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Brother Y is a friend I made at Starbucks in Guangzhou, and I have known him for two years now. In layman's terms, it is also C9.

I got to know you all the way, and I felt that many of my predecessors' bachelor's degrees were higher than mine, and I was a 211 to the point where I often needed to laugh at myself?! That's why I often mention prestigious universities in my writings.

When I took a leave of absence to attend the annual meeting in Beijing at the Qiuguo Hotel, someone said that he was going to study at Harvard's philosophy department after this period of time, and persuaded me to repeat it on the spot. Repetition?

It doesn't matter, I'll consciously go to graduate school.

However, there is another kind of person in Beijing who drives you in a luxury car, and they will say that they were not very good when they were in school, and they can also go to Peking University and Tsinghua University to give lectures, meet Ma Yun, and see Liu Chuanzhi when they are not confused.

So it's not necessarily.

It's okay to laugh at yourself, but it's okay to have low self-esteem.

I remember that two weeks before the college entrance examination, I suddenly suffered a heart loss, and I was miserable for a week, and I went to the hospital but couldn't find out why, and there was only one week left before the exam, so I took two days off to stay at home and wait for the failure to come. I felt from the bottom of my heart: I'm finished, I can only look like this after working hard for more than ten years?

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Y sent me a quote at the time: "Trust your luck. ”

I thought this sentence was particularly...... In fact, this sentence refers to the reprieve after trying to do your best. It is the "randomness" that I often talk about later, similar to the Buddhist "gain and loss follow fate" and "bitterness and happiness follow fate".

To

Brother Y once said that I was the youngest person in his WeChat circle of friends, and he mainly appreciated my control over the text so much that he didn't click to delete it. (Of course, this is all, he must be greedy for my beauty.) ）

Business trip for To

Brother Y is normal, I remember one time I was in Shanghai, and he said he was also in Shanghai. Then I went to Suzhou and then to Hangzhou. When I first arrived in Hangzhou, he asked me where I was, and I said I was in Hangzhou. He said that he was at Hangzhou Xiaoshan International Airport, had just finished a meal with others, and was about to fly to Shenzhen.

During the months I spent in Beijing during my sabbatical year, he would occasionally take me to a meal when he came to Beijing on a business trip. Back then, there were a lot of bs around me, and I often talked to him about those little boys and big men.

He said: "Marriage is like drawing lots, you think you will marry this, but in fact you marry that. I thought that was a lot of nonsense back then...... Can marriage be compared to casting lots? Looking back now, it makes sense, To

Brother Y is really skilled.

It's just that I'm not married now.

When I took a leave of absence, people around me would basically say, "Why did you take a leave of absence?" Even my mother said that not only was I a year older, but she also made them pay for their living expenses for an extra year.

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Brother Y said: "It's better to take a leave of absence than if you go to a place you don't want to go." ”

I still have no regret about the suspension of school, so please extend the time to evaluate one thing. Beisuo loses his horse, and there is no certain blessing or misfortune.

In the past, when I followed Brother Miao as a multinational project assistant in the health alliance, I also used to follow To very young and frivolously

Brother Y said, "I will retire with success." ”

To

Brother Y said: "Succeed first, and then retire." ”

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I don't know To

Brother Y is not a nostalgic person, but he does like to go to the restaurants he used to eat repeatedly.

I once asked him, "Don't you often want your wife when you're away on business?" But this is more free, so is freedom more important, or is your wife important? ”

"It's all important."

When I was in high school, I often thought about whether I would study finance or fashion design. Later, because I had no foundation in painting, and because I had a certain obsession with finance back then, I majored in accounting as an undergraduate.

I asked To when I took a leave of absence

Brother Y, should I study accounting, or should I change my major? He said that an industry like fashion design has to have a very special talent, and it has to be the few people who become the pyramid to be qualified (no pejorative here).

I don't bother with the fashion design profession anymore, it's not that I lost this dream, but I believe that it will become a postponement for me.

To

Y's grandfather served as the chairman of the Anti-Japanese Salvation Committee, the secretary of the mountain party committee, the leader of the anti-Japanese guerrillas, the deputy chief of the Anti-Japanese Federation, and the director of the Anti-Japanese Federation. At the age of 44, he was arrested for serious injuries and brutal Japanese allowed wolfdogs to eat his flesh.

That's why I see To a lot

The reason why Brother Y went to Nanjing to participate in the big march.

Chai Jing said: "Only people who have also experienced boundless darkness are qualified to say, I understand you. ”

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