Engineering for Life

Volume I

Chapter 30: The Blind Date in Progress (2)

Some people say that emotions are a kind of advanced knowledge, you need to study hard, if you believe it, just wait to go to the training class and be harvested IQ tax.

You try to pay half of the money to the trainer, and if you don't pay the rest after that, you can see if they can manage their emotions or not.

Emotions are the innate instinct of all animals, and they are also a way of expression, although people are the so-called spirits of all things, but after all, they still belong to primates, and they also have emotions, only richer and more diverse.

For this emotion, there really is no need to deliberately manage and suppress it, and proper venting and release are must, of course, it does not mean that you have the strength to completely let go of yourself and be unreasonable.

We already have a talent for seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages, and we can naturally manage our emotions well.

When negative emotions accumulate to a certain extent and cannot be cleaned up by themselves, you should choose the intervention of a psychiatrist, rather than choosing the kind of quick recharge method, if you don't want to become psychologically distorted or die unexpectedly, you should choose to believe so.

If the battery car battery is broken, you should find a professional master to repair it, instead of replacing a stronger charging plug, which is the reason.

Replace the battery? That's the practice of the bar, this is a metaphor, and there is no way to change the core idea of people.

Confiding is the best way to release negative emotions, and you should find a friend who is worth talking to, truly revealing your heart, and emptying yourself without reservation.

Remember, no reservations.

Don't scruple, don't keep it, good and bad, you can say that at this point, a certain person appreciates the kind of confession to the priest like a confession in a foreign church, of course, a certain is an atheist, not a foreigner, originally a person who is against total Westernization, just to discuss the way of confiding.

You and I are not saints, remember Li Zongsheng's songs?

"Since you are not an immortal, you will inevitably have distracting thoughts."

If you've found a friend or place to talk to you without reservation, congratulations, you've learned the true meaning of life.

The people of this world are not either good or evil, and the things of this world are not black and white.

Mortals, there are more short things in the family, and it can be summed up as nothing more than who is sorry for me, who am sorry for me, it's as simple as that, it's just some petty evils, there is really no need to hold it in your heart and not be free.

The hidden sin is still sin, but the affliction that has been poured out is no longer affliction.

The liberation of the mind is far easier and more comfortable than the liberation of the body.

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Lai Ping stared at Lin Yun, couldn't help but want to laugh and felt inappropriate, in order to cover up, he could only insert a straw into Wang Laoji's jar and suck it silently.

Another woman named Zhang Lan was a little bold, raised her glass, drank it all like Lin Yun, and shook the cup upside down like a demonstration after drinking.

I'll go, it's a blatant provocation.

The spirit of this second pole is up in an instant, NND, I have been on the construction site for so many years, and I have drunk a lot of wine, how can I get drunk ten times and eight times, I can make you a female streamer so provocative.

It's not that Lin Yun can't figure out the meaning of this woman's doing, in Lin Yun's mind, it's just to let Lin Yun expose his so-called nature and sabotage this blind date, this birdman didn't have peace of mind to go on a blind date, let alone hope that this shit could be done.

Although Lin Yun doesn't expect a blind date to succeed, this woman's style of treating Lin Yun as a fool is indeed a bit annoying, everyone has this kind of mentality, and Lin Yun is deeply disgusted by this kind of behavior of labeling men when they meet for the first time and start labeling men without knowing anything.

This woman is too self-righteous, she invites someone to dinner and invites a ghost, why are you so embarrassed, aren't you crazy, the uncle's nature will be exposed for a while, I'm afraid you won't be able to catch it.

Lin Yun was ready to let go of himself, got up and opened the door, ready to summon the waiter.

"Eh, handsome little man, bring a case of beer here, half frozen and half not frozen."

After summoning the goods, he returned to his seat and sat down, and saw that the pot was boiling, and the fish head and fish were put down into it, and the fish was hot, and the fish was eaten first, and then the other dishes were soaked.

The woman named Zhang Lan ordered two cold dishes and cucumbers, and now she can drink it, Lin Yun politely asked the two beauties to eat, and at the same time turned on the binge eating mode by herself, if you want to fight for wine, you must eat something first, otherwise your stomach can't stand it.

