So Su Yue roughly described Li Qianqian's situation to her aunt in the message, but she didn't expect to receive her aunt's reply after a while:

"It's okay, I can provide my specific birth date and take a look at it at my leisure."

"Great, Sissi, Auntie promised to help you see it!"

Su Yue immediately handed the fortune teller's information to Li Qianqian, only to see that Li Qianqian was also very happy after reading it, and immediately sent her birthday to her, and then said to Su Yue:

"It's just wonderful! It seems that my love has finally been saved! ”

Being able to get the guidance of the master, Li Qianqian's face showed a satisfied smile.

After separating from Li Qianqian, Su Yue received a reply from the fortune teller aunt on the way home, and the message said that she had helped Li Qianqian calculate the results:

"The lack of fire in the five elements, this is not a good life but luck is acceptable, can be remedied, good and benevolent, but it is easy to be clumsy due to too good, and the love road is not smooth and is also caused by the heart, although there is no big problem in the year of 39, but if the close people discuss their scattered wealth, they need to be cautious, and they need to nourish themselves, do not work, and they will meet beautiful people in the year of 39, and they will regret it, and do not indulge others in the name of goodness."

After reading it, Su Yue breathed a sigh of relief, it seems that Li Qianqian will still meet her destined other half, but there is one thing that makes Su Yue wonder, why did the aunt in the message just say that Li Qianqian would meet a "beautiful woman", not a "positive fate"? What's the difference?

Just as Su Yue was about to chase down the reason, she received a second message from the fortune teller:

"There are two marriages in his life, middle-aged or his husband is separated, and these two marriages may be beneficial to his old age, so they are not a disaster. If you have any concerns, you can not inform her of this and make your own decision. ”

Other words... The "beauty" mentioned in the aunt's message is not a "positive relationship"? At this moment, Su Yue was even more puzzled, could it be that Li Qianqian was destined to meet a positive fate and was destined to divorce?

Thinking of this, Su Yue immediately sent a message to the fortune teller:

"Thank you Auntie for your help, but there is one thing I want to confirm with you, so she can't meet the right fate in her fate?"

After a while, Su Yue received a reply from the fortune teller:

"Don't say thank you. Not everyone can meet the right fate, and for her, it can be met in her old age. Positive fate can be met but not sought, pity. ”

"Okay, I see."

Obviously, the fortune-telling aunt has answered her own question in a more tactful way - Li Qianqian is fated to not be able to meet her own fate.

Su Yue sighed helplessly, and finally decided to forward only the first half of the message to Li Qianqian. Because the second half of the message is a prediction of the future, Su Yue considered that if she told Li Qianqian all about this as it was, it would definitely affect her mentality, which would be counterproductive.

Unexpectedly, after a while, Li Qianqian's phone called, and Su Yue hurriedly picked it up after seeing it:

"Hello? Sissi, what's wrong? Did you get the message? ”

"Hmmm! I received it, and it makes sense, it's just..."

I saw Li Qianqian's hesitant voice on the other end of the phone:

"Didn't that fortune teller look at my marriage?"

"Oh... That's all I know. ”

Su Yue replied duciously, of course she couldn't tell Li Qianqian something bad, but out of some weakness, she saw Su Yue and then said:

"Why do you care so much about marriage?"

After a moment of silence, Li Qianqian's somewhat dull voice came from the other end of the phone:

"I'll tell you the truth, some time ago my mother helped me find a local fortune teller to calculate a hexagram..."

"Oh? So what did he say? ”

"Say I'm going to get a divorce... When I was in my thirties..."

"Huh? Divorce?! This..."

Su Yue was very surprised, she was surprised that the fortune teller was actually the same as her aunt's calculation, but now she had to pretend that she didn't know anything about this matter, and then said:

"How so?"

"I don't know how he figured it out..."

I only heard Li Qianqian continue helplessly:

"And afterwards, I met a master from a friend who was said to be a good fortune teller... The result is the same... Said I would get divorced in my thirties. ”

"You can't let this affect your mentality..."

Su Yue hurriedly reassured.

"I know... Although the truth is understood, it is impossible to be completely unaffected. I can only hope that I can look down on this at that age, maybe it won't be so uncomfortable. ”

"Sissi, my aunt often said to me, heaven and man are half each. Half of it is in God's hands, and we can't change it, but it's still half in our own hands, and it's up to us to change it. ”

"How can I change on my own?"

"Every decision made today is bound to affect the direction of the future... Just like the situational games we have played, the protagonist's different choices in each level are destined to produce different endings. It's just that the game can start all over again at any time, but you only have one life. Therefore, when making every decision, it must be the desire of the heart, and you must not deceive yourself. ”

"I see what you mean... Indeed, I know that I am now prone to falling into an unhealthy relationship, knowing that the other party is not consistent with my own three views, but because I am afraid of loneliness, I repeatedly deceive myself and live in the imagination of this person..."

"So Sissi, if you can realize this, you should understand that only by truly understanding the other party's heart can you accept his good and bad, so that both parties will be more calm, right? Only when you are wholeheartedly able to tolerate and accept the person's shortcomings, can you be called likable, right? ”

"Only when you are alone can you figure out these questions as you said. But once you fall in love, you are hot-headed again, and your thinking is not very clear, and you become troubled by gains and losses..."

"So it's still the same old question... Learn to be alone with yourself. When you're single, it's a good time to meditate, and sometimes it's important to explore your heart inward. ”

This is indeed Su Yue's personal experience, and she used to agree that as long as she continues to explore outward, she will be happy if she has more external things. And after experiencing some things with Lu Ze, he realized the importance of inward exploration.

No matter how much hardware you have——— beauty, high education, and enviable job or status..... Eventually, these external things will leave us with the passage of time, and then we will be left empty in our hearts, and regret that we did not use our limited time to do something truly meaningful.

Exploring the inner side will allow us to understand ourselves better, not only our strengths and weaknesses, strengths and weaknesses, but also what we really desire in our hearts.

And only when you truly and fully understand yourself can you call it self-love.

Compared to the so-called "self-love" wall built with material things, it will only compress our hearts more and more narrowly, so narrow that we cannot truly love the world.