To deal with this kind of older bear child, you have to follow him, and then slowly change him in small things.

It's no problem to like to wear beautiful clothes, it's so handsome, and it's pleasing to the eye, isn't it? But you can try to change your style on some occasions, so that people know that you are also very temperamental.

At home, you can wear red and green, and even the lady of the family can help him make beautiful new clothes, praise him without hesitation, and make a small request appropriately, generally speaking, he will not be refused.

Of course, this change can't be made overnight, otherwise he will suspect if you have some conspiracy and suspect it from the heart, which is not good. You can use his mother to discuss with his daughter-in-law in private, make a few small troubles, and then slowly change his attitude. In this way, the requirements of both parties can be properly met.

"It is impossible to blindly let people change and they remain the same, husband and wife, they all have to run in, adapt to each other, and seek a balance in getting along. It's not much like making friends. ”

Wei Zan looked at her in surprise, a little unable to understand how a girl who was only twelve years old could say such a thing, as if she had a lot of experience in getting along with husband and wife.

"Why do you think of me like that?"

"Who told you this?"

"Still need someone to tell?" Wei Jin looked back strangely, with a look on his face Are you stupid, "You can know by looking at this?" Many couples in our village came over like this, and there were also brides of the mayor's family, who were not used to marrying here at first, but then slowly got used to it. She used to like to come to our store to eat and drink, and she often talked about it. ”

Wei Zan smiled: "That's why you can see it like this, many people can't see through these even if they become women." ”

Wei Jin's mouth was pouted indifferently: "It's just a fan of the authorities." Also, husband and wife get along not only to be happy with each other, but also to be able to clear their own position, otherwise, this day will not be comfortable. I couldn't bear that, so I didn't plan to get married. ”

Unlike other girls, Wei Jin has never been afraid to say these things, which makes her sisters and sisters in the family laugh at her speechlessly.

"It's impossible not to marry." Wei Zan shook his head disapprovingly, "Girls still have to have a husband in the end, but you can rest assured, your fourth aunt will help you consider, and she will definitely not let you marry an unsuitable person." ”

didn't argue with Wei Zhan, anyway, she had a certain number in her heart, and it was not too late to say it again.

The specialty of Xiangzhou is fish. The waters here are wide, and the fresh fish in the river are delicious and fatty, whether they are stewed and grilled, they are all delicious.

The meat is tender and has few thorns, which is used to stew or burn, and the thick oil red sauce is wrapped in the sauce and melts in the mouth. The small fish with many spines are fried in large oil, sprinkled with salt and pepper, and the mouth is another pleasant experience.

It cost more than three taels of silver to eat at a table, which is enough for the expenses of their ordinary family in Xizhen for a month. If you shelve the village, you won't need so much money for half a year and a year.

After eating and checking out, the four spends the distressed money visible to the naked eye.

"Silly girl, our family is not short of this bit of money, why are you doing this?" Wei Jin scratched her sister's cheek a little funny, "I haven't seen how much of the monthly money that Sister gave you, did you save it as your dowry?" Don't be like this, just use it when you should use it, and if it's not enough, ask Sister A. Girls must be willing to spend money on themselves, so that they will not be grateful to sell themselves because of a little favor from a man. ”

Wei Zhan's face darkened when he heard it next to him, although he also agreed with Wei Jin's words in his heart, but when he said this in front of him, it seemed that he was not a man?

"Ming'er, we will be delayed for two days after we arrive in Fucheng, Sister will take you shopping, buy what you like, not only for your own use, but also prepare some small gifts, and when you go back, you can give your handkerchief to you, or you can stay as a return gift for dealing with people."

Wei Jin didn't want Sihua'er to develop a temperament that would be competitive. The daughter-in-law of a small family needs to calculate the money, but their family doesn't have to do this, as long as they use it where it should be used. But you can't eat grain, so the necessary way to keep a family and financial management methods also need to be learned.

The next day was in the evening, I went to Fucheng and went directly to the largest inn to stay.

Wei Zan chartered a small courtyard and let the two younger sisters go to rest first, and he instructed his servants to unload the things from the boat, and hired a car to send them to the small courtyard for storage.

This inn is located at the end of Dongshi Street, separated by a wall of mansions of nobles and wealthy merchants, so the fees are not cheap, but correspondingly, the environment and services here are also worthy of its high price.

"Tomorrow, I will visit the state capital first, and the two of you will rest in the courtyard first, and then go out when I come back. This side is not as simple as the one in Ganzhou, just you two little girls go out, if you meet a prodigal, it will be bad. ”

They have no objection to Wei Zhan's arrangement. After spending so many days on the ship, you also need to rest in your room to prepare for the more difficult long overland journey ahead.

Early the next morning, Wei Zan went to visit Lord Zhizhou's mansion with gifts.

Han Zhizhou has seen Wei Zan many times, and he has a good impression of his son's friend, and he can't wait for the other party to swap things with his stupid son.

"Uncle Shi, don't be angry, Shiro actually knows that the second elder is for his good, but he can't wipe his face. Speaking of which, the nephew has a small idea here, and he has the courage to mention it to Uncle Shi to see if it is feasible. ”

Wei Zan told Han Zhizhou what Wei Jin told him according to the gourd drawing.

"That's not a good idea. Well, I'll talk to my wife about it and give it a try. ”

There is nothing to be done about this stupid son Han Zhizhou, and he has the right to use a dead horse as a live horse doctor.

Han Zhizhou had other entertainment, and after talking to Wei Zan for a while, Wei Zan excused himself to leave on the excuse that there were still two clan sisters in the inn, and he was not at ease.

When I turned my head back to the inn, I saw Wei Jin holding a piece of cloth and gesturing with Wei Jue.

"Where did this come from?"

"Next to the inn is the cloth village, after you leave, the cloth village has a new product, I think this color is good, I want to make a skirt for the four flowers."

This cloth is goose yellow, but not too bright, and there is a little cloud pattern dark flower on it, which should be good to make a skirt.

"If only there was gold yarn, sewing a layer on the outside, just enough to suppress the color."

It is said that it is gold yarn, but in fact it is not a real gold wire, but a kind of golden-red mixed with silver silk woven into a fine cloth, because the warp and weft are not as dense as the cloth, there is a kind of light and transparent elegant, lined with the reflection of silver wire, it brings some metallic color.

After all, yellow and golden yellow are the special colors of the royal family, and they dare not use them privately.

"There is a kind of material called cloud silk in Taizhou, I don't know if it can be lined with this cloth. Why don't you wait until you get to Taizhou? ”

"The little maid of the cloud and mist silk that the son said has seen it, and the lady has half a horse. Although the yarn is also light and transparent, the overall off-white color does not have the luster that the third lady said. ”

Golden silk yarn is only available in the imperial capital and Jiangnan, and people in other places rarely use it to make clothes, and Wei Jin only knew that there was such a cloth from the owner of the cloth village, and he had seen a short sample. At that time, I didn't think about what ingredients I could match, so I didn't take it to heart, and now I want to use it, but I can't find a place to buy it, which is a pity.