Lin Yun poured a full glass of beer for his hero's cup, as the old saying goes, "three rounds of wine", people who drink have a deep understanding of this kind of opening and drinking for three rounds, and most of them will not refuse.

This product began to raise a glass again, in fact, his way of killing 300 enemies and losing 1,000 was not advisable, but the opponent was a woman, and this product was a bit contemptuous, if this woman could have five or six bottles, Lin Yun would have to humiliate himself.

However, there is still a certain reason for Lin Erpole to dare to do this, because most women only have two or three bottles of beer, and this woman should not be a booze drinker based on her physique.

"Come, I'll toast two more beauties."

Gudu Gudu dried this thing again, this time he didn't burp deliberately, and Zhang Lan on the other side was not to be outdone, so he dried it in one go.

Now the two of them can see this kind of stupid posture, so Lai Ping is also aware of it, after all, she should know her own best friend, although she hasn't figured out the reason for it yet, but seeing that the situation is not right, she must appropriately transfer the contradiction.

"This fish is cooked, you two don't just drink, eat more food."

This is the end of the point, Lin Yun, he is a person who listens to persuasion, he is happy to see it, and he has no grievances, but the two of them really have the wrong aura, maybe they are all imaginary mutual harm patterns.

"Eat, eat, eat, eat more for the two beauties, the fish is high in protein."

This is only two large glasses of beer, are you dizzy, eat hot pot you say that the protein is high, people who eat hot pot are all tasteful, according to the nutrition of that set, this spicy hot pot in Sichuan and Chongqing area is afraid that all the doors will be closed.

Cook in the pot, the time is too long and there is not much nutrition, the time is too short but nutritious, but not cooked, the stomach can not stand it, according to the eating habits of the Chinese people, the nutrition is in the soup, probably even the Fujian people eat the Cantonese people are afraid that they will not be able to drink this hot pot soup.

It is said that Lin Yun has a good overall impression of this Lai Ping, generous and decent, intelligent and keen, just these three words, invisibly dissolved the posture of the two of them.

Of course, this is what Lin Yun thinks unilaterally, as for the one named Zhang Lan on the other side, whether he will take the initiative to stir up trouble, that's another matter, it's better not to come, although this wine is bought with money, it's not who drinks it, but whoever drinks it will get drunk!

Lin Yun ate two pieces of fish, and thought it tasted good, in fact, the fish in this house was originally good, the fish was the Yangtze River fatty fish, it is said that the origin is Yichang, Hubei, and it tastes different from ordinary fish.

It's a little difficult to expect this product to say something about the evaluation of the food, in the dictionary of this product, there are only two evaluations of the food: delicious and not delicious, and then add some adjectives in front of these two words, very delicious, super delicious, very unpalatable, super unpalatable.

It's really embarrassing for him, you have to ask him about the number of reinforced concrete and the applicable structure, this product is estimated to be able to talk to you for a long time.

Lin Yun glanced at the woman named Zhang Lan diagonally opposite, and she was also in binge eating mode, this is the power of food, food is current, eating is the king, a fool doesn't eat it, anyway, it's a fool, Lin Yun smiled bitterly in his heart.

Forget it, as long as you don't come at me, I will never take the initiative to provoke you, and we will not have any intersection in the future, so we don't have to be separated.

In fact, Lin Yun is a smart person, this woman has this particularly awkward aura at the beginning, and the traces of deliberateness are obvious, that is, she deliberately wants to stir up Lin Yun's fire, and she is entrusted by others to complete some blocking tasks.

It's hard to guess, this Lai Ping is relatively good in all aspects of height, appearance, dress, and temperament, and the overall look is pleasing to the eye, and there must be a lot of wolves to remember.

Nine times out of ten, this woman named Zhang Lan is a short-mouthed eater, soft-handed, usually with Lai Ping, those licking dogs must have a lot of small favors, in her heart, I am afraid that Lai Ping and someone have already made up a pair, like Lin Yun, who is a third party involved.

Although there is no real evidence, Lin Yun took advantage of everyone's fish stall to think about it carefully, and felt that there was a little bit of truth, but he didn't have a chance to verify it for a while.

