"But Jingjing, I don't know how to manage the relationship between the two of us, I think as long as I can still pay for him, I am happy, although sometimes I don't get a response, I will be tired and feel sad, but when I think of him as the object, I have strength."

"Jingjing, have you ever had a heartbeat?"

When the heart is excited? Yang Jingjing's face appeared in Lu Yunkai's mind, as if there was, but that heartbeat was not love, she felt that it was just at that moment that the adrenal glands were secreted too much.

Yes, Yang Jingjing will never admit that she has fantasized about Lu Yunkai, he is definitely not the type she likes!

Seeing that Yang Jingjing didn't reply, Yang Lili smiled and raised her head, with stubbornness in her eyes, "Jingjing, if you have someone you like very much in the future, you will understand my current mood." ”

Yang Jingjing thought about her words carefully, and quietly shook her head, non-existent, her favorite person is always herself, she can't love others more than herself, although she is a liberal arts student, she will always maintain rational thinking.

But in this life, Yang Jingjing felt that Yang Lili was lucky at this point, and while she was moved by this, she also hoped that they could have a good ending.

So she had to pour cold water on her.

"I can actually understand you, but Fourth Sister, it's not this question I'm going to talk about." Yang Jingjing rarely called her the fourth sister, and she usually called her by her name.

"Fourth sister, do you think that as long as your contribution is because of him, you feel that it is worth it?"

In fact, Yang Lili's psychology is very easy to understand, just like idols and fans, fans can also be happy if they pay without asking for anything in return, Yang Jingjing feels that Yang Lili and Fengzhang are like this relationship.

Seeing Yang Lili nodding slightly, Yang Jingjing continued, "But have you ever wondered if he is willing to accept your contribution?" What if what he wants is an apple, and you give him an orange with all your might? ”

Seeing that Yang Lili didn't speak, Yang Jingjing continued, "So, either you try to get an apple and give it to him, or you change him and let him change what he wants from an apple to an orange." ”

"Is that okay?"

"Why not? You haven't even asked him, you must not live in self-touching, this is the most terrible. ”

Think you've given enough, think you deserve a response, think you can get someone else's approval.

In fact, I just moved myself, but I couldn't move others.

"Fourth sister, Feng Zhang and I have known each other for a long time, not to mention that I know him very well, but some things can still be seen, he is a very rebellious person in his bones, very arrogant, the more you give him something, the more he will not accept anything."

"What then?"

"What should I do?" Yang Jingjing smiled, dealing with this kind of arrogant person, not used to them This is the best way to deal with it, "Then you can give whatever you have, he loves it or not." ”

"Will he think I'm bad to him?"

"But he is not very good to you, you can't keep paying, let him feel that your pay is very cheap, right?"

"I don't know if you can do that." Yang Lili was silent for a moment, and then said, "But can I try?" ”

"Why not? I brought it up just to let you try, at the moment you and Feng Zhang can't get along like this, you can't pay unilaterally, if you two really want to last a long time, you must both work hard. ”

If both parties work hard, it will be possible to turn a pink heart into red and strive to be the most suitable person for the other party.

"And what gift should I give her this time? He's having a birthday. ”

"You have to let him see that you are preparing with your heart, but you can't make him feel that your mind is worthless, you know?"

"I don't know." Yang Lili shook her head honestly, "How do you know so much?" If you want to say that you haven't talked to someone, I don't believe it. ”

"I'm only 19 years old."

"19 years old is not young, when our mother was 19 years old, she gave birth to our eldest sister."

"......" Yang Jingjing was speechless for a moment, and then quickly changed back to the topic, "Now is not the time to talk about this, you listen to me." ”

"You say." Yang Lili supported her ears and looked like she was seriously asking for advice.

"When you give him a gift, you should properly indicate that you have been preparing this gift for a long time, but you can't care whether he uses it or not."

"What do you mean?"

"For example, if you give him a piece of clothing, you can tell him where you brought it from, but if he doesn't wear it, you can't keep asking him why he didn't wear it, you know?"

"I don't understand, why?"

Yang Lili at this moment, as if incarnated as 100,000 why?

"Because if the gift is given to someone else, it's someone else's, and you can't force him to like it, that's one of the reasons. Another reason is that according to the arrogant personality of your partner, the more you don't care, the more he wants you to feel cared, and if he cares about your feelings, won't your goal be achieved? ”

"Really? If I do this, will he be able to care about me? ”

"You can try." Yang Jingjing looked at Yang Lili's happy appearance, and once again thought of a widely circulated joke - lick the dog lick the dog, lick the dog to the end, and have nothing.

She hopes that Yang Lili will not have nothing in the end.

After all, if she has nothing, as her own sister, can she ignore her or what?

"By the way, I've been talking to you for so long, I've almost forgotten what I'm here for."

"yes, what are you talking about? Don't come to me if it's okay, I have to go to Fengzhang. ”

"Look at you, what did I just say? Tell you not to stick to him all the time, give him a little personal space, don't let him feel that he can't live without her, why can't you listen. ”

"Oh, I can't change it all at once...... Don't talk about this, what are you here for? ”

"Oh, I'm going to go abroad in a few days, if you need anything to bring, I can bring it back for you."

"What?" Yang Lili was so frightened that she stood up, and her voice became sharper, "You want to go abroad?" Why go abroad? ”

"Be quiet." Yang Jingjing looked around, fortunately they were on the other side of the grove, and there were not many people, "I'm here to work, not to play." ”

"What job?"

"Be a translator, don't ask so much first, think about what you want first, and I'll buy it for you then.".

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