No.134 Encounter with Han Chuluo?!
No one suddenly doesn't love you, it's just that you suddenly know. - "The Days I Counted in the World"
Probably everyone who has been in a relationship seriously has had this experience.
An ordinary or extraordinary encounter.
For a certain moment, her eyes sparkled, and you plucked up the courage to get to know her, and then you slowly got to know each other. Her beauty makes you think that she might be the one in a book you read that you will love for the rest of your life.
You prepare a confession that may not be perfect, then you receive your unexpected consent, and you fall in love.
During the period of love, you are becoming more and more dependent on each other.
The fire that has just been built is bubbling with red flames, which makes you feel warm.
However, the novelty wears off, the flame grows smaller, and you both wait for each other to add some fuel, until the fire is extinguished and you both feel that it is each other's fault.
Maybe the ones you can't accept just because you don't cater to yourself
This, perhaps, is first love.
You can choose to be less dependent on each other, give each other some space, and even slowly try to like what the other person likes, and then slowly integrate into each other's lives, rather than choose to give up after the novelty.
There is a saying in psychology that when you feel that love is starting to fade, real love is just beginning to slowly emerge, you can choose to give up, and then look for the next period of novelty, the price is that you can never escape the cycle of novelty.
So you have to understand that true love needs to be revealed through continuous running-in, feelings need to be managed, and difficulties need to be solved instead of giving up.
Perhaps, we haven't really liked someone yet.
It may be alarmist, but the truth is that nowadays, it's hard to really like someone.
"The carriage and horse used to be very slow, the letters were far away, and there was only enough to love one person in a lifetime"
Nowadays, the transportation is convenient and the communication is fast, which can tease many people at the same time.
There is still a big difference between liking and flirting. For example, I talk to you at night, but when I wake up the next day, I can't remember what I talked to you about.
I like it, that is, you inadvertently said that you want to eat fried chestnuts with sugar, and he walked all over the streets.
In the past, in order to chase Ms. Zhang, Mr. Shen sent love letters like snowflakes, and it took several years to write. And we even have to save face if we ask for a contact information from someone we like.
Jose used to wait for six years in order to wait for three cents, but now he can't even wait for a few months of vacation and broke up hastily. Reflect on it, I'm afraid that what we like now, it's too shallow and too shallow.
Maybe it's because we're living more and more like ourselves, we prefer to identify with us rather than reflect, we only remember that others tell us that we're living comfortably, and we can't remember that your partner has said that you're lazy.
We only remember what the poisonous chicken soup tells us that we can have our own little tempers, but we can't remember our friends admonishing us to be more tolerant.
We learn to love ourselves, but we don't learn to love others.
And I hope you can try to really like someone, like her so much that you will be happy when you think of her, like it enough to be tolerant, and like it enough to be willing to change yourself for her.
No one suddenly doesn't love you, it's just that you suddenly know.
When I broke up, I always wondered why he suddenly stopped loving me, and I realized later that love can be pretended.
There is no sudden dislike, there is just a backlog of emotions in exchange for a knife and a cut in two.
And you deserve to be a better version of yourself and meet the next person you really like.
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"Then you fight, fight, anyway, I'm just a little more injured, since there is no one to take care of me, then ...... You're going to kill me," Chen Yi simply sat on the chair and looked up and forked regardless of his image.
"Tut-tut, Uncle Chen, are you, do you still have a royal law?"
"Wang Fa? What is the royal law?! You hurt me first, what can I do if I ask for it, I don't care if I don't care, if you don't agree, then you can leave me and leave, I ...... I also recognized, "Like an old scoundrel of the indigenous people, Ou Haochen is vividly interpreted."
"Shhh?!! Okay, okay, okay!! A week is a week! I really can't help you, but I really have something to do the day after tomorrow, I'll tell you in advance. ”
Hearing Xiaoqiu's agreement, Chen Yi, who immediately changed his face, dragged his "seriously injured" waist, sat up slowly, and nodded with satisfaction.
But........
