'The more confused you are, the more it backfires'

Lu Qingyu is the wife of He Kedi who met in London and married there. This was also peculiar in the circumstances of the time. After discussion, He Dongchuan and his wife decided to send a handwritten greeting along with a beautifully printed booklet --- "He Couple" by He Jianmin.

This is a unique paper version of autobiography compiled by He Dongchuan and his wife. The reason why it is called a lone book is because it was printed, which made He Jianmin very envious, and he kept rubbing his hands at He Kedi's wedding and didn't know what he was thinking...

At the end of the wedding, Lu Qingyu said to He Kedi emotionally:

"We are in a distant and foreign land, and it is a sin to do such a great gift without going through the face of our parents. Because of the body, the parents did not come in person because they didn't want to add to the cumbersome for us, we can't blame the slightest bit for this, the second elder personally handwritten for us is already the biggest gift" She said to He Jianmin seriously: "Thank you Uncle for your hard work, but you still have to trouble Uncle to sit upright..."

Lu Qingyu itself looks dignified, and her white wedding dress looks even more dusty and fairy. She sorted out her thoughts, straightened up, and knelt down in front of He Jianmin, who was sitting there holding a book: "Daughter-in-law Qingyu swears an oath to this book, willing to advance and retreat with the enemy, discipline herself strictly, run the family thriftily, and learn hard with the enemy, and will definitely live up to the expectations of her parents, and be worthy of the grace of the second elder..." Her actions shocked He Jianmin, and he didn't dare to move, for fear of blaspheming solemnity...

He Kedi's reaction was slightly slower, and he was infected by a land herring. He was pleased with Lu Qingyu's kindness and understanding, and knelt down to the book He Jianmin was holding and said:

"The parents are above, and the dog's marriage is arbitrary, and it is a great unfilial piety to not return to the knees of the second elder to accept the teachings, which is a sin; The current big wedding and foreign foreign countries are not consecrated, and it is the second sin; The dog once admired the extravagance of the foreigner, which is the third sin; Dogs... The dog didn't ask his parents for forgiveness, but only asked the second elder to take care of his body carefully, and when the dog returned..."Before he finished speaking, he fell to the ground and couldn't cry.

He Jianmin didn't dare to sit down anymore, he already knelt down, raised the book above his head with both hands, and smiled with tears...

The foreign classmates and friends who came to celebrate the newlyweds were too confused: "Marriage is a good thing, are they not happy to get the blessings of relatives, friends and family and enter the marriage hall with the person they love?" ”

"What are you doing, why are these three still crying and falling to their knees?" Other international students from Dahua also came together, and they were deeply moved to explain to those who did not know the history of Dahua, and the foreign friends who understood stood up and applauded, and came forward to hug them and give them the most sincere support and blessings.

It was only at this moment today that Lu Qingyu suddenly truly understood the true meaning of the word 'marriage' and understood the true meaning of responsibility.

The process of growing up is like this, some things are enlightened because of people's words, there are enlightenment and confusion, it is better to be self-enlightened, and those who want to get from the outside world, there are gains and losses, it is better to rest from self-satisfaction.

The busy study life did not hinder the husband and wife from pursuing happiness, and in their spare time, they visited Britain and Europe, or beautiful and bright, or dignified and elegant scenery, and the warblers were smiling and smiling everywhere. On this day, Lu Qingyu returned home early, decorated the room, changed the warm tablecloth, and lit candles to prepare an unforgettable surprise for He Kedi, who was about to graduate from the doctorate.

Waving his arms and frying steak, Lu Qingyu, who was in a good mood, picked up the cordless phone that rang non-stop and was about to hang up, not wanting this discordant sound to affect his mood. When her left thumb was about to press the red button to hang up, she subconsciously stopped her movements and pressed the answer button nervously...

He Kedi also hurried home, holding a bouquet of roses in his arms, today is the wedding anniversary, and he wants to accompany Lu Qingyu more. opened the door of the house, excitedly shouted her name, and after getting no response, he entered the house and put the flowers on the table carefully arranged by Lu Qingyu, and went to look for her gently. He couldn't find it left and right, so he groped the back of his head and walked to the kitchen to prepare for cooking.

Behind the wide kitchen counter, he saw the herring curled up in a corner, and was about to shout "su."

