Chapter 3 Splint gas, double-sided tape?
Qi Siyue once thought that Lin Xiangyu was the most perfect husband she could find.
They are college classmates, and when everyone sings about the graduation season, that is, the breakup season, Qi Siyue gave up the index of entering Beijing, stayed in Q City, and entered a communication company to do sales.
Lin Xiangyu entered the Engineering Design Institute, which can be regarded as half an iron rice bowl, although the salary is not as high as Qi Siyue, but it is also considered to be 9 to 5 drought and flood income.
Within two years of graduation, Qi Siyue was optimistic about the upward trend of real estate, and the two asked their families to borrow a down payment, get a marriage certificate, take out a loan to buy a house, and hold a wedding.
Qi Siyue's vision was not only verified in buying a house, but also quickly entered the role in the company's marketing, and then in Sheng'an, he jumped into a Fortune 500 company, still doing sales, and did it well in just a few years, after winning the national sales championship trophy this year, he should have continued to be promoted, but it came to an abrupt end because of the child's illness.
The relationship between the two, from the love in college, there were quarrels after work, to the calming down after marriage, plus the two are getting busier and busier at work, both are in the rising period of their careers, and no one has the heart to spend time on Qingqing and me as before, plain, in the same room, like relatives more than lovers.
When her mother-in-law was sick, Qi Siyue was willing to spend money on treatment, one because it was Lin Xiangyu's mother, and the other because she was rich.
Poor couples mourn everything, and many times the origin of family conflicts is in money.
One is that they are afraid that they will not make enough money, but they are unwilling to spend money.
Qi Siyue can earn money, and she is willing to spend, so there are naturally fewer conflicts in the family.
For Qi Siyue, the problems that can be solved with money are not big problems, because she is confident that she will earn enough money back.
She has no time or energy to do housework, she has a nanny and housekeeping, and the relationship between her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not good. Later, when her mother-in-law became seriously ill, she relied on her to find someone to spend money on surgery, and she was saved from it, and naturally she would no longer be held back in housework.
has always boasted of being clean and neat in handling housework, Qi Siyue didn't realize until today how big a hole there would be behind the assumptions.
The child's quiet and well-behaved is not in nature, usually the mother-in-law and nanny are at home, she only sees the side they show her, but she never thinks about why it is so quiet.
Freezing three feet is not a day's cold, and An Ran's illness is her responsibility, but it is not her responsibility alone.
After holding the child for a long time, Qi Siyue no longer had the strength to cook, but fortunately, the takeaway was delivered quickly.
The children's meals in the star-rated hotel are very nutritious, the meat and eggs are complete, and An Ran especially likes the shrimp custard inside.
Still quiet and didn't talk to her, but it was much more nervous than before, yelling and kicking and fighting, Qi Siyue looked at his appearance of eating, and suddenly felt that he seemed to have missed a lot.
I still remember that he had to have an early caesarean section because of lack of oxygen before he was born, and he was red when he was born, and because of jaundice, he stayed in the hospital for a few more days because of high blue light, and he grew so big in a blink of an eye, Qi Siyue remembered his excitement when he called his mother for the first time, but what happened later? He toddles and plays...... She was so busy with work that she didn't notice that the child was getting quieter and quieter, and thought that she had grown up and become well-behaved......
Unexpectedly, he was sick.
"Siyue!"
Lin Xiangyu panted open the door with two bags of vegetables and fruits, and walked inside anxiously.
Zhao Guilan followed behind him, still complaining.
"What are you anxious about? Where will Xiao Qi come back so soon when he goes to the company, it's uncertain...... Xiao Qi? Enron? Are you eating? Why don't you wait for me to come back? ”
Qi Siyue didn't look back at them, just looked at An Ran and wiped his mouth with a hand towel.
"Enron is hungry. Mom, I don't have to trouble you to take care of Enron in the future, I resigned. ”
"What's the trouble then, you resigned? Really resigned? ”
Zhao Guilan first replied curtly, glanced at An Ran, and her eyes were a little empty, but when she came back to her senses and reacted to what Qi Siyue said, she was a little anxious, "Didn't you just get some award and want to be promoted?" Why did you quit your job? I'll just help you watch the child......" Although she did complain that her daughter-in-law didn't care about the family, her daughter-in-law was willing to spend money on her when she earned more, and the jewelry and clothes she bought during the New Year's holidays could make her stand out in the circle of friends.
"I still won't bother you. Didn't you think I was busy with work and didn't have time to take care of my family? Qi Siyue endured the anger in her heart, not wanting to see her expression, lest she couldn't restrain her scolding, "I resigned, I can take care of the child by myself, and you don't have to tie him to the bed when you go out......"
As soon as Lin Xiangyu entered the door, he felt that his wife's expression and tone were wrong, and he had been carefully observing, and finally heard the reason at this point, "Mom, why did you tie An Ran to the bed?" ”
"Am I afraid he'll stumble?" The more Zhao Guilan was weak-hearted, the more justifiable she said loudly: "You quit the nanny, and I will watch him at home alone, and I have to cook and buy vegetables." He is sick again, what if he falls out of bed? ”
"That can't be tied up!"
