”
Shen Yumei nodded excitedly, "Okay, okay." ”
Shen Yufang: "......"
fickleness is synonymous with women, Shen Yumei admired Chen Zhiguo at the beginning!
Shen Yufang lost, and asked dejectedly, "Sanniu, what's wrong with you?" Did you come all the way to me just to say how good Xie Linsong was? Are you here to see me, or are you here to see a handsome guy? ”
"Sister, I'm divorced." When Shen Yufang thought that Shen Yumei was going to continue to praise Xie Linsong, Shen Yumei had already picked up a sweet potato and spoke to Shen Yufang in a light tone while gnawing on it.
Shen Yufang's hand peeling the apple almost hit her own hand, Shen Yumei quickly held the knife, "Sister, don't cut it, I almost hurt you, how delicious it is to eat with the skin, I like to eat with the skin, if you don't like it, I'll cut it for you." ”
"Don't eat it." Shen Yufang pressed Shen Yumei's hand, "What's wrong?" ”
Shen Yufang has only been married for more than half a year, why did she get divorced?
The last time she received a letter from Shen Yumei, Shen Yumei excitedly said that she was going to get married, and in a blink of an eye, Shen Yumei divorced?
Shen Yumei flattened her mouth aggrievedly, "Sister, he said that I couldn't give birth, so I left him." ”
Shen Yumei looked at Shen Yufang as if begging for affirmation and said, "Sister, when I got married, they urged me to have children, and I didn't want it at first, so they told my parents, and my parents were very angry, so I asked me to give birth quickly, and give birth to a few more while I was young, so that my in-laws would like me." ”
"Later, I wanted to give birth, but my stomach didn't move, and my mother-in-law said that I might have a problem with my body, and said that my eldest sister couldn't give birth to a child, and she gave birth to one and died, so it must be that we can't eat well, dress warmly, and our body is not good."
"I'm not convinced, eldest sister, that's because she was kicked and gave birth prematurely, and when the eldest sister was pregnant and gave birth, what kind of crime did she suffer, and the child was always ruined before dying, what does it have to do with the eldest sister, and our family doesn't eat well?"
Shen Yumei said in a weak tone, "I quarreled with my mother-in-law, and then my father-in-law and mother-in-law didn't like me anymore, and my husband only listened to his mother, and he didn't like me anymore, saying that I was uneducated and vulgar." ”
Shen Yumei's mouth was flattened, she has no education or knowledge, she is such a person, she has not changed, when her husband married her back, when her mother-in-law agreed to this family business, don't you know what kind of character she is?
Why didn't you dislike it at the beginning, but now you start picking and choosing again?
"My parents told me to have a child, and our relationship was fine, I wondered if I couldn't give birth to a baby, would I really have any problems, they always said that I was too thin, and said that I had ADHD, anyway, I didn't understand, I thought about going to the hospital to check my body, but the doctor said I was fine."
Shen Yumei pouted as she spoke, "I went back with the report, the doctor told me that not being able to give birth to a child was a problem between both parties, and he suggested that my husband also go to the hospital to check and see what was wrong." ”
"I told them that night when we had dinner together, but they got even angrier and said I had slandered their son."
"Sister, they haven't paid much attention to me since then, I talked for a long time, but no one told me, they said that what I said was too vulgar, and talking to me lowered their grade."
Shen Yufang's hand clenched into a fist lightly.
What kind of family...... Do you really think you can fly into the sky?
What grade are they?
Obviously he didn't dare to admit his problem, he was annoyed and angry, and he actually used such cold violence to treat a young girl.
"I also bumped into my mother-in-law going around telling people that there was something wrong with my body."
"I went back and asked them why I had to tell others like this when I was in good health, and they said that I must have taken a fake examination report, if I was in good health, how could I not have children, and they also said that if I couldn't have children, it was a girl's problem, and men couldn't have any problems, I just shirked my responsibility, saying that I was an irresponsible person, and my family education was not good."
Shen Yumei lowered her head as she spoke, stopped eating, and said playing with her fingers.
"Sister, getting married is really different from what I imagined."
"Before I got married, I also went to my husband's house a few times, my mother-in-law and father-in-law are very good, and they are very good to me, I said that I am not very good at working, since I was a child, the work at home has been done with the help of my sisters, sewing, these are just general, I can't cook well, my mother doesn't always let you and my eldest sister do it, I can't cook."
"I was playing tricks on my mind at that time, and I thought about making me unbearable, and they would accept me like this, and when they came in the door, they found that I was much better than they thought, and they would like me more."
"They all said at the beginning that his daughter-in-law didn't have to work, my father-in-law also said that he just likes to cook, and he doesn't need others to do it, saying that my mother-in-law has never cooked in her life, and my parents also said that his family has a son, and he doesn't have to worry about the rest of his life when he gets married, although my husband doesn't speak, but he will secretly hold my hand when no one is around, and praise me for being beautiful, saying that I have a good personality and liveliness, and he hopes that he will find a wife who loves to talk and laugh."
Shen Yufang looked at Shen Yumei, did not interrupt Shen Yumei's words, and listened quietly.
It's just that Shen Yufang's hands have been clenched into fists.
"But when I got married, I found out that his family is richer than our family, but they are even richer than our family, and if they eat too much, they laugh and say that I have to eat less, and say that being fat is not good for my health, our family's conditions are good now, although my parents are reluctant to buy fish and meat, and buy fine grains, but coarse grains or something are also made to be full, although my parents always say that I eat more, but they don't say that they don't let me eat."
"His family doesn't eat at night, I'm hungry and uncomfortable, but I can't help it, I don't know anyone in the city, I went to Director Yang's house for a few meals at the beginning, but I also want to have a face, where to go to someone's house every day, I complained to my husband, my husband said that the minority obeys the majority, I did something wrong, I have to find a way to change myself, instead of letting the environment change with me."
"I think what he said makes sense, but I'm really going crazy hungry, I don't have a penny on me, I have to ask them for anything, every time I open my mouth, I feel very ashamed, I have a cold, they stay away from me, saying I can't infect them."
"My husband always said that he was very good to me, that I was not content, and later, when I wanted to have children, when I didn't want to go out, my husband said that I was useless, that any woman on the street could have children, that I had a bad temper, that I was too irritable, that he was very regretful, that he should have seen more, at least to find someone with a similar family background to him, in the county, said that I was too difficult to communicate, said that I couldn't understand what he said, and said that he couldn't understand me."