The desire to control usually refers to the absolute dominance of a certain thing or a certain person to some extent.

For controlling people, as parents, children are not so much an independent individual in this society as a possession of them. The children's life trajectory and daily life are carefully planned and designed by them, which is the path they point out for the children, and it is also the road that the children must walk.

If the child does not follow their consciousness, then it is unfilial.

"I've done so much for you, why can't you think about it for me?"

"Do you think I'm easy? One person pulls you to this big? ”

"Don't worry, people all over the world may harm you, but I won't, after all, you are a piece of meat that fell from my body."

If life is a game, they will never allow their children to fail in this game.

Why is this happening? It's just that they've failed or lost before, so they're more afraid of failing or losing something again.

Rather than worrying about their children's failures, they may say that they are afraid of losing them because of their children's failures or rebellions, so they want to keep their children under control.

This is not a no-go.

No one cares about him as much as I do.

He actually talked back to me, so is he going to leave me next?

When the people they focus on don't meet their needs, they become stubborn and rude, like a steamroller on the road, ignoring the other person's feelings and only looking at their own goals.

In that state, perhaps they are more like a vexatious child for their beloved toys.

In their view, those who disobey them are deliberately working against them.

"So you never thought about talking to your mother?" Ji Xiaoran looked at the little fox, "Even if she restricts your social interactions, restricts your life path, and doesn't even give you a little free time?" Isn't the most important thing that people want is freedom? ”

Hu Lingzi looked at her with his mouth open for a long time before squeezing out a sentence "I think it's okay" from his mouth.

He didn't feel that he couldn't accept all this. Hu Yue sighed, sat on the edge of the bed and lifted the little fox up, looking at each other, "Do you know the difference between a fox and a dog?" ”

Dogs are loyal and friendly; Foxes, on the other hand, are cunning and do not wag their tails at people. That's because foxes don't want to revolve around their owners every day like dogs, they naturally want to have a fixed lunch box every day without worrying about food and clothing, but they are more willing to run freely between heaven and earth. They may be lucky enough to eat a rabbit today, but they may be lucky enough to catch a mouse tomorrow, or they may be caught by hunters and stripped of their fur to make a neck blanket, but they can hold on to themselves knowing what they are facing.

"Child, you are a fox, even if you are reprimanded, you will not become a dog."

Like domesticating an animal, like boiling a frog in warm water, control is carried out little by little from the beginning of the attempt. It will only appear on a larger scale after it has been successful on a smaller scale. Submission in the face of initial control is an endorsement of the pressurizer. It is a slowly cumulative process, and it is the acquiescence that allows it to gain more and more control over time.

Hu Lingzi has been like this since he was a child. In the face of Chu Qin's request, he never seemed to think about contradicting or expressing his anger and dissatisfaction, but constantly put pressure on his spirit.

Step by step, it led to the situation he is in now.

no longer takes the initiative to become friends with others as before, because he knows that even if he tries, the other party will leave him because of Chu Qin in the end; I don't try new things like I used to, because if I don't achieve or show my talent, I will be reprimanded for "not doing my job".

Compromise became a habit, and he had forgotten how to resist.

So he enjoyed spending time with Hu Yue because he didn't have to compromise blindly. It was precisely because of this that he was reluctant to tell Chu Qin that he had recognized Hu Yue, because that might make him lose even such a time.

"Would you like to have a good talk with her? If you're afraid, I'll be with you. Hu Yue said, "You are about to become an adult, even from the perspective of a guardian, she has no way to stand still." ”

Hu Lingzi sighed deeply and raised his tail, "Do you want to talk about it in this way?" ”

This is naturally impossible, so the two pairs of eyes looked at Ji Yin.

Ji Cheng naturally understood what they meant, "You may not be able to pay that price." ”

The realm is under the control of the Ghost Emperors, and only in the central region he can have the right to move more freely at night in the realm of the realm, which is entirely due to Zhou begging for him.

The place that can speed up the flow of time is a secret realm under the Yellow Spring, and the last time he entered with Zhou Xian, he basically exhausted all the favors he had originally accumulated.

After that, the music box rang once, and even Meng Lun paid the price, and the amount was just so large.

And Mingyue had already died, three days after her son returned from overseas.

Hu Yue knew Zhou Qi's story, so when he heard that the other party was collecting vitality, he understood.

"I'm willing to pay for him." He took the little fox into his arms and stroked his fur gently, "It's just that I wish I could leave a little time to watch him finish the rest of the game." ”

It's not a difficult thing, just like Meng Lun's request at the beginning. Zhou Qicai didn't care what would happen to the vitality provider here in the end, as long as he could get better and more vitality, he could. TV updates the fastest //

The little fox didn't understand what price to pay, but he understood that it must not be a good thing behind these words, so he immediately tilted his head and vetoed, "No! ”

He was reluctant to give up the game because he didn't want to be tied to Chu Qin like this anymore, but even if he couldn't wait to escape, he didn't want the other party to be disappointed.

In the same way, he does not want another person who loves him to face unknown dangers because of his choice.

"Maybe because he's half-blooded, he can't go through the first bloodline awakening for that long?" Ji Xiaoran tentatively spoke, "If it is not the bloodline that begins to awaken on the night of the full moon, is it possible that it will end on the night of the full moon?" ”

The next stage of the race will start when the moon will be perfect again.

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