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Don't get carried away with listening to too much chicken soup for the soul, you must know that most of us are still extremely ordinary, if we choose diamonds when we should have been convinced, it is very likely to cause a blow at this time, some people may be able to survive, but maybe more people are unable to survive.
If you bury your future for such a ridiculous reason, if I lose something, to be honest, it is really very regrettable, so when we can choose to forbear and choose to hibernate, we must not make it, and failure to do it may lead us to fall into a place of no return. You must know that we only have one life, sometimes once we do something wrong, there is no room for reversal, don't think that you have how special you are, don't think that you are the one who is drummed up, if we only have this idea at the beginning, then we are extremely dangerous, don't think that you do this, there is no risk at all, you must know that what you do at your own time, we may not be aware of it at first. But we don't know we're missing a conversation until we realize it, and that means it's a little late. Even though we can't predict a lot of the future at any time, if we go straight and try our best to fight for it, we can definitely get some of it to some extent.
In a word, don't be arrogant at the same time, don't be too arrogant, both of these are extreme, take the mean posture is the best, but the mean is also an extremely particular technology, this is a technical work, not as simple as words, at this time we need to constantly reflect, continue to learn, continue to lose as a person and themselves, so that the past self and the present self comparison, so that after continuous comparison, you can get a more correct answer.
In fact, the most difficult point is whether we can persist for a long time. If you can't, you're just vain now.
Sometimes reality is brutal. But the cruelty of reality is often not as we imagined, we certainly know that this reality is cruel, but in the cruelty, there are those people who have a turnaround, but this turnaround is not easy for anyone to find, for those who have a keen eye, and can be very clear and quick to capture, but for people with mediocre qualifications for larger books, it is particularly difficult to capture this hope, so we must be psychologically prepared before, difficulty does not mean impossible, There is still a glimmer of hope if we try, and if we don't try, there is no hope at all.
As long as we want to change the current situation in our hearts, then there is only one way to choose in front of us, that is, to break through the encirclement in front of us, combined with the life we want, these want to get the life is really difficult to find, but as long as we don't give up, there will be a glimmer of hope, our efforts can continue to amplify this hope, and we can also let us find it with others first, the sooner it is discovered, then the greater the possibility of us holding it, because there are limited opportunities, When you know that the fewer people there are, the more you can become a business opportunity, an opportunity to counterattack, but when a thing is overly guarded by people, it will become a thing that the general public can see, then there is no so-called business opportunity and opportunity at this time.
But many people may be very discouraged at first, they feel that they can see the opportunity, so does it show that others can see it too? So they naturally give up, they don't want to compete with so many people, because they feel that their qualifications are mediocre, and if they compete, it is almost a waste of time, and it is not good to rest and rest and have fun, but this is really the case, in fact, it may not be necessarily.
Sometimes, of course, most of us like to see this kind of opportunity, and many people have seen it, but we don't rule out the accidental coat, if at this time we mistakenly believe that what we see is what everyone else can see, or what most people can always see, then the last role that comes out of this, then we must give up the book when we are not free, in case we make people really find it in advance, and it happens to be discovered in advance from a certain angle. As a result, he lost himself due to his wrong cognition, and it is a great pity that such a good opportunity is contested.
Some things will never come out again once they are missed, and the old man will also put the opportunity in front of us, but because of our arrogant and blind cognition, we have missed such a thing yesterday in vain, many people can't ask for it, but we are so conceited that it is just like this. After that, if you see with your own eyes that such an opportunity is taken away by others, and you miss it, then in this case, this Rao body and mind will be hit by a huge blow, some people may faint when they can't stand it, and some people in it will hold on, but it will definitely leave a huge scar in the depths of the heart, such a scar may take many years, and there is no way to completely heal.
At this time, we can always have all kinds of reluctance and all kinds of discomfort in our hearts, and there is no way to change, because once some things are a foregone conclusion, it means that there is no way to reverse him, what we can do is to accept him, wait for the next opportunity to appear, and don't let this tragedy happen again.