Although this product has stayed in the environment of the construction site for a long time, the life and work circle is relatively small, but there is no doubt that although the circle is small, which one is not a human spirit, even if Lin Yun is a fool, he has been more or less exposed to it over the years, and he has also cultivated some wisdom.

After thinking about it like this, Lin Yun raised his posture in his heart, and his anger disappeared, and he felt like looking at Chen Lan who was eating a lot on the opposite side.

Blind date can also meet people who want to engage in this kind of black-box operation, should you be the bidding of the construction project?

After making up his mind, Lin Yun decided to make a preemptive move, see that the move was dismantled, and see how your Uncle Lin broke your bad move.

With countermeasures, I was calm in my heart, and this thing instantly became a big warm man, and his attitude became enthusiastic.

"Come, eat, the fish meat has eaten the beauty, especially this fish head, which is full of collagen."

Lin Yun's mentality relaxed, and he was much more organized and reliable when he spoke, didn't this fish have collagen on its head.

This product also used a colander to scoop up half of the fish head from the pot while talking, and used chopsticks to clip it into Lai Ping's bowl, which was very considerate, not to mention, Lin Yun's acting skills are good, if he doesn't mix with the construction site anymore one day, he doesn't need to learn to run the trick casually.

Don't believe it, those so-called traffic stars are all dramas, and there is an essential difference between them and the old drama bones with a lot of life experience.

The better Lin Yun's performance is, the more awkward Zhang Lan feels on the other side, and this woman's food can't be eaten, and her face is cloudy, but all of these are in Lin Yun's eyes.

As expected, hum, girl, you are still a little tender, looking at people and appearances, Lin Banxian still has a heart.

If you want to be angry, you must not be angry first, so Lin Yun saw that Lai Ping ate the fish head in the bowl about the same, and warmly fished a piece for Lai Ping.

"Lao Lin, don't worry about Pingping, you have to drink well, I will toast you."

Haha, this woman began to say nothing, and called Lao Lin, which directly put Lin Yun into the list of middle-aged and elderly people.

This is also true, Lin Yun is exposed to the sun and rain on the construction site every day, and he does look relatively old-fashioned, but he shouldn't call Lao Lin, this is definitely intentional.

Lin Yun was not angry, picked up the wine glass and deliberately imitated Fan Wei's accent in the Spring Festival Gala sketch.

"Thank you."

drank it all, and the way the goods switched from dialect to Mandarin made Chen Lan a little stunned, and she even forgot to drink the wine she was serving, how could this sentence be so familiar.

Lin Yun was a little proud, seeing that the other party was not drinking, he also shook the hero cup upside down and shook it in the same way, staring at Chen Lan with a smile that seemed to be not a smile, if he could speak, it must be "What's the matter, beauty, do you admit it?" ”

Chen Lan couldn't stand the provocation, raised her head, and swallowed a cup directly, why do you say swallowing, this Chen Lan is probably also a woman in the alcohol battlefield.

didn't breathe, it was just the kind of thing that could be swallowed by throwing his head up and pouring his throat and eyes, although the cup was not big, but that kind of heroic energy also made Lin Yun smack his tongue.

Lin Yun is a very objective person, it is best for a woman like Chen Lan to be a friend, as for the rest, it is really difficult to evaluate.

"That's right, Miss Chen."

The goods began to praise the other party, and Chen Lan smiled reluctantly.

"Chen Meinu, are you married, if you are not married, I will introduce you to one."

If you want to say that Lin Yun has a set of views on people, this is the embodiment, this goods can be seen from Chen Lan's face that this woman has not been moistened by a man for a long time.

This Chen Lan's appearance is actually good, melon seed face, although this thing began to feel that this woman's sharp-beaked monkey cheeks were completely subjective and malicious, in fact, it was a lack of moisture, her complexion was not very good, a little out of phase, and her makeup skills were not good, so it gave others a not very good sense.

In terms of figure, how to describe it, like a dehydrated radish, and like a dry dry land that has not been watered by rain for too long, so Lin Yun judged that this woman either has no boyfriend or husband, or is separated from each other.

So the bad taste in this grandson's heart came up, and he asked cheaply, but he didn't expect that this time it was like a point to Chen Lan's death hole, this woman's face darkened instantly, and the kind of provocation and other signs of arrogance disappeared at once, and she became depressed.

