Chapter 1168: An Old Lady Who Is Hard to Communicate
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Chapter 1168: An Old Lady Who Is Hard to Communicate
"Sooner or later?" Kong Dingmeng repeated the word and felt a bitterness: "I'm seventy years old, do you think I can wait for her to be sensible in my lifetime?" ”
"Ding Meng, what nonsense."
Yuping blames her old friend for talking nonsense:
"You see, it's rare for you to go back to China, so many students lined up to invite you to dinner, but you turned them all down, only to visit Jiafei's favorite aquarium. This heart, she will understand sooner or later. ”
Kong Dingmeng shook his head: "Forget it, I don't care if she can understand it or not, but I never think I'm wrong, and I never regret what I did." If I had to go back in time, I would still be the same! Everything I do is for her good! ”
"Yes, yes, yes." Yuping nodded, echoing her old friend.
She is also a mother, and she understands the idea of hoping for her son to become a dragon and a daughter to become a phoenix.
Although Kong Dingmeng said this, he couldn't calm down after all: "You say, don't I just be strict with her, she needs to hate me so much?" If it weren't for my urging, she would be so beautiful now? But you see, not only did she not appreciate me, but she also looked like I had hurt her! ”
"She always said that I didn't encourage her, but if she wanted my encouragement, she should try to get the first place in the exam, not come back with a second or third place!"
"What qualifications do you have to encourage me if I fail to pass the exam?"
"It's not like I haven't encouraged her, I know she likes the aquarium, and I take her there every time she has a grade, what else do you want?"
"It's so unconscionable, I know how to be grateful more than her when I have a dog!"
When Si Xueli heard this, she couldn't help but interject, how could she put the child and the dog together:
"Emotional things can't be slapped in the face, although you said that you took your daughter to the aquarium, but in my opinion, your behavior is a transaction, a charity, I don't think this is what your daughter wants."
If the child has passed the exam, the first thing he thinks about must be his mother, not how good he is.
It's like Xiaobao got the big red flower in kindergarten, and he couldn't wait to share it with her as soon as school ended, because Xiaobao knew that she would be happy for her.
Si Xueli didn't specifically reward Xiaobao, at most she made something delicious, otherwise becoming excellent was like a transaction.
The child simply wanted to share the joy with his mother, but found that this act was a reward and an invitation to merit in the eyes of his mother, and it was so boring.
Kong Dingmeng heard someone talking to him, and turned back in dissatisfaction.
Sitting behind her was a very beautiful woman, although the woman was dressed tightly and could not see her whole face, but from the only pair of eyes that appeared, you could know that this must be a beautiful embryo.
Kong Dingmeng looked up and down: "Who are you, I can use you to point fingers in my family affairs, is it polite to eavesdrop on others' speeches." ”
Si Xueli was choked, but she was not annoyed, after all, she was the one who eavesdropped first.
But she was unintentional, how big a wooden chair could be, three people sat just right, and she was also forced to hear their conversation.
"It's my fault to eavesdrop on you," Si Xueli admitted her mistake frankly: "But I think if you want to have a good relationship with your daughter, you must let go of your lofty posture." ”
Kong Dingmeng couldn't remember how long it had been since she had been educated, but she didn't expect to be educated by a young woman today, she turned around: "I have eaten more salt than you have eaten, you want to educate me?" You're still tender! ”
Si Xueli really doesn't like the old lady's tone, she leans on the old and sells the old, no wonder her daughter is not close to her.
"Although I don't have as much experience as yours, I'm already a mother of two, and I have a lot of experience in this area, and I think I have a say."
Si Xueli looked at the old lady named Ding Meng and did not back down:
"Your daughter is now out of the picture, but have you ever thought that if your daughter had known that she would have to sacrifice a happy childhood in exchange for such an achievement, I think she would rather be ordinary."
The old lady is seventy years old when she blows herself up, and if she doesn't realize her mistakes, I'm afraid that she will die with regrets when she returns to old age in a hundred years.
If she says a few more words now, although the old lady will feel nosy, it will be worth it if the old lady can reflect on it and make concessions, so as to reduce regrets.
"You are a woman's opinion! You say you're a mother of two, and I dare say your child must be very young. ”
Continence could not agree with this notion:
"When your children grow up and find that they are as ordinary as ants on the ground, working with a salary of thousands of yuan, but other peers already have fame, fortune and status, they will know the value of prestigious universities, and they will complain about why you didn't train them well in the first place!"
"You're too extreme!" Si Xueli couldn't believe that someone used money to measure life: "I don't deny that fame and status is success, but that doesn't mean happiness!" ”
What's wrong with a few thousand yuan, she used to be a child caregiver with only a few thousand yuan, although she occasionally feels pressure for life, but she feels very happy watching the child grow up.
Now that the income is high, you can buy whatever you want, but the happiness is still the same, and it is not said that as the income grows, the happiness also doubles.
"Heh, happy ......" Kong Dingmeng smiled disdainfully: "I think you don't even understand the rules of how to behave, so you learn to be a mother!" I'm so worried about your child's future! ”
Si Xueli really didn't understand why the old lady's idea was so utilitarian: "Letting children have a happy childhood doesn't mean it's not good......"
"Ping, let's go." Contine stood up dreamily and interrupted: "I don't want to talk to some people who live in dreams. ”
It's so stupid and cute that there are still people who open their mouths and close their mouths to be happy these days!
Yuping smiled apologetically at the young woman.
In fact, she said these words to Kong Dingmeng a lot, but she could only say that everyone has their own ambitions, and Kong Dingmeng couldn't understand it at all.
Yuping thinks that if there are more parents like young women in modern times, maybe the children will be happier.
Parents should actually accept that their children are not superhuman, but just mortals.
Instead of pressuring them to succeed, why not train them to be happy.
Yuping is sure that even if a young woman's child is not necessarily outstanding, it must be happy.
"Mommy, what are you looking at?" Zhuang Ting came back with two bottles of milk, saw Mommy looking in a certain direction, and handed out one of the bottles.
"Met an old lady who was very difficult to communicate with." Si Xueli said sullenly, reached out for the milk, and found that it was hot.
She was slammed.
Dabao is too intimate!
"Dabao, where are you going to get the milk hot?" Si Xueli dismantled the straw, poked it into the milk, and handed it to Dabao.
"There's a microwave in the commissary, and I'm heating it myself." Zhuang Ting looked at the milk handed over: "Mommy, I don't drink it, this one is yours, and this bottle is for my sister." ”
Zhuang Ting said, raising another bottle of milk in his hand.
"Fool, don't touch electrical appliances in the future, it's dangerous. Drink, Mommy isn't very thirsty, let's share it together. Si Xueli shook the milk carton and motioned for Dabao to take two sips.