202: Respect is mutual!
Dong Jinqiu devoted himself to preparing for the exam, but he didn't get the position of Xie Yuan.
Dong Jinqiu devoted himself to preparing for the exam, and after the exam, he packed up his mood and prepared to go to Beijing to participate in the spring festival in February next year, he was going to ask someone to pack his luggage, his mother said that he was good about his family, if he had no opinion, he would hurry up and handle the marriage!
If Dong Jinqiu could know the emoji of the era before Cheng Qing crossed over, he would definitely slowly put a question mark at this time.
"Mother, is this too sudden, my son has to prepare for next year's exam, so it is not appropriate to be distracted and marry a wife!"
Mrs. Dong has long figured out how to get along with a smart son.
It's not okay to reason with Dong Jinqiu, she doesn't have as much reason as Dong Jinqiu, so she doesn't listen to Dong Jinqiu's reasoning, so she can only follow her own pace.
Mrs. Dong smiled:
"Marrying a wife will not affect your participation in the examination, the family has already discussed, and when you become a relative, let your wife accompany you to Beijing, and someone will take care of your diet and daily life, we can rest assured!"
"But Mother—"
Dong Jinqiu still wanted to object, Mrs. Dong waved her hand: "There are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is the greatest, if you have that fate, you can win the champion with your eyes closed, and it has little to do with whether you marry a wife or not." ”
I don't know why, Dong Jinqiu felt a little pain in his knee.
He just lost his position as the Enlightened Yuan!
If it weren't for the fact that he looked similar to his mother, Dong Jinqiu would have suspected that he was not born to his mother.
What does it mean to take a wife.
The young lady is troublesome.
A strange little lady married into the Dong family and took over his life...... Dong Jinqiu resisted.
Mrs. Dong put away her laughter and said with Dong Jinqiu:
"You don't need to ask you if you agree to get married, who is married to a wife is not all the elders Zhang Luo, as long as the door is right and the little lady has a good character, then your life can always be good. However, the woman's family loves their daughter and insists on asking for your own opinion, if you don't want to, our two families don't have to look at each other. ”
The woman's family loves her daughter, and Mrs. Dong also loves her son.
Joking aside, she also wants Dong Jinqiu to be satisfied, when a mother doesn't want to see her son and daughter-in-law become a pair of resentful couples - of course, some ladies and wives can't see that their son and daughter-in-law have too good a relationship, and they are afraid that their son will marry his daughter-in-law and forget his mother, so he will stir up the relationship between young couples from time to time, there are many such people, but Mrs. Dong is not.
Let Dong Jinqiu be satisfied with the marriage, then Mrs. Dong will be even happier when she handles it.
When Dong Jinqiu heard this, he didn't resist so much for a while.
This is the woman's love for her daughter, and it is also a kind of respect for him, taking into account his feelings, she did not randomly stuff a little lady into him and forced him to marry.
When others respect him, he is not good at behaving rudely.
"Which daughter do you want me to marry?"
"Nanyi Cheng's family, there is no doubt about the upbringing of Cheng's daughters, Cheng's daughters are not concubines, this kind of integrity and pride are worthy of the lintel of the Dong family, and they are also worthy of my son."
Mrs. Dong looked at Dong Jinqiu's eyes very gently, her son is so good, he should be the best little lady.
Nanyi Cheng's daughter is not a concubine, and there are few men who take concubines, and there are few wives and concubines fighting.
The little lady with a harmonious family has nothing to do, so naturally she doesn't have to fight. When you enter the door, you won't think about how to subdue your husband, how to pinch your head out among the concubines, the Dong family has a large population, and Mrs. Dong really wants a daughter-in-law with a gentle temperament, and everything is prosperous in the family and talent!
Nanyi Cheng's family?
Cheng Qing is from Nanyi's Cheng family, and the one he wants to marry is not Cheng Qing's sister of the same clan!
Dong Jinqiu faintly felt bad.
"It's the young lady of Cheng's room."
But he heard his mother's cheerful tone, as if inviting merit, and told him: "The second room! Although it is the second room, their family has long been separated from the second room, speaking of which, you also know, Xie Yuan Cheng Qing of this year's township test, aren't you the same year, the one who wants to see you is Cheng Qing's eldest sister, this Cheng lady is one year older than you, my mother thinks it's just right, the older girl is stable, and she is more able to take care of people. ”
Cheng's second room, Cheng Qing's sister!
How many sisters does Cheng Qing have?
Dong Jinqiu reads books at a glance and ten lines, don't forget it, you can remember the content of reading it once.
With such a smart brain, it's a little impossible to turn at this time.
Mother is talking about Cheng Qing's eldest sister, that is Cheng Da Niang.
Mrs. Cheng and Ji Hao...... Ji Hao almost lost his life because of her serious illness, and now he can just get out of bed. If he looks at Mrs. Cheng and even marries Mrs. Cheng, how should Ji Hao feel!
Dong Jinqiu came back to his senses, and his first reaction was to refuse.
How do you know that Mrs. Dong's mouth is fast, and she added a few words with a calm face:
"Lord Cheng refused to go to the disaster relief silver, so he was killed, this is a loyal minister, and his children will naturally not be traitors. This Mrs. Cheng has no shortcomings, she dragged on to the age of twenty and did not set a marriage, because of filial piety, but also because of the previous withdrawal of a kiss was delayed, the mother sent someone to inquire, the withdrawal is not the fault of Mrs. Cheng and the Cheng family, you are a man, and you should be a little broad-minded, you can't hold on to this! ”
Miss Cheng withdrew from her family, and Dong Jinqiu's fiancée, who did not pass through the door, also died.
Mrs. Dong thinks that there are many good things, and she goes around and around, maybe God wants these two children to come together.
Dong Jinqiu was stunned when he heard this.
It's not that he's arrogant, the lintel of the Dong family is only higher than the Ji family.
His mother can look up to Mrs. Cheng because the Cheng family's family background is not bad, and Cheng Qing understands the yuan.
Then why does the Ji family think that Mrs. Cheng will agree to marry the Ji family, who wants to have two rooms?
Is it because Mrs. Cheng quit her family?
The Ji family despised Mrs. Cheng because of this, so the big thorn came to the door to propose marriage, and perhaps thought that being able to marry Ji Hao, who had two rooms, was already a very decent marriage that Mrs. Cheng could find - the Cheng family had to ask for their own opinions first, isn't it because of this.
If she refuses to look at each other, what will Mrs. Cheng think.
Will she feel that because she has withdrawn from her family, she is not worthy of finding the right family?
Dong Jinqiu's blurted out refusal turned into hesitation.
It may be that Ji Hao said too many words praising Mrs. Cheng when he was drunk, and he also took all the fault on himself, Dong Jinqiu not only felt that Mrs. Cheng was frivolous, but also had two points of inexplicable pity...... The words of refusal turned on the tip of Dong Jinqiu's tongue, and there was a change:
"Mother, let me think about it."
Mrs. Dong was afraid that this was a delaying tactic to not marry a wife, "How long do you want to think about it?" If you are willing, you are willing, if you are not willing, just say it, you think about it for a year or two, and also ask Miss Cheng to wait for you for a year or two? ”
Dong Jinqiu has a headache:
"Two days, and let my son think about two days, what you said is too sudden!"
Mrs. Dong nodded in satisfaction.
"Okay, let you think about it for two days, the Cheng family is still waiting for Xin'er."