"The day after tomorrow?!" Chen Yi wondered, what could happen the day after tomorrow?!
"Yes, I'm going out the day after tomorrow."
"What do you mean?! What are you going out for? ”
"If you want to take care of it, I'll go out....... Go out on a date~" When the word "date" was spoken, a trace of obvious shyness flashed on Xiaoqiu's face.
“.......”
Chen Yi's heart chuckled and !! sourly
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"The man you told me last time?!" Chen Yi raised his eyebrows, his face expressionless, showing a calm demeanor.
“emmm.......... Yes," Xiaoqiu thought for a moment and finally nodded.
"That's fine."
"I'll be fine later, why don't we go to the mall and buy some food for the matches?" Xiao Qiu, who wrapped the matches tightly with a blanket, proposed,
"Clothes for it? What clothes are cats going to wear?" Chen Yi scratched his head and looked dazed, because he didn't pay attention, so this was the first time he had heard of buying clothes for cats.
"Uh-huh, cats can't wear clothes?! We'll buy something AA later."
"No, I can still afford it."
"Huh?! What's not to do, this match was raised by the two of us, and of course I have to pay half of the responsibility. Xiaoqiu held the match and teased its hair.
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Riding a car, galloping all the way.
There were few people on the road, and Chen Yi, who was riding at a constant speed, came to an emergency brake, and due to inertia, Xiaoqiu could only fall on Chen Yi's back and stick to his body.
Hiss!!
...........
Although it hurt a little when he hit the wound, Chen Yi still quietly hooked the corners of his mouth.
Covering his painful chest, Xiaoqiu complained angrily,
"What are you doing?!!
"Eldest sister, red light," Chen Yi pointed forward at the traffic light, for fear of being misunderstood.
"Then won't you tell me in advance?!"
"I was wrong, sister, pay attention next time."
"And next time?!"
"No, no .........." Chen Yi, who was full of desire to survive, quickly shook his head, how dare he contradict it?!
"Cut, adults don't remember villains, then I'll ........."
Chen Yi, who was waiting for the green light in front, listened to Xiaoqiu's words with interest, but her voice became smaller and quieter, and finally silenced.
Chen Yi, who felt strange, looked back.
It's just that this look is quite embarrassing.
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A suspicious flush of white jade rose up on her face, drunk with a touch of red clouds and sunset wind, as if bringing a touch of red clouds from the sky, linking her eyebrows, skimming her eyes, and imprinting a bright red on her white jade cheeks.
It was the first time he saw this kind of expression on Xiaoqiu's face, and he didn't know until now that the girl who had always been smug was actually shy and blushing.
And her gaze was one of the fiery and unpreceding sight he had never discovered.
It turns out that the person Xiaoqiu likes is our instructor.
But..........
So what?!
Chen Yi, who didn't care about it, didn't wait for the green light to come on completely, and he flew out directly as soon as he stepped on the accelerator!
"Ah!! Chen Yi, what are you doing?!! ”
Xiaoqiu, who was suddenly frightened to death and hadn't come back to his senses, instinctively hugged Chen Yi's waist,
"What am I doing?! Driving, "
"Why are you driving so fast?!! Did you know that I just saw someone I knew!! ”
Feeling that she had lost a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity, Xiaoqiu grabbed her hair with regret!!
"Who (who?!) Is it someone you like?! ”
“emmm........... I won't tell you," Xiaoqiu, who was not angry, snorted heavily.
"Oh~、Then what are you holding me for?"
"Huh?! I'm lost~" When he looked down and saw his hand unregularly wrapped around someone's waist, Xiaoqiu subconsciously wrinkled the tip of his nose,
Slightly slightly~
So what?!
Chen Yi, who saw Xiaoqiu's movements from the rearview mirror, flashed a trace of loss and loneliness in his eyes.
It's different after all.
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When I got to the mall,
Xiaoqiu, who was holding the match, walked ahead excitedly.
Before the corners of Chen Yi's mouth were raised, his steps slammed.
The revolving elevator at the gate、A handsome and eye-catching person is walking towards the mall、