Chapter 40: Communication
Zhang still nodded affirmatively.
"That's not good, it's polite to discuss something with your family. Aren't you the most disgusted person to be rude? ”
"I know. Maybe I'm saying it a little absolutely. In fact, my expression skills are sometimes not very good, in short, I can't understand you! Forget it, you take the time to help me keep an eye on the workshop, read more books when I'm fine, and get into the exam early and be practical early! ”
Zhang was still going to squint in the car, but he heard Meng Wei say in a low voice: "Don't you ask me if I want to?" ”
Zhang still didn't dare to sleep immediately when he heard this: "Why don't you want to?" Are you unwilling to take the civil service exam, or are you with me, unwilling? ”
"I think since the two of us are going to be together, at least we have to go on a date and communicate. You see, my job is to make arrangements for you, and you just arrange for me, without asking me if I want to, or if I want to do it. What if I don't want to take the civil service exam? ”
"If you don't take the test, you won't take the test! Actually, I know I'm selfish about this, but if you don't want to, I won't force it. You said that two people should communicate together, I think in addition to communication, I also have to make you happy, after all, you are the person I can rely on the most in the future. If I upset you, then our relationship will also be in trouble. I just want you to have a comfortable life. But I would like your support too. After all, you are a man, the head of the family, and if you are stable, this family will be stable. ”
Zhang Yi's words made Meng Wei feel a little comfortable to hear, and then Zhang Yi asked again: "Then what kind of work do you want to do?" ”
"I ...... Heh, I don't have any big ambitions, just be stable. It's just that I kind of hate the officialdom stuff......"
"You want a job that is both stable and pure, right?" Zhang still glared at Meng Wei, looking like a teacher, "Tell you, no." It's not easy in any line. If you work part-time, you have to look at the face of the boss and the customer, and you have to make compromises. If you're the boss, you're going to have to plan the whole picture, and you don't have to sit and get paid for a job, at least not around us. Including a tally clerk in the shopping mall, he has to count and check it every day, and a small boss who opens the door to the front room has to open the door when it is windy and rainy, and the rain and wind blow the wind...... In fact, many times the work is not tired, but I just don't want to continue. If you think differently, you will feel that it is just the same thing to get through this hurdle. You don't want to go to officialdom, but I don't know how many people envy you. So, go get used to it, maybe it's not that hard. Just keep your true nature. Also, you don't have to think about climbing up, you won't get tired. Only those who are greedy will feel tired. ”
Meng Wei found that he couldn't say anything about Zhang Yi, but thinking about it, what she said was right. Compared with her, she has seen less.
Zhang still asked again: "Do you know why I am in a hurry to take you home?" ”
After Meng Wei shook his head, Zhang still thought about everything, "Didn't you say just now, I have a weak heart and lack of confidence, and I always feel that I will be ridiculed when I am with you, so I am in a hurry to express my position." But on the contrary, I regretted it because I cared too much about what others thought, which made me more tired. I used to be poor, so I would think that others would laugh at me, or that others would look at me in a colored light, including food and housing, and everything was inferior to others. On the contrary, maybe others are not as good as I imagined, maybe they will quarrel, they will be unhappy, and they will be frustrated at work......"