I don't know if this is pure care and love for the other half, so that many people will marry their other half.

It seems that only in this way can it be proved that two people finally belong to each other, as if mainly because everyone is married.

At the same time, there is a desire to be like this, until old age, until eternity, just like this for the rest of my life.

Few people would say that eternity is a very bad thing, and most people yearn for eternity, and they all yearn for eternity.

But eternity is often unattainable, it is so sacred that it is almost impossible for mortals to reach it.

It's just that why people want something eternal, maybe more often than not, is to know exactly what they want.

Out of wanting to have all-round control over something, I just want to hold the other party firmly and never let go.

Let him stay by his side forever, and the two of them will grow old together, which sounds like a happy thing.

But Yao Qiao doesn't think so, more of what she wants is things that can change, not things that are immutable.

In addition, the partners are basically the same age as themselves, and they will not be too much different, but for the Son of Heaven and the masters of some large families, it may be different. After all, their status is a position that is simply unattainable for ordinary people.

When the Son of Heaven chooses concubines, he naturally wants to choose those young and beautiful girls, so that life can be more colorful.

And the concubines of large families will also have the same idea, which is not too much, since they exist, it makes sense.

When you are old, you naturally want to find the young, energetic kind, which is understandable, and you can't blame him.

Except in this case, most of the two people who are married are two people of the same age and about the same age.

will want to be together until old age, but because they are of the same age and most of their lives are the same, their life experiences will be similar.

It's just that under the power of nature, there will definitely be one person who will go before the other, and this is something that everyone knows.

It may be difficult for the remaining person to accept this fact, but it is the same as the loss of parents, these are the laws of nature.

Birth, old age, sickness and death are the normal state of life, how can anything change because someone can't accept it?

Similarly, when the partner dies one day, people will suddenly understand that love has long since become family affection.

And then gradually crumpled into life, it's just that it's hard for young people to realize this, only when the other person leaves.

Only then will you find out that it is cruel in this world, that is, even if two people who once loved each other again, in the end, one person goes before the other. Of course, in the long river of time, there is also such a group of people who are willing to change themselves.

Because they love too much, they finally find it difficult to accept the departure of their other half, which leads to the loss of their hearts and souls.

When their partner leaves, they don't have the courage to continue living, so they choose an extreme way.

To put it nicely, to be romantic, that's martyrdom. If it is ugly to say, in fact, this act is more like a funeral.

There are not a few such people, Yao Qiao can understand this kind of thinking, but she can't accept this kind of behavior, it's just confusing.

Yao Qiao felt that it was really self-evident, just because of the end of a certain life, to end his own life, just so that the two of them could not be born in the same year and month, but die in the same year and month. This kind of thinking is completely disrespectful to oneself and a blasphemy against life.

This is the most important psychological state, at any time can not give up your life, love life, love life.

As the most basic two in the front, there will naturally be a third one, which is the crystallization of the love between yourself and your lover.

That is, the continuation of one's life, one's own children, which is almost a part of the life that most people will have.

As mentioned before, for many people, their daughter cannot be kept, which also leads to many people not wanting to keep her.

Therefore, more will put all their hopes on their son, hoping that his son can accompany him for a lifetime.

After all, in the future, the son will definitely follow him, even if he wants to get married, he will marry his daughter-in-law, which does not affect.

This is a normal process, when the son was born, for every patriarch, even the royal family is the same. They themselves will be favored by the people, and all the high hopes will be given to them, all of which will weigh on him.

This is also a kind of regular sustenance, there is nothing wrong with it, and every family will inevitably have this kind of sustenance of hope.

It's just that as their sons grow older, they may want to leave home and find a new place outside.

As a parent, when your children have the ability to be self-sufficient, you should feel very relieved more often.

How could they possibly try to keep them by their side? Of course, in some families with very noble power positions, there will still be power to keep their children by their side, such as the royal family, royal relatives, and dignitaries.

And the children born in such wealthy families are all young ladies and young masters, princesses and princes who have been pampered since childhood.

Naturally, they don't want to leave, after all, living here can be very comfortable and comfortable, so why bother?

There is no need to leave at all, and those who want to leave are either too much in love.

The kind of people who are carried away by love, the number of girls is far more than that of young men, and they all seem to be born for love.

Otherwise, it is a poor family, and their son is admitted to the ranking, or becomes an official, which is really happy.

Children naturally want to fly out of the house, their wings are stiff, and who doesn't want to live a better and freer life.

At this time, parents can only use feelings to keep their sons, but after all, they have already formed their own independent personality.

With his own ideological construction, how can he lock himself in all his life by his parents' side?

Obviously, this is also impossible, so when they grow up, most of them will choose to leave their parents and not be too nostalgic.

And these children would have wanted to pursue the rebirth and bloom of their own lives, and their parents were reluctant to keep them.

So it is precisely because even if she doesn't have much experience in dealing with the world, Yao Qiao can still understand these things deeply.

In some small truths in life, she can guess more accurately what the other party may want.

At the same time, you can understand exactly what you want, which is relative and complementary.