Lin Qianxun looked at the Yueniang who had tears like no money, and felt quite helpless

But she also understands that people who are pregnant, hormone secretion is different from usual, and after experiencing life and death, she naturally has a little worry and pain, and she is moved by Yueniang's sincerity.

"It's okay, it's true that my cousin is a doctor, but you must know that my cousin is also an ordinary person, and he is still a little flustered when he encounters life and death.

Sometimes it's a normal thing for normal people to be busy, Sister Yue, don't cry.

Isn't that okay with me? You're crying here, and I feel like I'm nearing the end of my life. Lin Qianxun was tired and lacked, without a trace of strength, so she had to lie aside and watch Yueniang cry quietly.

Yueniang wiped her eyes while crying, and didn't forget to speak.

"It's almost born, as soon as I see you like this, I can't sleep all night, and your cousin also comforts me and says that everyone has a different experience, some people work hard, and some people don't.

But I see that he is more nervous than I am, and it has made me uneasy lately, and I have heard bad news about you, and I have been scared to sleep.

This woman is pregnant with a child, and she really followed up with a ghost gate, I don't think I want to give birth again after giving birth to this one" Yueniang Ren is heart palpitations.

Although she did not experience such life and death, she heard the thrilling scene of Lin Qianxun's production at that time

She knew that she would definitely encounter such a situation, Lin Qianxun was much more particular than herself, and she exercised and ate regularly on weekdays

And the midwife and the imperial doctor are all the best in Dayu, who knows that she has experienced such a change when she gives birth, so she is even more nervous.

"Sister Yue is right, the people of Danji have their own natural appearance.

My cousin was a little late at the time, so he naturally missed the best time for examination and judgment.

You are the one he takes care of all day and twelve hours a day, and he knows your physical condition

Even if he encounters any problems, he can solve them single-handedly and will not be in a hurry

Sister Yue, you have to relax and don't think about anything, so that you can be safe and stable.

If you are cranky, the whole person's mentality becomes different, and you will naturally encounter all kinds of problems.

Whether you will regenerate in the future, whether you want to regenerate or not, I really don't know.

These depend on how well-behaved the child is, how much you like the child, and how close you are to the two of you. Lin Qianxun felt that Yueniang was too nervous and worried, and she might have prenatal depression

You have to pay attention to this, otherwise don't have any problems during the confinement, but it will be troublesome.

"Don't mention that thrilling scene here, I'm still weak.

You've made it through, otherwise I'll have trouble sleeping for the rest of my life. When Fu Changqing saw his wife, the more he talked, the more thrilling he became, and the more he talked, the more tears fell frequently

He stood aside, and he really couldn't interject his mouth, so he had to take advantage of his free time to speak.

"Cousin, you have to pay attention to Sister Yue's own situation, I think she should be a little prenatal anxiety." Lin Qianxun was a little envious when he saw the two interacting like this.

For a while, I thought of Helian Man, who was angry and left, and my heart was slightly sour.

What's a new word? Or is it a new disease? "Fu Changqing is a doctor, and his sensitivity and response are faster than ordinary people.

It is also about his wife's problem, and he is naturally very concerned.

"Anxiety can increase adrenaline secretion in pregnant women, leading to metabolic acidosis that causes intrauterine hypoxia in the fetus.

Anxiety can also cause autonomic nervous disorders, leading to weak contractions during labor and dystocia.

Due to anxiety, not getting enough rest and nutrition can lead to delayed labor during delivery.

In the final stages of pregnancy, pregnant women often show strong psychological dependence and want to seek protection and attract the attention of others.

This reaction is not squeamish, but a normal psychological response.

Pregnant women may chatter, which is a reasonable outlet for bad feelings.

At this time, the husband should understand his wife's emotional fluctuations, listen patiently to his wife's complaints, give her spiritual encouragement and comfort, and dispel her worries.

Especially don't put pressure on your wife about the sex of your children.

In the later stages, the belly gets bigger and bigger, and the tightness of the abdominal wall can cause a variety of discomfort to pregnant women.

The husband can gently stroke his wife's abdomen at night, on the one hand, to communicate with the baby whom he has not yet met, and on the other hand, to relieve his wife's discomfort.

The wife's dependence is satisfied and anxiety is improved.

As for Sister Yue, there is no one else in the family, and my cousin's parents are not around.

In order to let Sister Yue have a good production experience, it is best to invite some experienced midwives.

Let them show up to let pregnant women understand the whole process of childbirth, so that they know in their hearts.

After these external factors have been satisfied, the rest has to be adjusted by the pregnant woman herself.

For example, first, it is necessary to correct the incorrect understanding of production.

