Not to mention a stay-at-home mom, I don't even plan to be a mom.

Since ruling out the option of marriage and childbearing, I have found that many things are no longer in my consideration, and many worldly conditions can no longer bind me. fluttering and self-respecting, feathered into immortals.

For me, freedom is more important than family. Maybe I have a poor perception of happiness, I can't feel the happiness of getting married and having children around me, and I don't plan to feel it.

I'd rather go to Iraq to block shells, I'd rather go to 966, I'd rather experience the ICU, I'd rather compete with trolls than weave a dream that is already pure vanity.

I also like glory and wealth, but if it's someone like you, I don't want it.

I'd rather stay on my own, it's not much of a bitterness.

We need to always choose between freedom and temptation, temptation will always be there, and some freedom will never be regained.

However, there is always someone who pokes slowly and slowly.

I said what am I going to do, but you don't say it's because I'm young. I advise you to extend the evaluation of me, and by the way: take care of yourself. Marriage is a fart, no one should pretend to be forced. What you're saying is pure, that's not me. I hate those who are ready to betray their wives and children and want to cheat on me, and emphasize to me that "you must believe in love", I will pull your mother Linggabu to try?

Those who say they love me, who say they like me, do you really love me that much? How does "I love you" sound so disgusting from someone's mouth?!

A lot of people follow the rules because they're afraid, not because they're one-sided. Really used to nothing and no problems, I'm sure there will be more other things to replace this bouquet.

? Meaning itself is meaningless.

As I mentioned earlier, women need to pay attention to postpartum depression. 60%~80% of women have depression after giving birth, and 20% develop postpartum depression. Do you think it's just hypocrisy?

Truth be told, many people don't deserve to have children at all, even though existence is reasonable.

Many people only think about the innocent, lively, and cute side of children, but they don't realize that they have to face more trivial things such as children's naughtiness, naughtiness, stubbornness, and even urinating.

The unforgiving reality will only give you a resounding slap in the face, and I hate myself for knowing so much truth in advance.

Some people say that the important difference between women's sense and girl's sense comes from the difference in the level of thinking about marriage and love. It has been said that we spend our whole lives trying to get rid of expectations and live our true selves.

I don't want to be the kind of parent I hate the most when my child is facing a low point in his life because I can't accurately judge his state, so that he suffers more and becomes the kind of parent I hate the most. I don't want to look at my children and experience the bitterness I have suffered, I don't want to see myself over and over again. In order to avoid this problem, I might as well just not fall in love and not get married. I just don't want to toss.

There is a saying on Zhihu: "Don't talk about childbirth, I don't even have a low desire to survive." "Some people say that people are hypocritical, heh.

I heard that everyone should thank their parents for giving them a chance to see the world, but the world is so cold that even your parents can indiscriminately scold you when you are at a low point in your life, and you can also say "we are for your good". And that's the reality.

I'm sorry, I can't thank you enough.

But I'm not anti-marriage and anti-childbearing, I'm still very supportive of girls pursuing love. I just hope that this social group will be less ignorant and less malicious towards the so-called older women and unmarried people in some of the population.