Next to him, Lai Ping pulled Lin Yun and motioned Lin Yun to stop talking, I'll go, what's the matter, did I mean something wrong.

There must be some story here, the fire of gossip in Lin Yun's heart is burning, but since people didn't answer, plus Lai Ping's prompt, it is not easy for Lin Yun to continue to dwell on this issue.

There's a big story, it's so curious.

This thing is so anxious that he almost scratches his ears and cheeks in his heart, so much so that when he put food in the pot, he was burned by the splashed oil soup and almost threw the plate out.

In the next time, Chen Lan was like a different person, frequently raising her glass to Lin Yun to drink, it was not a provocative attitude at all, her aura changed, this is the rhythm of getting drunk, that is, if Lin Yun doesn't drink with her, she can also get drunk herself.

Lin Yun saw that Lai Ping didn't mean to stop at all, and after drinking two glasses, Lin Yun finally couldn't bear it, so he could only go to the waiter to exchange it for a small cup, and Chen Lan on the other side didn't mind at all, he was still looking for Lin Yun to drink cup by cup, and he was about to get drunk.

Lin Yun didn't know what was going on at all, he wanted to ask but didn't dare to ask, and it was the incident caused by his own words, he was uncomfortable, it was too uncomfortable.

The sudden change in the style of painting without warning makes people confused, and this is not even a clue about blind guessing.

This woman's food doesn't eat much, as long as she sees that Lin Yun didn't bow her head to eat, she raises her glass to Lin Yun to toast, which makes Lin Yun a little overwhelmed, seeing the other party's state, the first bit of anger in Lin Yun's heart has long disappeared.

A few people ate and drank for half an hour, Lin Yun was full of food and drink, Lai Ping should be about the same, Chen Lan was already a little drunk, and there was a faint feeling of excitement in the loss.

Lin Yun proposed to leave almost immediately, Lai Ping agreed, and Chen Lan did not speak.

Several people took their belongings, left the private room, and went to the bar to settle the bill.

The dishes that have not been cooked can be returned, but it is good, the beer was not drunk, a total of sixteen bottles were ordered before and after, the two only drank eleven bottles, and the rest can be refunded, and the account is only less than 300 yuan, which Lin Yun did not expect.

Lin Yun drank a lot of this beer in front of him, and Chen Lan drank a lot in the back, about 6 bottles of Lin Yun and 5 bottles of Chen Lan.

As soon as he arrived downstairs, because Chen Lan was walking in front alone, when he was about to reach the door in the downstairs corridor, Chen Lan suddenly turned around and looked at Lai Ping and Lin Yun and said a word.

"I want to sing."

Because everyone came together, Lai Ping looked at Lin Yun again, as if he was asking Lin Yun's opinion, this woman was really careful.

"Okay, anyway, I haven't been singing for a long time, and there's a KTV not far from here."

What about KTV, it's very cheap to go in the afternoon, it's not that Lin Yun cares about these, he used to choose to go in the afternoon when he was a student, and since he went to work, there has never been a thing to sing in the afternoon.

Mixed construction site, broad daylight, singing during work hours? How is it possible, looking for a draw.

A few people went out, and a Ford C was parked in the temporary parking space at the door

v, Lin Yun doesn't know about cars, and he's too lazy to understand, in fact, he doesn't have the money to make trouble, so he doesn't plan to buy it for the time being, and if he doesn't understand, he doesn't understand, if he wants to say that driving is a necessary skill, it's barely a necessary skill, and it can only be a hobby.

Lai Ping took out the car key and pressed it, I'll go, this car is hers, it seems that the family conditions are good, Lai Ping took the bag from Chen Lan's hand, and put his bag on the car.

Lin Yun saw that Lai Ping had put his things away, locked the car door, and made a gesture here.

"It's not far this way, less than a hundred meters."

The two women walked forward hand in hand, Lin Yun walked on Lai Ping's side, and the three of them walked side by side for a few minutes.

Cash drawers, mass-marketed ones.

The three of them came to the bar in the hall, Lin Yun asked for a small private room, paid 198 yuan, and gave a dozen beers, two fruit plates and a few snacks.