Fertility is an innate ability of women, and childbirth is also a normal physiological phenomenon, and the vast majority of women can complete it smoothly and naturally.

If there are some problems such as abnormal fetal position and pelvic stenosis, caesarean section can be appropriately adopted to take out the baby to ensure the safety of the mother and baby to the greatest extent.

Second, pregnant women should learn relevant knowledge, increase their understanding of themselves, and enhance their self-confidence in giving birth to a healthy baby.

Third, pregnant women with prenatal complications should actively treat the complications, maintain a close relationship with the obstetrician, and seek advice in time to maintain a good mood when there are problems.

Fourth, talk to some mothers and ask for some experience.

Fifth, do some healthy activities before giving birth, such as knitting, painting, singing, walking, etc., do not stay at home behind closed doors, and stay in bed all day long to focus on worrying about the future. Lin Qianxun was fully prepared for childbirth when she gave birth to her first child, and she also learned about prenatal depression.

And she is also a more careful person, with a good memory, even after so long, she can still remember what she learned at that time.

She had given birth to a child again, and she talked eloquently, and she didn't tremble at all during the period.

The two expectant parents listened very carefully to Lin Qianxun's explanation of what anxiety is.

"It turns out that anxiety produces so many problems, we always thought it was because of fear" Yueniang reached out and patted her heart, looking like she suddenly realized.

It is no wonder that in the era in which they lived, people's self-consciousness developed too slowly, and even if there were, no one dared to talk about these things so blatantly.

And if you have a good relationship, you don't think that having a child is a difficult thing or a big thing at all.

And the mothers are all younger, they don't know that they will encounter so many things in the production process, and even if they do, they will feel that their fate is not good.

Now that I think about it, I really feel a little ignorant.

"I will pay attention to these, and there is still a period of time for Yueniang to give birth, during this time I will stay with her with peace of mind, go fishing and take a walk, or go to the suburbs for a walk.

As for the maternity affairs, I have to bother you, and the grandmothers in the palace are all powerful.

Experienced and able to solve any problems you encounter. Fu Changqing also raised his vigilance, and. As a man, he had never given birth to a child, so he was more or less worried

Don't think you're a doctor, but sometimes a doctor isn't omnipotent.

"Don't worry, I'll tell you what causes anxiety, so that you can prevent it." Lin Qianxun felt that some things were too thorough, but it would be counterproductive, so it was better to omit them.

"Tell me about it, I'll remember." Fu Changqing is much more anxious and excited than Yueniang, and he is literate and literate, and many things are unforgettable.

"There are a number of reasons for this psychological problem:

First, there is anxiety about the sex of the fetus.

To put it in layman's terms, most of you want a boy in your heart, and there is still some kind of liking and dislike for the sex of the fetus in people's subconscious, or the family is more concerned about having a boy or a girl.

Fortunately, the elders around you don't care about this, otherwise, Sister Yue will definitely be anxious and anxious, how can she be as mellow as she is now.

So don't care about the gender of the child, whether you give birth to a girl or a boy, isn't it your own child?

The second is for women with prenatal complications such as gestational hypertension and pregnancy with heart disease.

Because of their own health problems, and at the same time, they are also afraid of harming the fetus, so they are also prone to anxiety.

In layman's terms, it is the so-called angina, so that the family is better, after learning that the mother is pregnant, she will eat a lot of fish and meat, eat more, and the indicators of the body will suddenly increase.

It will put a greater burden on the body, and it will cause what I call gestational diabetes, high blood pressure, heart disease, etc., and if you don't pay attention, it is easy to have two lives during childbirth.

Third, due to the aggravation of various uncomfortable symptoms in the third trimester, such as skin cramping, abdominal wall skin tightness, edema and other discomforts, making the heart irritable and easy to be anxious.

These are common, if you are in good condition, use olive oil appropriately, at home if the conditions are not good, use food directly, especially on the belly to relieve tightness

Fourth, due to limited mobility, he stays at home all day long, and his attention is focused on various negative factors, which aggravates anxiety.

For Sister Yue, there is no such thing as an inn at all, because she has an inn and cares about things in the inn every day, so naturally there will be no problem of staying at home and thinking nonsense.

As long as you pay attention to these, there will be no unexpected situations in the production process. Lin Qianxun said for a long time, and his mouth was dry, and then he reached out and took a sip of ginseng tea, which made him look more energetic.

"We have written down what you said, your own body is too weak, rest well, this is the child's clothes, I will go to see the child later, I heard that they are cuter than the fruit." Yueniang found that Lin Qianxun's expression was tired, and her eyes narrowed again, and she hurriedly spoke.

"Okay, you can go." Lin Qianxun smiled apologetically.

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