"Be a Layman, Greedy for Money and Lustful"

Author: Gong Beilei

The article is from a collection of essays: You say that the wind and water rise on your own

You and I are mediocre people, not interesting souls at all, and we don't even have patient replies.

Most people are mediocre, I can't appreciate you, you can't attract me, after all, I can only pass by.

It's hard to admit your mediocrity.

Therefore, the most difficult dream for most people to achieve is to stop dreaming. Sadly, even if a dream that lasts for years or decades is achieved, the joy and sense of accomplishment it brings may not last a day.

The heightened motivation makes us not feel lasting happiness, and our tired eyes are full of countless peaks we want to climb.

For example, those who are engaged in finance will feel that they travel all over the world all day long, doing cattle and horses, why have they not been able to join the ranks of the rich, handsome, white and beautiful on Wall Street.

Most people will eventually find that after exhaustion, they are just enough to live a mediocre life.

I once went to play golf, and I realized at the driving range that golf was really scary at my level. I suddenly felt that practicing golf was a bit monotonous, so I searched four local equestrian academies and added the WeChat of three stores, ready to learn a little bit of fur for some money.

Before I was 20 years old, I experienced the academic circle, golf circle, live broadcast circle, bundi circle, writing circle, campus model team, pet circle and other circles, and I just felt that the equestrian circle/golf circle/academic circle was slightly purer than the live broadcast circle/bundi circle, and I didn't particularly like it.

A summer vacation can be regarded as being PUA several times. For example, a man in his 40s, who is also said to have a 985 bachelor's degree, and who studied abroad for a master's degree when he was young, has been involved in various industries along the way, claiming to have traveled all over the world in tourism, and has started his own business as a CEO in recent years.

At that time, I claimed to know a lot of real bosses, and when I saw that I posted a circle of friends after the exam, I was sarcastic that I was uneducated. Seeing that I tried on a pink wig after the exam, imitating Barbie dolls but humbly calling it 'Kill Matt', I sarcastically dyed my hair was colorful like a thirteenth sister. Seeing that I posted a friend who rewarded 9,000 yuan for his grade point progress as agreed, he ridiculed me for being too vulgar.

I think the first standard of reference for seeing the world is to be inclusive, understanding, and less biased.

I admit that there are many bosses in first-tier cities, and I definitely don't refute the mixed discotheques, and I agree that dyeing my hair affects my social interactions. But with the age of 40 and a girl who is 22+ years younger than himself, he can still have a lot of superiority?

I am also ashamed to say that I know so many bosses, and none of them have taken a fancy to me balabala, are you sure you really understand the process of getting along with my bosses? I don't say much, I don't write too much, just because I don't want to reveal too much.

After a summer of emotional fermentation and thinking. I suddenly felt that this person's text orientation can be described as concise language and clear thinking. Without years of experience, it is difficult to have such a PUA idea. It is not excluded that the habitual PUA is due to the employees and women around you.

I am very much in favor of a statement on the Internet to the effect that our country should pass a business card printing management law. Lest we, the 'little girls', attend some financial/technology forums and exhibitions, and when we see the stacks of business cards in our hands, we are embarrassed for these men, and we feel that this group of people is about to take over the entire central bank.

When necessary, this kind of person will use his own mouth to package the girls around him as white and rich beauty, and the men also use their own mouths to package them as big business owners. It is not ruled out that it is a professional reason, so I maintain an attitude of understanding and do not evaluate too much.

Although dyeing my hair will affect my social networking, as a young person born in the 00s, it is not an exaggeration for me to wear a wig and play cosplay in the summer vacation after the exam. To be honest, I don't like to perm my hair, and I have enough hair that I lose every final/exam week.

Recently, I watched the movie "Private Custom", which has a scene about elegance and vulgarity. I finally thought about the truth that came from me: be a layman, greedy for money and lustful.

In fact, the rich are more realistic, calculating, and sober. What nonsense is vulgar to talk about money? As I've mentioned in other articles, I think talking about money is one of the signs of a person's maturity.

For the kind of people who have no background and only a back (like me), the proportion of things that money can't buy is really too small.

