Chapter 9 Teacher-Student Conflict
One-two-three-four, one-two-three-four!
Loud slogans came and went.
The music of recess exercises is light and pleasant. Students at Marina Middle School are exercising.
On the first day of school, the students were in high spirits, the teachers were radiant, and even Teacher Sun Yuxia had a rare smile on her face, and she also thanked Huaying.
The haze lasted for too long, and she hadn't exercised for many days, and Huaying felt that people had no strength at all.
Running drills require teachers to accompany the whole process, and as a class teacher, Huaying is even more responsible. But her physique was not good, and after a lap of work, she felt the smell of blood gushing from her throat to her mouth.
But we still have to keep reminding those children who love to talk or can't persevere: "Come on! Hang on! Come on! ”
Shh
With the flow of students, climbing to the third floor, Huaying was a little out of breath.
"Call!"
"I don't fight!"
Shrill shouting pierced the classroom, and the hallway was distinctly audible.
"You don't have to look for my mother, I won't study!"
Hanaying was taken aback and hurriedly ran to the door of the classroom. Han Ning raised his head, squinted his eyes, pursed his lips, pulled his homework workbook in his hand vigorously, raised the hallway, and looked at the English teacher hostilely.
Wang Xin, an English teacher in the Flower Shadow class, is in his early fifties and has gray hair. She has worked diligently in the teaching position all her life, from an ordinary private teacher to a formal teacher, she has witnessed the reform and changes of education in the past 30 years.
Teacher Wang Xin's face turned red, and his voice trembled with anger: "Who are you shouting at?" What upbringing? I'm older than your parents, so I'm really lawless......."
The English teacher is already incoherent. She has been teaching all her life, and she feels that her current students are becoming more and more disobedient, and she has become more angry in the past few years than in the previous twenty years combined.
Huaying hurriedly interrupted Teacher Wang and comforted her: "Don't be angry, it's not worth it, watch your body." ”
"Tell me, how many times has this been, and how bad is it to other students who don't write homework every day? It also depends on him that he is a piece of learning material, so we promoted him extraordinarily, you look at people, I didn't do my homework last weekend, and I can't memorize the short essay from the night before, so let him find me to find me to re-write it today, and I won't look for it. I just made an appointment with my parents last week, and I can't afford any homework, what can I do? I want to talk to him before class, look at this attitude! ”
"Don't get excited, don't get excited, you go to class first, you can't delay the other children, right? I'll take care of it. "Huaying is really worried about Teacher Wang's body, after all, she is old and has high blood pressure.
Huaying led Han Ning out of the classroom and asked him in the corridor, "Why didn't you do your homework again?" ”
"I wrote it!" Han Ning said with a glare.
"Written? Can the teacher say that you didn't write it? Can she deliberately wronged you? ”
"It's just that I have been wronged, and the elementary school teacher has often wronged me!"
"Your manly words have a basis, who knows if the elementary school teacher is wronged or not, don't talk nonsense. Teacher Wang, conscientious, all her life, taught our class English so well, you don't thank it, and say that she wronged you, is it right to ignore you? ”
"Then don't care, I don't care if I learn anything about her!"
Huaying was also angry: "Okay, does she want to leave you alone in the future, let's talk about it, you just say that you have written your homework?" Where is it written? ”
Han Ning angrily pointed to the ground: "I'm torn!" ”
Hua Ying suddenly felt her blood surge, and her chest was uncomfortable: "Okay, I'm not doing anything today, just to let you tell the truth." She leaned down to pick up Han Ning's shredded homework workbook, and scolded in a low voice, "Let's go, go to my office!" ”
Han Ning didn't move, Hua Ying pushed him, but he struggled to shake Hua Ying's arm and shouted hysterically: "Don't move me, I'm not going!" ”
Hua Ying was so angry that she couldn't say a word, in order to calm down her emotions, she put Han Ning's homework book on the windowsill and put it together.
"That's your homework?" Flower Shadow turned to him and asked, "Just made a multiple-choice question?" Why don't you do any other questions? With your level you don't know! ”
"I did!"
"Done? Where? Flower Shadow asked, pointing to the blank workbook.