Lin Xiangyu had a headache, Qi Siyue was busy with work and was rarely at home before, and his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law respected each other like guests, and he rarely suffered from this kind of splinting, but today when he came to save him, he was startled, and thought that Qi Siyue had an opinion on him, but he didn't expect it to be his mother's problem.
"What's wrong with tying up!" didn't expect to be complained by her son, Zhao Guilan's voice immediately raised, "When we went to the ground, you and your brother weren't tied to the head of the bed, what's wrong!" ”
"But An Ran is sick, so he can't be ...... to him like this" Lin Xiangyu spoke bitterly, trying to persuade his mother, but he heard Qi Siyue on the other side of the dinner table slam the bowl, he looked up, but saw her looking at him with an extremely strange cold look.
"You go clean up your room." Qi Siyue endured her anger and picked up the child who had finished eating, "You live there tonight, and the child sleeps with me." ”
Only the master bedroom with its own bathroom and balcony is closed and comes into its own. She didn't want to quarrel in front of the child, so she could only let him see for himself first.
"Hey, what's that going to do—"
Zhao Guilan was suddenly unhappy, but Qi Siyue ignored her, hugged An Ran and went straight back to the room, and after closing the door, there was a click and a sound of locking.
"Look at your daughter-in-law, this temper is good! If you say you will resign, you will resign, and you will not discuss it with us, and this attitude is ......"
"She told me last night. Whether it is resignation or resignation, Enron does have to be accompanied by someone all the time. Lin Xiangyu walked towards the children's room and looked back at his mother, who kept complaining, "Still ...... Do you think it's better for me to quit? ”
"No! How can you resign! Zhao Guilan almost jumped up, "Just hand it over to me to see the child, do you need to resign one by one?" ”
Lin Xiangyu had already walked into the room, and saw that the whole room was messy, and the small bed that had not yet been cleaned up, the water stains on the pillow and the urine stains on the sheets, and the strips of cloth thrown on the bedside and the ground, Qi Siyue kept them for him to see. Even if he didn't see the situation at that time, as long as he thought about it, he couldn't help but feel distressed.
"That's what you see?"
Zhao Guilan lowered her head and cleaned up, "Aren't I busy?" What's wrong with the child crying for a while? The more you care about him, the more he loves to cry, and when he cries enough, he will naturally stop crying. You guys are just too spoiled to have so many problems. Didn't I do this when I took you before, didn't you grow up well? ”
"It used to be before." Lin Xiangyu didn't know how to explain to her mother, every time there was a conflict in parenting, she would confidently say how she had raised him and provided him with college, could she be wrong?
But Qi Siyue's scientific parenting paid attention to, invited a full-time confinement nanny, and later the mother thought that the confinement was too expensive, and she invited an ordinary live-in nanny after the confinement, most of the work was done, and she just stared at the occasional hand, so as not to cause too fierce conflicts.
Now that the nanny is gone, Qi Siyue has gone home, and it is only the first day, and she is on the needle.
And he, will he become a splint, or double-sided tape? It seems that there is no room for him to choose.
As soon as he lifted the wet sheets, he saw a circle of yellowish urine stains on the mattress underneath the sheets. Even if he rarely tidied up his room, he knew that this situation could not be caused all at once. Thinking that the child might be left unattended after wetting the bed, just lying on the wetted sheets and crying, the fire in Lin Xiangyu's heart also came out.
"Mom, what's going on?"
Zhao Guilan's eyes flashed, "Oh, it's the nanny who didn't wash the mattress with the sheets!" It's really a waste of things, I said a long time ago that it is not okay to hire a nanny, and you are lazy if you can't see it at a glance, and your daughter-in-law still doesn't listen. I think she just hates me......"
"Mom! - Lin Xiangyu endured his distress and anger, trying to reason with her, "Aren't you usually watching at home?" Siyue bought so many diapers that the children wore when they went to bed. Besides, he is also older now, he is more than three years old, why can't he pee and wet the bed all day long? ”
"Whose child doesn't wet the bed?"
Zhao Guilan couldn't help but complain when she saw her son starting to get angry, "I just said that he didn't cry when he wets the bed, it turns out that he is a fool!" Can I be blamed for this? I pulled you up with a handful of and urine, and now you have an accident with a child? Do you have a conscience? Old man, you died early, don't be angry! What kind of iniquity have I done...... You unfilial son, you want to be angry with my mother......"
She howled and scolded the street while beating Lin Xiangyu.
Lin Xiangyu couldn't avoid it, and he endured it calmly.
He finally realized where his wife's anger came from, not only to his mother, but also to him and to himself, who worked so hard that they thought they had given the child the best material foundation, but they did not expect that in a place where they could not see, the child who could not even speak clearly had suffered so much. And not only did he not be able to protect him, but he was pressed back even if he said a word to him.
He covered his face, and his mother's fist didn't hurt much on his body, and the real pain was in his heart.