Xie Zhifei's reaction was bigger than mine, and he was shocked.

"Is there not enough money? It's not enough, I can ask my parents for it, you have been operating this public account for several years, what a pity it is to sell it like this.

"I'm not focusing on short videos anymore, and I guess I won't have time to operate in the future." Of course, I don't dare to mention money.

He took out his mobile phone and flipped through it, and said, "It doesn't affect you, you don't update very often, and your fans are very sticky, so it's okay to reduce interaction." And it doesn't take much time, so you should be a hobby! Just like you built it in the first place. ”

"I'll think about it again."

"What else to consider, I have feelings for this official account, let alone you? If you explain the situation to your readers, they will understand. ”

Xie Zhifei, Xie Zhifei, how can I tell you that your girlfriend wants to save face and refuses to accept your money.

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(xi)

After all, the official account is still not sold, it's not that I'm reluctant, but I don't need it.

Xiao Qi didn't know where to come from a way and bought it

A set of second-hand equipment, and it is actually paid in installments.

Listening to Xiao Qi, the former owner of this set of equipment is also a group of young people who are full of dreams like us, and finally bowed their heads in front of life.

I spent a lot of money when I bought the equipment, but I quit it, and when I sold it, I found that this dream was actually worthless.

After listening to what Xiao Qi said, I didn't know what to say.

In this ten-square-meter underground studio, Xiao Qimian and I looked at each other, knowing each other that there was no way back from this road.

Solving the problem of funds, another question is, how do I explain to Xie Zhifei?

Xiao Qi couldn't understand why I had a boyfriend who supported me so much, but I was still so entangled, and I didn't understand why I refused to touch Xie Zhifei's money.

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"I think the best state of love is to respect each other, be independent of each other, and achieve each other. Xie Zhifei and I have done a good job of respecting this, but in other aspects, he has done it, but I have not done it. I am now in an unequal state with him, I depend on him, but he does not depend on me. ”

"I'm not as esoteric as you think, anyway, I think you need this money, and your boyfriend is willing to give it, so isn't that okay?"

"What if one day he doesn't want to? What if one day, because of my demand, he becomes unwilling? At least I'm decent now compared to then. ”

"You just think too much"

I took a deep breath, stood up and said bitterly: "It's not that I'm thinking too much, it's that I'm in an embarrassing period where I'm independent in thought and not financially independent, and I don't know what I can give him, so I don't know what to ask him for..........."

When falling in love comes to such a point, does it mean that the breakup is near?

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(xii)

When I went back that night, I mentioned it to Xie Zhifei.

Unexpectedly, he was somewhat silent and didn't say anything.

And I finally got out of the high pressure of the economy, and I didn't have the heart to pay attention to his emotions at all.

Xie Zhifei is getting busier and busier at work, and sometimes he even gets home at 2 a.m.

The studio was just getting started, and it was when it needed time.

In addition, there is no other manpower, the two of them have to do all the work, many things are the first contact, and they need to start all over again, and for a while, Xiao Qi and I nest on the table in the studio to rest.

Xie Zhifei and I spent less and less time communicating, and many times I didn't say a word a week later.

I don't know how he's doing, and he doesn't know what's going on with me these days.

The most familiar stranger? That's not the case, we are so tacit and compatible, even the estrangement is seamless.

In any case, this estrangement was carried out with the mutual permission of Xie Zhifei and me.

The third video of me and Xiao Qi exploded, and the number of views reached millions.

But after the waves, there was endless silence, and the next few videos did not stir up any splash.

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On Valentine's Day, Xie Zhifei and I talked about it, and we were both in a bit of a trance, and the last time we sat down to talk about things seriously seemed to be a matter of the last century.

The advice he gave was, do what I'm good at, and since I'm good at film reviews and book reviews, why not make a video

What about the version?

Afterwards, I talked to Xiao Qi about it, and Xiao Qi also agreed with this decision, so we immediately opened another section. Carrying out two different sections at once, my time is more evenly divided with Xie Zhifei.

New plates were opened, and the situation did not improve. Xiao Qi's plate occasionally stirred up splashes, but it has never been able to attract regular fans.

I do have a group of fans, but the number of broadcasts has not been able to go up.

It wasn't until we were spotted by a new media operating company in Shanghai that the situation reversed.

Negotiate, negotiate, sign.

Everything happened very quickly, and there was something unreal.

I didn't realize anything was wrong.

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(xiii)

I'm starting to look forward to living in Shanghai.

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couldn't help but show off in the circle of friends, and also took a beautiful photo of himself to express his happy mood at the moment.

My girlfriend sent me a message.

"You're going to Shanghai to work hard."

"What? Don't support it? ”

"Of course I support you very much, but have you ever thought about what Xie Zhifei would do if you went to Shanghai, or what would happen to you and Xie Zhifei."

My best friend's words were like a slap in the face, and I was shocked to realize that all my thoughts had not been discussed with Xie Zhifei, and I seemed to instinctively put Xie Zhifei in my future plan.

When I was hesitating about how to discuss this matter with Xie Zhifei, Xie Zhifei gave me a thumbs up with his backhand.

I realized that what was wrong was the crumbling relationship between me and Xie Zhifei.

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(xiv)

Xie Zhifei prepared a candlelight dinner early in the morning, and the two of them pretended that nothing had happened to each other, and ate the meal while talking and laughing.

