The times are different, and the concepts are different.

Liu is not a vicious stepmother, it is precisely because she truly loves the eldest lady that she refuses to ruin this family business hastily.

She glared at the unconscious Cheng Qing fiercely, and pulled the eldest lady to explain carefully:

"Hui Niang, we don't have those messy concubines in our family, it doesn't mean that other families don't have them. You see those small merchants, small landlords in the countryside, who have a little more silver in their hands, and they also want to take a concubine home. When your father was still alive, our family lived in Jiangning County, and none of the ladies who came to the county government to walk around had a dominant backyard, even those who claimed not to take concubines, and there were also rooms in the house...... This woman marries, it depends on the man, but also on whether the in-law's family is good or not, you are the granddaughter of the Qi family, and after marrying, the mother-in-law is her own aunt, and there are the elders above to watch, life will not be bad! ”

Marrying into someone else's family, who knows what it will be.

Whether to accept a concubine or not depends on the man himself, and when he is newly married, he is like glue, and the man makes all kinds of promises.

If the wife is a real person, she will probably be disappointed in the future.

After a few years, men regret it, and it is the women who are disappointed and uncomfortable!

Who doesn't want to be a couple for a lifetime, husband and wife are one, and inserting a third person's original intimacy will have a suspicion.

But the way of the world is like this, if a woman does not let her husband take a concubine, she is not virtuous, she is jealous.

The Liu family is confused and has no opinion when it comes to major events, if you want to say that her understanding of marriage is much deeper than Cheng Qing, Cheng Zhiyuan has always been a grassroots official, she has heard a lot of gossip about the east and west families, and she knows that the world is like this, Qi Yansong has some problems, and he will still have other husbands!

The eldest lady leaned on her shoulder and sobbed, Liu gently patted her on the back and said many ways to teach the eldest lady how to slowly envelop Qi Yansong after marriage.

"It's good if you give birth to a child, and a son born will gain a firm foothold in the Qi family, if you can give birth to a few sons, the Qi family can provide you up, and you will be a great contributor to the Qi family."

No more.

Cheng Qing's ears hurt when he heard it.

These remarks are too poisonous for her to cross!

She was glad that she had never thought about restoring her identity as a woman, and if she really listened to Liu's words and went away to restore her identity as a woman, she would face Liu's urging to marry in a few years, right? She wants to have that shit luck to find a compatible other half in Dawei, and before she gets married, she has to listen to the Liu family teach her how to be a virtuous wife-

Cheng Qing felt a chill when he thought about it.

The eldest lady sobbed, and also had doubts about Liu's statement:

"But haven't my father and mother been in love for many years, and my father has neither a concubine nor a room!"

The eldest lady didn't treat the Liu family as an outsider, her biological mother Qi died of weakness after giving birth, and it was the Liu family who took care of her when she was babbling, and she didn't know that she had a biological mother until many years later.

Giving birth is kindness, raising grace is also kindness, Liu and Cheng Zhiyuan are in love with each other, and the eldest lady has no psychological grievances.

The Liu family said that every family has concubines, and the eldest lady used her own example to refute it.

Liu's smile was both sweet and bitter:

"Silly boy, you can't pick one out of a hundred people like your father, if you can meet it, it will be a blessing from the tenth generation of women."

It is a blessing and a curse.

Although she is married to Cheng Zhiyuan as a continuation, Cheng Zhiyuan loves her very much after getting married, and Cheng Zhiyuan has no other affairs in the husband and wife for more than ten years, how can such a husband Liu not love?

If she hadn't been relieved that she wouldn't have a few children, she would have followed her husband that day!

Cheng Qing originally exposed Qi Yansong's true face, but caused the Liu family and the eldest lady to cry. Cheng Qing was crying so much, she didn't agree with Liu's concept, but she wouldn't change her mind easily, Cui Fatzi's method didn't work, breaking Qi Yansong's dog legs, and Liu's would not agree to quit her family.

Liu's idea is easy to guess, the Qi family on his side of the road has not proposed to withdraw from the marriage, Qi Yansong is disabled, and the Cheng family should dislike the other party even more, otherwise it will be against morality.

As for Cheng Qing's saying that the Qi family has pretended to be deaf and dumb in the past six months, it is just Cheng Qing's speculation, there is no real evidence, and the Liu family is unwilling to believe it!

It doesn't work to break a leg, it seems that there is a need for another way......

Cheng Qing pondered alone in the patio, the eldest lady's eyelids were still red and swollen, and she walked over with her skirt.

"Xiaolang, I know that you are for my good, and my mother is also for my good. Mother said that Cousin Qi is young and ignorant, I know that the situation is definitely not as optimistic as my mother said, Cousin Qi came to Nanyi County for more than a month to visit is evidence, and the bottle of rose dew that you dropped is also evidence——"

Xiao Lang must have been very angry before he deliberately dropped Rose Dew.

The eldest lady was also angry.

She didn't care if Cousin Qi sent anything or not, but she could send dozens of taels of rose dew to the prostitute in the Qinglou, and send her inferior perfume, which was not only perfunctory, but also humiliating her!

Although the Cheng family is in the middle of the road, and his father Cheng Zhiyuan was not much prominent during his lifetime, he is also a seven-pin Zhixian appointed by the imperial court!

The court did not convict her father, she was still a daughter of an official family, and Cousin Qi despised her so much and trampled her under a lowly woman, and the eldest lady suffered great humiliation.

How can this still get married?

To say that she is cheap in the small way, and in the big way, it will be the cheap Cheng family.

If his father was still alive, would Cousin Qi dare to play these tricks under his father's nose?

No!

Cousin Qi didn't dare.

Cousin Qi may not have the help of the Yue family...... The eldest lady's cheeks were red, and it was the anger that was dyed because of anger:

"Marriage is the best of both sexes, like Cousin Qi, who looks down on our family before they get married, even if it is a cousin, I don't want to marry. Xiaolang, my mother's thoughts are not mine, you are the most important man in the family, and my sister is willing to listen to you! ”

Cheng Qing didn't expect the eldest lady to say such a thing.

Although she was young and impulsive, she could still hear the arrogance and backbone of the eldest lady.

This big sister is really the strongest of the three sisters.

Compared with crying and crying weakness, Cheng Qing prefers women to be strong. She said hello a few times in a row:

"Big sister, if you lose the Qi family's family, I may not be able to find a better family for you now, and I can't predict whether you will live happily and fully in the second half of your life, I can only promise you that I will be your backing for the rest of your life!"

The Liu family is her responsibility, and so are her three sisters.

If you want to be Cheng Zhiyuan's 'son', you have to pick up the burden of the Cheng family.

Cheng Qing disagrees with what Liu said, what does it mean that it is impossible to avoid a man taking a concubine after marriage? Even if she picks off her eyes before marriage, as long as she mixes well enough in the future, she can still suppress her brother-in-law from honestly not daring to be angry.

The eldest lady nodded vigorously, "Sister believes in you!" But Xiaolang, my mother thinks that Cousin Qi's mistakes can be forgiven and will not agree to my divorce, what should we do? ”

Cheng Qing is not worried about this.

As long as the eldest lady can make up her mind, Cheng Qing will have a way to withdraw from this family business.

Cheng Qing guessed that most of the Qi family was not satisfied with their relatives, but they were just suffering from no excuse to withdraw from the marriage.

——This family business should not only be retreated, but also occupy the moral supremacy, and try to minimize the impact of divorce on the eldest lady!