I forgot who said: "90 percent of the world's problems can be solved with money, and the remaining 10 percent can be solved with the help of money." ”

"For most people, money means survival – even life itself."

I really like the feeling of walking on the ridge, and I also like the rare fulfillment of volunteering at the Small Animal Protection Society. But I have no choice but to be a rich second generation, and some changes are not because I drank a few bowls of chicken soup and read a few books, but because I have experienced some things, contacted some people, and can better understand a complex and specific society.

When I came to the school to report that I was a sophomore, I was despised by a postdoctoral fellow on the same campus. It is said that this person was an orphan when he was a child, and was later adopted, and was admitted to a 985 undergraduate degree several years younger than his peers, and it is said that he later became an X-level officer, claiming that he had obtained a CPA certificate in non-accounting majors, and was currently 28 years old in our school to do tasks, and some time ago claimed to have won the title of postdoctor.

After being introduced by a friend, I met him a few times, and then I rejected him, mainly because I could feel that the three views were very inconsistent. I just told him that I didn't like him being a bit crazy. He once said unashamedly: If we college students were on the same train as him, we would be toilet cleaners, and he would be in a soft sleeper. I was eating the hot pot made for me by this postdoc majoring in food, drinking the Coke he bought, and I couldn't say anything (after all, I was a scumbag), mainly because I was used to delaying the evaluation of everyone as much as possible.

When I say that I am trying to get a master's degree with a GPA, the alumnus will say, "It's boring" and "I don't have any use for a bunch of academic qualifications." It seems that in many cases, it is not the rich who look down on us readers, but the readers who look down on us readers.

During the summer vacation, I visited a lot of sales offices, occasionally ate exquisite Western food, occasionally practiced golf, occasionally jumped on Di, and occasionally lived in a five-star hotel. It's over, and the alumni stood up and sarcastically mocked me, and I was drunk and cynical (sic).

I do often go to the disco, I just like the atmosphere of the discotheque, but the annual cost is not more than 500, I am currently 2280. Because of the fact that Bundy has been satirized many times, I have never spoken. I go to the disco almost always during the time when it is not too busy, if I invite a friend I will pay for the wine, most of the time I go by myself, I don't like to drink, and there is no one to stand when I buy wine.

I know very well that my funds are not yet abundant, so I can burn and build as I like. If money doesn't bring more money, then I need to be careful with every penny. I'm not rich, and I chose to stay in a five-star hotel because I like the hotel industry. If I had enough money, I would probably have planned a master's degree in hotel management instead of finance.

This alumnus sarcastically said that I know several high-end talents, all of whom are self-righteous. said that I pretended to be tall and looked down on my peers.

I can be sarcastically pretended to be tall when I go to a sales office or something, and I still pay attention to me if I can't get used to it. I can't afford to buy any of the properties I've visited so far, but I don't always need to invest money to make money. Investment is an accumulation of capital and knowledge, but it takes a lot of money and time to acquire this knowledge.

Different concerns are different, so what is the difference between superior and inferior? There is no distinction between styles and styles, and I do prefer to visit the sales office rather than shopping.

Anyway, he said a bunch of harsh-sounding things back and forth, and he never modestly answered any serious questions. First of all, I decided to meet for the sake of several titles, and then I was able to endure the discomfort and be friends for a while, just because we were still on the same campus.

To put it mildly, one of the reasons I studied for a master's degree was to not marry a garbage guy like him. To be honest, I am very fat (I laugh at myself every day), my appearance is low, and my personality and thinking pattern are uncomfortable for me and my roommate.

In the end, I replied: "You can understand how you understand love, it's as light as water", and then took the initiative to delete WeChat. Isn't it good for everyone to live in their own values, explain your mother's explanation, if you can't understand, get out, you can go to whoever you like, it's okay to go to me.

I don't need the inexplicable attention of such people. Convincing others is one of the most tiring and ineffective things.

In the words of netizens: "It doesn't matter if you love me or not, I have been loved unconditionally, Lao Tzu has eaten, seen and felt, and I don't need you to make up for this experience in life." ”

I still believe that time and strength will prove that any form of slander will eventually become a passing thing in my life.

I decided to be a layman, greedy for money, lustful, and admit my mediocrity.