The waiter led the way in front and brought the three people to the small private room, now KTV is good if it is a little better, the private room has its own bathroom, there is a drunk master, drunk can quickly rush into the bathroom to carry out reverse excretion this kind of operation, it is quite intimate.

It is said that it is a small private room, and it is not small, and there is no problem with sitting eight or nine people, but it is like a medium bag, because the sofa and coffee table are not close to the display screen.

The waiter opened the monitor and the cabinet below, debugged the microphone and stereo, and signaled that everyone could order songs, Lin Yun was not in a hurry, although this product also likes to sing, but the proposal to sing this afternoon was not made by him, and the people who wanted to sing and were depressed couldn't wait to order songs.

Chen Lan operated on the on-demand monitor for several minutes, and should have ordered seven or eight songs, and the first one has already begun to play.

Lilac

You say you love lilacs the most

Because your name is her

What a melancholy flower

Sentimental people

When the flowers wither

When the picture freezes

What a delicate flower

But he can't hide from the wind and rain

A life of floating, shaking, and shaking

What a beautiful weaving dream

And so you left in a hurry

Leave me to worry about for the rest of my life

The grave was full of flowers

It's the beauty you crave

Look, it's all over the mountains

Do you still feel lonely?

Listen, someone is singing

That's your favorite ballad

How much complexity is in the world

You don't have to worry about it anymore

The yard is full of lilacs

Beautiful purple flowers bloom

I'm here with her

Protect her for the rest of your life ......

This is Tang Lei's song, and the original sound was not turned off, just played like this, and within a few words, a female voice joined in and sang along, singing well, because she was emotionally invested, Lin Yun glanced at Chen Lan, yes, she was singing, singing very seriously, very devoted, very emotional, the whole state is no longer like the lost soul in the second half of the meal, a refreshing sadness is in the air.

One person is singing with serious devotion, and two people are listening with serious devotion.

The waiter in the middle brought in the wine, snacks and fruit plates he ordered, opened three bottles and put them on the table, took out a few more cups and put them on the table, and said to Lin Yun that he needed to ring the bell and quit.

The song that Chen Lan is singing now is a very famous campus ballad, this is a song that will only be listened to after the 70s and 80s, and there is a sad story behind it.

At that time, there were far from such developed wireless networks and smartphones, and if you wanted to go online, you could only go to an Internet café, although the news was relatively closed at that time, but it did not affect the popularity of this song.

The arrangement, lyrics, and singing of this song were all done by Tang Lei alone, in order to commemorate a girl who died in a car accident, that is, the girlfriend of Tang Lei's friend.

At that time, people didn't have these series of hot spots to sell their feelings, but Tang Lei, a singer with few title songs, was all the rage at that time with this song.

Because real feelings are not for sale, looking back at the time, well, it is true that people at that time were generally much simpler.

The most popular time of this song happened to be when Lin Yun was in college, listening to this song was influenced by female classmates, and the story behind it was also heard from female classmates, beautiful and sad things were the favorite of young girls in that period, which is like now, little girls are all looking for exciting rhythms.

Youth is infinitely good, but it's a pity that everyone has to grow, and growth has to pay a price.

No, this song is to remember the deceased, what is the situation of this Chen Lan!

One song is sung, and another song comes, Xu Song's "On the Qingming Rain" is another song of this type, and the next song scrolling above Lin Yun on the screen is Yao Beina's "River of Life".

No, no, this product couldn't help it after all, and asked Lai Ping, who was listening to the song carefully.

"Has your best friend Chen Lan experienced something bad?"

Lai Ping turned his head, looked at Lin Yun, and sighed when he saw that this product looked serious, and this detail was also captured by Lin Yun.

Under the cover of singing in the private room, Lai Ping told Lin Yun a sad story that happened to Chen Lan with a long sigh.

This is a bit different from Lin Yun's speculation that Chen Lan did at the beginning, which shows that for unfamiliar people and unfamiliar things, just based on a little appearance and skin, the probability of judging and speculating indiscriminately about the dead mouse is almost zero, which is equivalent to conjecture.

Hey, the heart of a villain is something that everyone has.

Lin Yun really spent Chen Lan's belly as a villain, and he was really a little ashamed and embarrassed.