The atmosphere that night was so good that it made me wonder if it was good to live like this for the rest of my life.

We talked a lot, I talked about a lot of things that happened to me during this time, and he also told a lot of interesting things about their department, and by the way, he also mentioned that he has been busy recently because of a promotion and a raise.

I quipped to him, "Mr. Xie, let me tell you how young I have to be to catch up with your current salary." ”

"It's okay, based on your development potential, five to ten years."

I knew he was joking, but my heart couldn't help but chuckle, yes, the gap has always been there, and it's getting bigger.

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Seeing that I was silent, he walked up to me and hugged me tightly, and I was a little breathless.

Xie Zhifei said to me, "Otherwise, let's break up." ”

It may be sad, but more often than not, it's relieved.

What I thought in my heart was, fortunately, this relationship is not something I want to give up alone.

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(xv)

The years that Xie Zhifei and I, those things I thought I had forgotten and didn't care about, were now as clear as a movie in my mind.

I know, I'm not relieved.

Find out his avatar, from a favorite anime character when he was young to a work photo, as if he is missing another life, as if he has missed another life.

I decided to do something.

What to say?

It's "Long time no see, are you okay?" ”

It's better to be direct, "Hey, Xie Zhifei, I miss you." ”

Delete, delete, retract, click in, and exit.

accidentally clicked into his circle of friends, and an official announcement came into view.

In two years, I not only lost the courage to find you, but also completely lost you.

Xie Zhifei and I, there is really no future.

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(xvi)

The news of Xie Zhifei's official announcement of his relationship on Moments has always made me haunted, and I will not forget to mention it when I see you again a year later.

I quipped, "Why don't we see you when we're together?" ”

"I've always wanted to send it, but I interrupted the idea after you wrote that article, and I thought it would be nice to be the cool boy in your article."

Xie Zhifei smiled bitterly again: "Actually, I'm not cool at all. ”

"Don't be like this, make me look like a scumbag, don't forget that it was the breakup you mentioned first, although we broke up peacefully, but in the final analysis, it was you who dumped me."

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"At the time, I always felt like I was a failure, and I didn't understand why my girlfriend didn't need me at all, why she had to show me a tough posture of "invulnerable". ”

Xie Zhifei's face was bitter.

"I can't figure it out, and one day I suddenly realized that I seemed to be trapped in you, you know, it's bad, it's not the right love at all, but I love you like that. Later I figured out that instead of trapping you, I should let you go. ”

I resisted my emotions and weakly explained, "Because I want to let you be."

People want to convince themselves that there is no weakness in themselves. ”

"But how can there be no weakness in loving someone."

This sentence immediately broke me.

I hope that no one, nothing can hurt me.........

In order to maintain this illusory belief, I did not hesitate to push everyone out, including Xie Zhifei, but I forgot that love is a weakness, and love is armor.

In the evening, Xie Zhifei sent a message.

"When we were together, the insecure person was always me."

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I was about to explain, and I found out when I sent a meme to ease the atmosphere

I was unilaterally deleted by Xie Zhifei, yes, I finally started to die of old age after three years of breakup.

I finally understood the meaning of the "bright future" he sent me after the breakup.

The future is bright, never to be seen again.

Never again.

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(xvii)

The last time I knew Xie Zhifei's news was when I met classmates from the same group in the university's "Daiso" class on a business trip to Beijing.

She can be regarded as one of the few mutual friends between me and Xie Zhifei, and when Xie Zhifei and I were together, her assistance was indispensable and I hadn't seen each other for many years, so naturally we were very cordial, and we talked a lot.

After graduating from her bachelor's degree, she continued her studies and graduate school, and after graduating from her graduate school, she chose to stay in school and become an administrative teacher, with a relaxed job and a stable life.

And she can roughly guess what I do through my various social media channels, and I didn't go into details, except that I opened a studio and just got on the right track.

"You know what? I've always envied you, you always seem to know what you want? ”

"Haha, in fact, I'm just tossing around by myself, and now I envy you, I don't know when my work will be stable."

"Come on, you don't have a quiet element in your bones, I just think it's a pity that I've been doing things step by step at a young age, but if you want me to toss, I don't dare."

"So you envy my ability to toss blindly! Hahaha........."

We joked with each other for a while, and she suddenly mentioned Xie Zhifei.

"You know what? Xie Zhifei is getting married next month. ”

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It took me a while to digest the exciting news.

"Really? Pretty good. ”

Seeing that I hesitated, she asked hesitantly.

"Are you still in touch?"

"Yes before, but recently we just cut off contact.

I'll tell you the truth.

"Oh, that's a pity."

yes, it's a pity, it's always been a pity from the time we broke up to the time we got back together.

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(xviii)

A week before Xie Zhifei got married, I suddenly had a burst of inspiration and wrote an article about him for the first time in several years.

As soon as the article was released, it was widely acclaimed, and on the day of his wedding, it was reprinted by 436 public accounts, with more than 5 million views, and my editor sent me a congratulatory message, saying that my KPI for this year had been reached.

I was in a trance, as if I was back in my 20s, and I pretended to complain in the official account, but in fact I sprinkled dog food.

"What it's like to have a boyfriend who never tweets."

You see, Xie Zhifei, I actually need you a lot.

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