"I do it on paper......"
"Where's the paper?"
"I can't find the paper."
"If you say that all the time, can you make a fresh excuse?" Huaying was very angry, she was patient, and continued to ask, "What happened to the short essay I memorized the night before?" "Huaying wants to see when Han Ning will really be exhausted.
"I'm back!"
"Then why can't you say a word?"
"I forgot!"
"That's not memorized ....... skill"
"I'm proficient in my back! It's just a silence and forget it! ”
The child said very lightly, but Huaying was so angry that she was going crazy, she was angry that such a child with excellent grades was lying a lot. No matter how much you ask it, the evidence is conclusive, and you can't change a word of truth.
Not doing homework may be something that every child will experience in their life, and it will not make people so angry, but it is really infuriating to often not do homework, but still want to deceive others, and refuse to bear the consequences.
In the second year of junior high school, I am not a child, I must know to respect others and dare to act.
When Hua Ying was thinking about how to enlighten him, Han Ning's parents arrived. It was a call from an English teacher.
"Teacher Flower Shadow—" the parent said, "What's the matter, didn't he write his homework?" ”
"It's not just a matter of not doing your homework," Hua Ying turned to Han Ning and said, "Tell your mother yourself, and see if we have wronged you." ”
"What's wrong? Child. The parent asked softly.
Han Ning twisted and didn't speak.
"Is it cold in the hallway? Put on your clothes......" he said, taking off his coat to put on the child.
Han Ning stubbornly refused to wear it, and his parents pulled his arm into his sleeve: "Why are your hands so cold?" ”
When Huaying saw this scene, her heart was half cold.
"Don't worry about it!" Unexpectedly, the child did not receive the love of the parents.
"How did you talk to your mother?" Flower Shadow scolded sharply.
"It's okay, it's okay," the parent was startled, "Teacher, this kid has been talking like this since he was a child." ”
Huaying was speechless: "Then you enlighten him, we can't communicate with him now, when we say it, it's all his reason, as if we deliberately embarrassed him." ”
"Yes, kid, if you have something to say to the teacher! Explain to the teacher. ”
"Anyway, they all look at me unpleasantly and wronged me!" The child still muttered this.
"Don't you like it? Why are you unpleasant in the class? Huaying's temper came up to interrupt Han Ning, "You don't write your homework every day, don't we tell your parents?" You yelled at Teacher Wang, how old is she? Do you have a little bit of a distinction between the old and the young, do you have a bit of politeness? ”
Hua Ying became popular and threw Han Ning's workbook into the hands of his parents: "Look at his homework!" ”
The parents were stunned, looked at the torn homework book, frowned, thought that the teacher had torn up the child's homework book, and just wanted to distinguish two sentences: "How to do homework in the future?" ”
"He didn't want to do his homework in the future, he tore up all the homework books, and he just won't do it again!"
Only then did the parents understand that the homework was torn by the child himself, and he was speechless for a while.
"It's not that you don't know how much we value him, you can do his ideological work, figure it out and ask him to apologize to the English teacher and make up the homework! I'll go and hand over the students' teaching materials first, and there will be classes in our class next time. ”
Huaying felt the need to provide a space for children and parents to communicate, so she decided to leave for a while.
But as soon as she turned around and walked away, she heard Han Ning shouting at her mother, "What does it matter to you that I don't do my homework?" You're also going to force me with your teacher? If you force me again, I won't go to school, you take me to drop out! ”
Han Ning was very impulsive, especially after the teacher left, he was even more unscrupulous and unreasonable.
Children always have the means to deal with their parents, even threats and intimidation.
Huaying hurried to the accounting room, handed over the student's fees, and came back, only to hear Han Ning's mother say, "Okay, then let's go home first, tomorrow you think about it, let's finish our homework and come back to school, right?" ”
Who knows if the child still doesn't do it: "I'm not going home!" As he spoke, he simply sat on the ground and couldn't get up.
"What's wrong?" Flower Shadow asked.
It happened that the child's father also came: "Go, go home, don't show up with this shame!" ”
"I'm not leaving!" The child did not buy his father's account, and began to provoke his father again.
