Chapter 72: Be Strong
"What's the use," Speaking of this, Cao Xian sneered again and again: "It's not like that, I don't change my mistakes repeatedly, and after confessing to me, I paid back the money and even took it out again to continue gambling......
Dead, really dead to this man, with him, I can't see any hope, really.
So I went very decisively, and fortunately I didn't get married, and I was lucky that things broke out before the wedding.
Even think about it from the perspective of conspiracy theories, if he suddenly mentioned marriage, could it be that he was afraid that I couldn't bear it because of the full-scale outbreak, so he tied me up with a marriage certificate first? After all, divorce is much heavier, right?
I took leave early the next morning, and in half an hour I found a suitable small house near the hospital, and found a moving company to come and take my things away, not much, a van can pull them away.
I didn't ask for any of the skin care products, cosmetics, clothes, and bags he bought for me, so I took the things that belonged to me and I bought them myself, so as not to leave him a tongue in the future. Maybe it's a waste, and those things can't be used up, but it doesn't matter.
Then he begged me not to leave, and lost his temper with the mover, so I called the police, and he grabbed my phone.
The moving master was also grumpy, snatched my phone back, and warned him not to bully me, telling me to report to the police, this kind of man......
Alas.
Your police came really quickly, less than three minutes, two police officers arrived at the scene and asked in detail what was going on. He secretly said that he was going to break up, that he was going to get married, that he didn't want to be like this, that he didn't want me to go, that he wanted me to be calm and calm.
The police also persuaded me, and the moving master also persuaded me, saying that it was not easy for the young couple, don't make awkward trouble like this, and said that he went back, didn't move into a family, and didn't charge me money, he was indeed a kind person.
But at that time, I was also angry, sneering and listening to what the man said, I will, I don't know the cause and effect at all, I am generous, why are you so self-conscious, at that time, the two police officers and the moving master were a little embarrassed when they heard it.
Fortunately, I didn't completely lose my mind, and immediately apologized to them, and then explained in detail that the man's face was as dead as ashes, and the police officer and the mover looked at him differently......
After that, the police ordered him not to stop me from moving, warned him not to harass me, otherwise he would be directly punished for harassment, and he would be detained or sentenced to prison in the lightest case, and told me not to get used to him in the future, I would not listen to what he said, and I would call the police if I contacted me.
I didn't tell him where I had moved, and I didn't tell anyone else, including Yumei, including my parents, because I was afraid that he would try to find out where I lived......
I also changed my mobile phone number, and the old phone didn't stop, but I blocked him, and at the same time set up interception, refuse to answer any strange calls, Qiuqiu WeChat has set up not to allow me to add me by phone number, not allowed to access the address book, and the space circle of friends intercepts all strangers.
Online shopping also only uses a new number, and at the same time, the new number is not told to anyone, it is only used to answer strange calls, and if you say it, whether the strange call is him or not, it is not clear.
This set of settings,Actually, I learned from Xie Invited.,It's really effective.,It's been nearly a year.,Except for him occasionally using the QQ number to contact my friend QQ.,Of course, I added it and found that he ignored it and didn't get harassed by him at all.。
I didn't owe any more debts, nor did I tear down the east wall to make up the west wall, and the bloody lesson was in front of me. And the luck is really good, the hotel returned the deposit of 40,000 yuan, paid the rent for half a year for 12,000, and paid the salary in the second month, applied for early repayment to pay off the debt of 40,000 yuan, saved money for a month, and went directly ashore.
Then, I also cancelled all my excess credit cards. Maybe there are card gods who can play the cards well and make a steady stream of income from them, but I know I'm not, and indulging in them will only make me a kanu.
I know how many pounds and taels I have, so I rarely spend ahead of time, and the lesson this time is to let me stop the white strip directly, and the Huabei limit is actively reduced to 1,000, and the credit card limit is adjusted to 5,000, which is enough for emergency.
Salary bonus or something every month, you can have 134 thousand yuan in hand, save 2,000 yuan into WeChat change, wait to pay the rent for the next half a year, leave 3,000 yuan on your body, and the rest of the thousands are all deposited into the money card, that card did not open online banking, did not open quick payment, only opened SMS bill reminder.
In this way, my life is still very good, and my savings have gradually increased, so far in eleven months, I have saved 77,005, and if I save for a few more years, it may be enough for a down payment, and if the title can be successfully promoted, the income will rise.
So every day is very steady, my family, including me, has medical insurance and additional commercial critical illness insurance, which is enough for me to cope with most accidents.
But the damage of this incident is even greater than I imagined......
Originally, I should have been able to save more than 80,000 or even 90,000 yuan, but the 10,000 that didn't fall was not spent, but I went to see a doctor, and I went directly to the psychiatrist first, and found that mild depression, medication, and maintaining optimism were enough, so I didn't continue to see it, but found a psychological counselor and received counseling regularly.
This is my story over the past year, and I think it is enough to explain the reason for the change in my personality, right? As for the patient's family, I'm sorry, I don't know them, there is no grievance, why should I be drugged?
Or do you think I'm actually taking revenge on the hospital? Think my recent changes are due to unfair treatment by the hospital? Hehe, on the contrary, I am grateful to the hospital, to the job, to the technology I learned, and to the school and parents who gave me this technology.
Otherwise, the 40,000 yuan may become the starting point for me to fall into the abyss, what do you say?
Because I have been in contact, I am in awe. Because of awe and gratitude, the hospital has become my second home since January this year. ”
Lao Hai recorded this information quickly, briefly but accurately, and then loosened his pen, slightly moved his somewhat sore fingers, and looked up at Cao Xian at the same time.
But as soon as his mouth moved, Cao Xian chuckled and said: "Don't comfort me, I can see it, and my counselor has given me enough comfort, with the medicine, I am recovering quite well, and gradually, I will come out."
In the past two months, I have been under a lot of pressure, mainly because I didn't sleep well and was busy with my papers. It may not be a problem to change to before, but I can't go back to the past, and the optimist me is gone. ”
"Then ......" Fang Chang pondered for a moment, but decided to ask directly: "According to the surveillance, you entered the ward in the early hours of the morning and entered alone, right?" ”