After a long time, the Qin family raised his hand and touched Xu Lanyin's cheek, and said with tears in his eyes, "Mother is useless, but Mother is not as careless as you think." Otherwise, it would have really jumped into the river more than ten years ago. You can rest assured that you will marry someone, marry in the past, put your mind on your in-law's family, and don't worry too much about your mother's family. Zhao Wu is a good boy, and we all see his kindness to you. However, love and love are a young thing, and when you are old, it is family affection and a partner, don't be too harsh on him, be more generous and tolerant, don't bully him like the original......"

Before, the Qin family liked to call Zhao Wu "no child", but later felt that Zhao Wu had grown up and became his son-in-law, so it was not good to call him "no child" again. Childlessness also has another meaning.

Xu Lanyin's tears welled up and said, "Mother, you must be good and happy." ”

In front of the Qin family, Xu Lanyin was so fragile for the first time, and for the first time, she had a strong attachment and reluctance to this family.

Qin's Qin chuckled twice and said, "Don't worry, girl, the past days were so difficult, my mother has survived, and now it is more difficult than before?" ”

Xu Lanyin said what she had always wanted to say to the Qin family, "Mother, it's a painful thing to be too attached to the past. You have to learn to let go, and only when you let go can you be happy. Whether you let go of my dad or let go of your resentment against my dad. Only by letting go of your head can you get out of the confusion and live a better life. ”

In Xu Lanyin's heart, she still hoped that the Qin family could give Xu Qingyan a chance. It's not based on politics, reputation, or children or anything, but purely for the Qin family, hoping that she can have a smooth rest of her life.

Ancient women can't do the free and easy of modern women. If this matter is put on Xu Lanyin herself, she will not hesitate to directly separate, happily cut off her previous feelings, and find a new life with a new look and mentality.

And the Qin clan will definitely not be able to do it.

What's more, the Qin family is still different from many women who are calm on a daily basis. Before she met Xu Qingyan, fear, fear, and persecution had always been with her. In those years, in addition to her biological mother who died early, only Xu Qingyan gave her warmth. Xu Qingyan rescued her at the hands of the bad guys and gave her a new identity, a relatively stable and safe home. After she married Xu Qingyan, she thought about him all the time, and it was not an exaggeration to say that Xu Qingyan was once the spiritual sustenance of the Qin family.

Such a Qin family, even if it is really separated because of resentment and unwillingness, it is not easy to get out of the shadow of Xu Qingyan.

Moreover, if the Qin clan wants to merge and separate, there will definitely be a lot of resistance. The Qin family is facing not only love, but also other factors. Only when various factors are balanced, can her life be smooth and comfortable.

And Xu Qingyan still has affection for the Qin family, is willing to live with the Qin family, spares no effort to do things for her, and also promises that there will be no other women in the future, which is much better than the vast majority of ancient men.

If the Qin family can give Xu Qingyan a chance, it will also give her a chance. The two really can't live together and then separate, so that both parties will not have so much attachment and regret, and the separation will not be so painful......

But Xu Lanyin couldn't take this idea for her, but she had to decide for herself. If the Qin clan must choose to separate, Xu Lanyin will also support and help her.

Qin Shi looked at Xu Lanyin sideways, his eyes were filled with mist, and he blinked his eyes to suppress the mist. said, "Mother won't let go of your father." Even if I live separately, I will not be separated from him. Your father has a flat wife, if I get separated, the flat wife will naturally become a wife, so what is the identity of my three children? There is also that Wang Yi, it is best for him to let go, if he doesn't let go, I will hang myself with a rope first. My children must be the sons and daughters of the Xu family. ”

Speaking of Wang Yi, her teeth clenched.

Xu Lanyin hurriedly said, "Mother, don't think nonsense, you won't be able to go that far." And, we don't care if it's a grandeur or not. ”

Qin shook his head and said, "Silly boy, you don't understand when you grow up in the countryside, there is a big difference between your concubines. Zhao Wu has no elders, and you have saved his life, so you will definitely not care about your identity. But your two younger brothers will come to kiss, if they are concubines, the family affairs will be limited, and it will not be easy to find a good daughter. Even if you have a career and make friends, the descendants are stronger than the concubines...... Now it seems that it is good that I have fallen out with your father to this point, at least so that he will not dare to despise me. Don't think that he is back, he is an official, and if he says a few good words, he will treat everything as if everything has happened, and his family will do it to me. I want to let him know that I also have a temper and persistence, and I dare to take that step...... Alas, husbands and wives still have to use means, which is normal in a big house, but I also use it now. ”

Xu Lanyin didn't expect that the Qin family was more realistic than she imagined. In her heart, politics and reputation are also secondary, and her own happiness is also secondary, and the first thing to consider is her children.

Xu Lanyin said, "In this way, my mother still chooses to continue living with my father, so it's okay." However, my mother still has to selectively 'let go', let go of the same, and you can have a better time. She hugged Qin's arm a little tighter, and continued, "When my father has shown enough, my mother will try to let go of her mustard and unwillingness to him, give him a chance, and give you a chance, okay?" I really can't do this, as you said before, as long as my father respects, let go of the feelings and resentments in his heart, because there will be resentment, and really be a couple who 'respect each other'...... With the former option, you can get the happiness and joy of your wife. With the latter option, you can get the peace and smoothness of your wife. ”

Qin Shi turned his head sideways and looked at Xu Lanyin blankly, and after a long time, he muttered, "My daughter is right, these days, my mother seems to have been trapped in the fog, unable to break free, unable to get out, and feeling very uncomfortable......"

She really can't understand how to treat emotional matters more deeply than her.

Xu Lanyin said, "Of course it's uncomfortable to be trapped in the fog......

The mother and daughter talked about the late night, and Qin said that he would think clearly before resting.

The next day, the Qin family got up late. Although her eyes are a little red, she doesn't rest well at first glance, but her spirit is too good, maybe she already has a choice in her heart. No matter what she chooses, which one she puts down, as long as she has a choice. Xu Lanyin still hoped in her heart that she could choose the former first......

On the first day of the first month of March, Qin Hongyu, Grandma Qin, Min Nan, Hu Yi, Xu, and Li Dashi, who were familiar with Xu Lanyin, all came to add makeup to Xu Lanyin. A mother-in-law from Min Mansion also came, adding a brocade on behalf of Min Jia. There is also Li Erniang and Huang Juanniang from Hutong, who have a good relationship with the Xu family, and they also came to add makeup.

After a while, Xu Ershi actually helped Mrs. Xu to add makeup.

Thank you Yunze Janeyu and Song Amei for your tips.