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ise！ He Kedi realized that something was wrong, and the words were stuck in his throat. He was frightened, thinking that his wife was injured somewhere, and subconsciously looked for the wound on Lu Qingyu's body, quickly picked up the phone that fell on the floor and was ready to call for help, Lu Qingyu hugged He Kedi, who was kneeling beside him, and cried bitterly.

He Kedi's head was blank, his body was paralyzed like a balloon that had been emptied, and he didn't even know how to get back to China...

When Lu Xuanyue's body was already decorated when he arrived in Daning, Lu Qingyu helped her walking corpse-like husband to move to the coffin with difficulty. There, the mother was waiting for them to come back...

The further he went, the more sad Lu Qingyu became, the one lying there was the kind mother-in-law, and the one lying there was the mother who treated her like her own daughter, where...

She looked at her mother-in-law, who was kind and peaceful, lying in the cold coffin, her already red and swollen eyes were big teardrops, falling in a line, smashing on her feet, and getting wet... Remorse, self-blame, and pain are mixed with various emotions, which makes Lu Qingyu faint.

The son wants to raise but does not wait, what a helpless tragic fact, if you miss this life, there will be no next life...

Lu Qingyu is the most beloved woman, because of the obsession in her heart when she got married, she did not return to China to get married, in fact, it has always been the pursuit of romantic feelings, a little woman mentality, this is not wrong. Not only did the in-laws not blame but also personally handwritten blessings, preparing special gifts to show relief and appreciation, the in-laws' carefulness, this protection is enough to make Lu Qingyu move a lifetime.

It's just that such regrets will accompany her and He Kedi for the rest of their lives.

'Thank you for defeating the enemy...' Lu Qingyu thought as he looked at the sleeping He Kedi and kissed him affectionately.

The birth of the child gradually diluted the He family's grief over the death of the old lady. The arrival of the first child of the He family obviously made He Dongchuan's old face bloom, and He Dongchuan, who was excited for a while, hurriedly asked the child's name, and then Lu Qingyu suddenly forgot about such a big event, and hurriedly asked her husband. He Kedi buried deep in his heart with the guilt of his parents, and never showed it by Lu Qingyu's side. But as a wife, how could she not know the sensitivity of her innate advantages as a woman.

He Dongchuan, who was holding the baby on the hospital bed, thought for a while, "I named it 'Dongzhi', and my mother's surname was 'Lu'." This result shocked the husband and wife, He Dongchuan handed Xiao Dongzhi to He Ke's enemy and said, "Just call it this name..."

Seeing that his father-in-law had already made a conclusion, Lu Qingyu did not dare to refute. The husband and wife exited the ward, and after He Lao's assistant sent them out, he slowly half-closed the door and sat quietly in the study to record something.

When Lu Dongzhi was very young, she pointed to the national map hanging in her father's office more than once, and told her mother that she would conquer all the mountains in the country. I don't know if this is the innocence of the little girl, or the frivolity of the newborn calf who doesn't know the height of the sky, Lu Qingyu always chuckles and caresses her head, I don't know whether to agree or disagree.

Lu Dongzhi is 9 years old, I don't know why, Lu Qingyu has always reminded her in the past six months to stop playing with her uncle's younger brother He Dong. She asked Lu Qingyu why, and Lu Qingyu replied, asking her not to ask or say.

Lu Qingyu talked about this matter with He Kedi very seriously, and He Kedi, who is a minor in psychology, can sense the seriousness of the matter, and he is also looking for an opportunity to talk to He Jianmin...

Lu Qingyu's opinions are very sufficient, and they are all ineffable. She could only vaguely inform He Kedi that judging from the current situation, she couldn't stimulate Xiao Hedong now, because the child was still young and didn't understand the reason, so she would find an opportunity to explain things clearly and in detail with Jianmin and his wife, and there should be no unnecessary misunderstandings, if things were difficult, she could only send Xiao Dongzhi to her aunt's house in Canada, where she would grow and live.

He Kedi disagreed at first, the child was in a foreign country at such a young age, and finally he couldn't bear the child's suffering. But left and right couldn't think of a better way, of course he knew what Lu Qingyu wanted to say and worry about, and after looking at her for a while, he could only agree first.

... ...

Lu Dongzhi couldn't control his sadness anymore when he saw this. She also got to know her parents for the first time, and also regained clarity in the vague distant memories...