"If you work as hard as Ms. Qi, you won't fail the test."

Fang Yihua still had an expressionless attitude, but there was inevitably a bit of ridicule in his tone. In the past month or so, if five points of Fang Zhou's thoughts in the training room are on Lin Anran, it must be very much on her, making her a little tired of coping, but she doesn't know what to say to make him retreat.

After all, in the first twenty-five years of her life, most of the men she met stayed away from her, and she knew her own conditions very well, so she never considered falling in love and getting married.

What I didn't expect was to meet a suitor like Fang Ark who completely disregarded face.

Can't drive away, can't move, don't listen, can't fight......

In the end, she could only turn a blind eye and hear nothing, but whenever he was there, she was completely shut up, and no one paid attention to him, saving him from rushing to talk and climbing faster than a monkey on a topic.

As soon as she finished speaking, Fang Yihua was originally worried that it would hurt people to mock him for his incompetence like this, but she didn't expect Fang Zhou to immediately pick up and say: "That's because she is facing her own son, so she naturally cares." If my object were to change to you, I would definitely be more attentive than anyone else! ”

The certification they need to take is the BCBA Certified Behavior Analyst, which can effectively improve the learning and communication skills of autistic children through comprehensive and intensive ABA (Applied Behavior Analysis, abbreviated as ABA), which is currently the safest and most effective treatment for autism.

In this treatment program, the first point is to confirm that the training is aimed at the subject and the student, rather than treating them as patients.

The object here is originally about an autistic person to be trained, but in another meaning that the Ark tells her, it is a local dialect, referring to a lover who is in a relationship and ready to get married.

The Chinese language is too broad and profound, and she is a pun, which makes her really a little overwhelmed.

Qi Siyue saw that she pursed her lips and turned her head, and it was rare that there were some mood swings, so she couldn't help but smile slightly, and while helping Lin Anran adjust the color, she looked at the information brought by Lin Xiangyu.

"At present, there is no formal professional ABA training school for autistic children in China, if you stay in Hong Kong for treatment, on the one hand, the scheduling time is long, on the other hand, the cost is high, and it will take some time to adapt to the environment, so you previously proposed to establish an autism rehabilitation center in our city, if you can cooperate with Professor Tang, refer to the operation mode and training methods of Tang's school, the feasibility is very high."

Lin Xiangyu saw Fang Zhou circling around Fang Yihua, shook his head, and explained intently to Qi Siyue, "It's just that the positioning of special schools is not clear at present, and the rehabilitation projects for autistic children belong to the Disabled Persons' Federation or the Education Department, I have consulted them, and the Disabled Persons' Federation is very supportive of our ideas, but if the rehabilitation center is established in the form of a special school, there will still be some troubles in the procedures." ”

Qi Siyue nodded, she started from grassroots sales, and in the process of promotion step by step, she had to deal with various departments, although the government affairs center has simplified the approval process of many administrative procedures in recent years, but the rehabilitation center as a special industry and special project, there are many cross-management departments, and it is inevitable that there will be problems.

However, she is not worried about these problems, as long as she tries to find a way to solve them, there will always be more solutions than problems.

"An An, it's not right to mix colors like this. Come on, follow Mom and do it again. ”

When she was concentrating on two things, she found that Lin Anran had messed up the color palette again, and immediately began to teach him color mixing again. Since he began to learn painting with Fang Yihua, Qi Siyue has found that he is particularly sensitive to color, perhaps this is also the reason why he originally liked to play with building blocks, those brightly colored blocks can attract his rare concentration.

Therefore, when Fang Yihua taught him to paint, he did not start with crayon painting like ordinary kindergartens, but directly taught him to paint with watercolors, first let him learn to mix colors, feel the difference in color, and use his imagination to draw what he wants to paint.

It doesn't matter what he paints, what matters is the process of his painting.

From recognizing and distinguishing colors, to mixing colors, painting, and coloring by himself, it seems simple, but Lin Anran has always been just a three-year-old child, and he has learning and social disabilities, even if he is interested in painting, his hand-eye coordination can't keep up, and he is always unable to complete the teacher's requirements and achieve his own "small goals".

At this time, it is necessary for teachers and parents to cooperate to break down the process of drawing into small steps, practice step by step, give praise and encouragement in time when he does it right, correct it in time when he makes mistakes and guide him to make correct operations again...... It's a very simple thing to say, but after repeating it ten times, hundreds of times, and thousands of times, it will become boring and boring, and it is completely difficult to test the patience of parents and teachers.

"Ahh

After repeating it a few times, Lin Anran suddenly screamed, flipped over the palette, and covered his ears and screamed loudly.

Lin Xiangyu was about to step forward to hug him and coax him, but was pulled by Qi Siyue.

"Don't worry, it's normal for him to have emotions, let him vent and it will be fine for a while. The more coaxing you are, the harder it will be to teach in the future. ”

Lin Xiangyu glanced at her with some surprise, remembering that the last time Lin Anran smashed the TV, she followed the appearance of collapse, and in just one month, she already seemed to have changed as a person, no longer soft-hearted and fragile at that time, and calm beyond his imagination.

"Okay." He agreed very simply, and he also knew very well that when educating children, there must not be two attitudes and methods, otherwise it will only bring bad counter-effects to children, and there is no way to choose the result of choosing too much, or choose the worst outcome.

Fang Yihua watched from the side, nodded as well, and then took out another palette, without looking at Lin Anran, and silently began to mix colors.

She didn't have to talk or coax him, she just had to concentrate on her work to attract the child's attention.

No one paid attention to the result, so Lin Anran quickly quieted down, picked up the overturned palette by himself, wiped it awkwardly, and started mixing again.

Although he didn't look at Qi Siyue and Lin Xiangyu from beginning to end, they all breathed a sigh of relief.

For him to learn to walk on his own, you can't hold him when he is about to fall.

It was the pain he had to go through when he walked, and it was an indispensable experience in his life, which his parents could lead but could not replace.

The result of refusing to let go is that he will never be able to walk independently, just like those adult giant babies who can't do without their parents, the root cause of their loss of survival is that their parents have always treated him as a child who has not grown up.

If you keep treating him as a child, he will never grow up.

If you treat him as a patient, then he will really be "sick", only by treating him as a child who learns slowly, slowly accompanying him, letting him learn by himself, and mastering by himself, can he really walk out of his own way.