Accept a wrong thing, accept a mistake of your own, to some extent, it is also a test of your own courage, we have less time to play as this person, there will be some unsatisfactory things on that side, if we are easily knocked down and chatting just because of a little unsatisfactory thing, then we are really so fragile even if we don't fall this time, we will fall in the next unknown life Zheng
It's really a simple blow, just like we remember to be broken here, so we might as well feel heartbroken as we go longer and longer, because in this way, maybe after we received such a devastation earlier, we are very willful and think that such a thing is just a commonplace, so that we realize the cruelty of this society, what we have to do is to after each setback, several heads stand up and take the lead in smiling, even if there are tears in their eyes, they grit their teeth and move forward firmly, To move forward firmly, the new opportunities we adopt can have a new turnaround, to be able to innocently live up to those who we have high hopes for, they may not have the means to help us much, but we have to admit that from the bottom of our hearts we know that they have done their best to help us, but their ability is limited, there is no way to do better, if they have more things, maybe they can give us more, and what we need to do at this time is to accept him, accept him.
And don't let those who care about us and confront us be hurt more, sometimes they may just not be able to control themselves, make some things uncomfortable, but psychologically, they still pray that we can make changes, or pray that we can live better, but they are not saints, it is impossible to control their temper anytime and anywhere, so this also determines that they can not give us a good feeling at any time and at any time, but in the heart, They may be the ones who can give the most to themselves besides themselves, and they are also the ones who can give themselves to meet us.
We also know how difficult it is to give a Rao root to others, but they can give us their heart, so why should we not cherish them at this time? There is a good saying, contentment is always happy, we sometimes have to learn to be content, don't be ambitious, don't think too much, everything we think is just some good and bad thoughts, in reality there can not be so many perfect things, what we have to do is to accept it.
Don't think too unrealistically, we go to receive everything around us, we appropriately lower our expectations, then we can become a lot happier, now many people feel dissatisfied and not satisfied, but to some extent their requirements are too high, at this time we only need to lower the requirements a little, then our life, our life may have a huge turnaround, under this turnaround is hidden is our lost happiness, We will regain that innocent pleasure that we have lost for many years.
Don't think that such things are not worth it, such things are absolutely worth it, because if we act to implement the after-sales service, it is impossible to be perfect, then what awaits us in the end in front of us, it must be something that makes us regret for life, because because of our tendency to perfection, we miss a lot of good things, when we look back when we are old, we find how ridiculous and ignorant we are at that time.
At that time, we finally had a reluctance, no matter how much regret there was to change, because the truth has become a sure thing, what we can do is to change as much as possible in the foreseeable future, but sometimes it is more difficult to change a thing than to achieve a thing.
Especially when everything has been done, we want to reverse, we want to change it, which involves a lot of conflicts, involves a lot of trade-offs, some of which are enough to cause headaches, so many knights' performance, other difficulties are constantly superimposed, and finally the psychological burden and pressure caused to people can be imagined, many people have no way to bear that kind of thing.
Well, we don't overestimate our ability, there are some things we don't want to over, to tease him more, because the result of provoking them may just be their own body bruises, will not live anything, but sometimes we need to face it with perseverance, even if the sanitary ware is unsatisfactory, but responsible for Rao, sometimes Rao believes that some things are more important than victory, such as a Rao dignity, such as a person who cares, for that person, even if it involves his own life, otherwiseEven if we keep our own lives, but because we don't have all the strength to protect each other, we will live and regret for life, and we will feel endless pain in our hearts for life, and we will live in the land of endless torture every day, and no one can bear the feeling of being imprisoned in the spiritual world.
On the one hand, when we get down, we will become insensitive, and our personality will be bruised all over our body, and our nature will be distorted to a certain extent, can we still call ourselves when we get ourselves? My level didn't stay through as much pain, so what exactly is the torture for? What we have lost has been lost, my I love what is in this world to support our motivation to continue to live, sometimes people go deep, not only the flat person, but more people and creatures who need motivation are different from ordinary creatures, and there are people with rich emotions or rich emotional needs, if I love this world without emotion, without emotion to get, this person is extremely lonely.
It's like walking in the crowd with a mask, looking at the crowds of people, even though they are so crowded around us, we still feel extremely lonely, because they can't make us open our hearts to talk about our world, our inner world.
At this time, even if there are so many people around us, but we have different dreams, what's the point? We care so much about them, how can we truly treat them as our true partners? It is obviously difficult to do, or it is impossible to do it at all, as long as we are normal people at this time, we will feel extremely lonely and extremely painful, but what can we do at this time, I am afraid that there are not many things we can do, or we can do very few things to do, in fact, there is nothing to do, some people may face the world of despair, feel very painful, slowly immersed in a world, and gradually become more and more uncomfortable. Is such an approach desirable again? It is obviously undesirable to be too detached from society, to get along alone in this event, and slowly even if they do not suffer anything, their spirit will be greatly damaged, so that the most
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