"If you don't leave, study hard! Apologize to the teacher! ”
"I won't apologize!"
"And what do you want to do?"
"I want to die-" With this sentence, Han Ning got up from the ground and ran downstairs.
Huaying and the parents are in a hurry, in case of any accidents, it is really not worth it. Han Ning is not a bad student, he is just a student that the teachers have high hopes for, but today's children are lazy, fragile, and vain to the point of being out of control. Because parents are slaves to their children, there are no parents in the eyes of children, let alone the position of teachers, so it is inevitable that they will not be respected.
At this time, the parents also changed their faces, no longer stood on the united front of the teacher, and sneered and said: "Isn't it just that you didn't write your homework?" As for it? Look at the kids! After saying that, he hurried after the child.
Hua Ying was still very worried about the child at first, and shouted: "Han Ning, come back!" "It's a little disgusting to hear parents say that. He stopped chasing downstairs.
The child is a postcard for the parents, nice. Unfortunately, there are inevitably some problems with family education in the whole country. Now it is the parents of the children who pay for the children; In the future, it will be our society that will pay for millions of children.
Flower Shadow also feels that education is even more pathetic. Teachers have no rights because you are an adult and you are dealing with minors. No one will accuse a child of being willful, only someone will blame your poor guidance. So, who exactly is in a vulnerable position?
Huaying thought: Okay, we have the law, and what education can't manage, the law will be in charge in the future.
Huaying lowered her head and thought about her thoughts, and when she returned to the office, she was really physically and mentally exhausted, and she had just finished running and exercising, and she didn't have enough water to drink a sip of water, so something like this happened. And such unexpected things are happening in various forms every day.
In the office, Ning Xin and several old teachers were there.
Hanakage explained the matter. The old teachers sympathized with her and said, "Go and find it, call the security department and tell them not to open the school gate." ”
Hanaying called the security department, and the officer on duty in the security department said that no one went out of the school gate. Hua Ying held on to a glimmer of hope and asked them to help check the surveillance, hoping to know where Han Ning was now. Unfortunately, he climbed from the school fence to the outside of the school.
What can I do? Flower Shadow asked the old teachers. Everyone shook their heads, saying that they couldn't help it.
Teacher Chen said: "No way, I think I'm unlucky, I hope something doesn't happen to the child." ”
Teacher Zhao said: "If you run from school, the school must have a certain responsibility. ”
Flower Shadow said, "But I didn't do anything?" ”
Ning Xin said: "Who told you to expose other people's lies? It's okay to find something to do with you. ”
"Hey, seriously, you'd better call to appease your parents, otherwise you'll make a fuss, I'm afraid it won't be good for you." Everyone kindly reminded the flower shadow.
Everyone sighed for a while, feeling the solipsism of today's children; lamented the loss of the dignity of the teacher; lamented the degeneration of Chinese civilization and etiquette; I felt a lot of emotion.
Who stands with us? Hanakage feels that the teacher is like a lonely walker.
Over the years, there have been more and more children like Han Ning, he is not the first, nor will he be the last, and he is not the most out of line. Compared with those students who fight and curse, smoke and drink, skip school, and catch urine in the bathroom with a bottle for others to drink, this is also a trivial and commonplace thing.
"Don't think about it," Ning Xin comforted Huaying and patted her on the shoulder, "The country has now fully released the second child, maybe we will be able to do this job in a few years." ”
Teacher Wang is out of class. Flower Shadow told her what happened next. "I'm really sorry, I blame myself for being blind and serious, and I caused you so much trouble. If he comes back in the afternoon, he won't have to go to me, I don't care, let me apologize to him. Teacher Wang smiled sarcastically.
"Then should we call the parents and go with them to find out?" Flower Shadow asked.
"I'm not going anyway, I'm this age......."
"Then whatever." Flower Shadow said.
After eating lunch apprehensively, he came to school, but Han Ning did not come. Huaying's heart softened again, feeling that he was a child after all, and he didn't want him to do anything.
In the evening, Han Ning still did not go home. The parents quickly called 110 and reported the case. Although it was not enough time limit, but in the end, it was the child, and the police also began a city-wide search.