The May Day holiday passes quickly, and the good times are always fleeting.

Back at school, looking at the children's decadent appearance, with a face full of words: I haven't played enough!

Flower Shadow smiled and said, "Wake up! The people are back, and the souls are back! In order to have a better time in the future, let's study hard now! ”

The students began to straighten their waists one after another, stretch their arms, and reluctantly and slowly take the books from their school bags.

Hua Ying looked around the classroom and found that Meng Zhuo did not come.

"What about Meng Zhuo?"

The students shook their heads, indicating that they didn't see him coming.

Flower Shadow looked at her phone, and there was no text message asking for leave. For safety reasons, Huaying dialed the parents' numbers.

She hit Meng Zhuo's father first, because this is a rare model father in the class, and Meng Zhuo's daily learning is generally supervised by this father, such as pick-up, counseling, and leave.

However, there was no answer on the other end of the phone.

Flower Shadow contacted the child's mother again. Meng Zhuo's mother is a strong woman, and the family affairs are basically to throw off the shopkeeper, and she has no worries about her career. Such a somewhat different family is also harmonious.

Meng Zhuo, although she is not among the best in her studies, she is not bad, she is very sensible and a warm big girl.

The call went through.

Meng Zhuo's mother's voice was very tired and hoarse: "I'm sorry, teacher, there are too many things at home, I forgot to ask you for leave......"

"What's wrong? Need help? ”

"Her father is gone, when she goes, please comfort her more, she has a deep relationship with her father......"

Flower Shadow felt dizzy. It's so sudden, the good father who loves his family, loves his children, and is cheerful and cheerful, is gone? Hanakage even wondered if she didn't understand what the other party meant.

The second day, the third day, the child has not yet come.

Huaying was not at ease, she felt that she should do her best, bought something for the child, and found Meng Zhuo's house according to the address on the school record.

There was chaos in the house. She is not referring to the chaos of people coming and going, not because things are not organized enough, and they are in a hurry.

She was referring to the mess in one place, throwing things and throwing things into chaos and chaos in the house.

Before she could enter the door, she heard the child crying out in her heart: "Why did you cremate my father?" I disagree! I don't agree, I want him to accompany me! ”

Huaying walked in, Meng Zhuo's mother saw it, she held her daughter, choked up and said to her daughter, "Zhuo Zhuo, the teacher is here." ”

But Meng Zhuo didn't appreciate it at all, she shook off her mother's hand and pushed her mother down: "Don't move me, I don't have a father anymore, you're happy!" ”

Huaying went over and grabbed the child: "Don't talk about your mother like that, she is more sad than anyone else!" ”

"Will she be sad? She only has her career in her heart, she dislikes her father for being unproductive, and she doesn't want to live with her father for a long time! ”

"Zhuo Zhuo......" Meng Zhuo's mother called her.

The child didn't listen at all, but still cried and shouted, "You don't love Daddy, but I do!" I want to spend a few more days with him, why are you in such a hurry? ”

Hua Ying hugged her hard and asked her to sit down: "Meng Zhuo, you are calm and calm!" The teacher is here, with you, okay? ”

Tired, Meng Zhuo had no strength at all, and she fell on Huaying's shoulder.

After a long time, Huaying patted her and said, "Is it better?" ”

But Meng Zhuo said: "Teacher, don't touch me, I hurt ......."

"Where does it hurt?" Huaying was startled, she didn't use any force, she just gently stroked her arm.

"My arm hurts!"

"Injured arm?" Flower Shadow thought she had dropped something and squirmed.

"No, it won't hurt if you don't touch me......"

Kakage was puzzled, and felt faintly uneasy in her heart.

Meng Zhuo's mother said, "Teacher, it's great that you're here, can you help me persuade her?" I happened to ......"

"Okay, you go get busy!" Flower Shadow knew that at this time, there were many things waiting for this poor woman to solve.

…………

When I came out of Meng Zhuo's house, it was already noon. Meng Zhuo's mother was worried that the child would not be able to think about it and would not dare to send her.

Flower Shadow hurried back to school and watched the students eat lunch and take a lunch break.

A week passed quickly, it was already Friday, and the child hadn't come yet.

Huaying couldn't wait, and called Meng Zhuo's mother again: "How is Zhuo Zhuo?"

"Don't make a fuss, but don't talk either, stay alone, staring at her father's photo......"

"It's not okay for a child to go on like this!"

"I know, but what can I do? I can't stay with her all the time, I always have to go to work, and she always has to go to school! ”

"yes, it's been a week - let's take her out on the weekend, let's go do some relaxing games, and the knot must be opened as soon as possible, otherwise it will be even more difficult to untie the knot."

"Okay, teacher, thank you!"

Huaying has her own psychological counseling room, and after Ziyan got married, she decorated the apartment well, and the space was larger. I was equipped with more psychological counseling equipment, bought online classes, and refined my skills.

The doorbell rang.

Flower Shadow goes to open the door.

It was Meng Zhuo and her mother.

Meng Zhuo's mother said, "Teacher, I'll go first and pick her up at noon." ”

Huaying greeted warmly: "Zhuo Zhuo, come in, I miss you!" ”

"Teacher ......"

Fortunately, I can still talk.

Huaying said: "There are no teachers here today, only friends, you know? ”

Meng Zhuo nodded mechanically.

"Zhuo Zhuo, among the classmates in our class, I like you the most, because you are the most sensible and strongest!"

Meng Zhuo did not react.

"So, I invited you to my house today, this is also my secret base, this place is amazing, you have to believe, you can be very happy here, you know?"

Meng Zhuo nodded.

Flower Shadow said again, "Come on, let's make a game!" Let me go into your inner world and share it with you, okay? ”

Hua Ying first tried to let Meng Zhuo do a sand table game.

Meng Zhuo fiddled with his hands, seemingly absent-minded.

But from a psychological point of view, Huaying found that everything she chose was related to her father, and this child, deep in her heart, had already been deeply attached to her father.

Flower Shadow is so heartbroken.

She is not a good psychiatrist, she can't go on, she said: "Zhuo Zhuo, if you don't want to play, forget it, I just want to hug you!" ”

Meng Zhuo said: "Teacher, I can't hug me, my mother hugged me, and I hurt ...... too."

"What? Does it still hurt? Where does it hurt? ”

"It hurts everywhere, the skin is like pins and needles—"

Huaying touched her face, and the child was also in pain and avoided it.

"How so?"

Originally, she thought that Meng Zhuo just couldn't think about it for a while, so she would accompany her to do relaxation games and psychological counseling, and she should be able to come out of her sadness slowly. She was also worried about whether she would be like Xiaofei and would be autistic. However, she still felt that Meng Zhuo was a big child after all, so his psychological endurance should be stronger, right?

But as it turned out, she was wrong. Meng Zhuo's psychological trauma has also brought about a physiological reaction. And this reaction is the sensation of abnormal tactile pain. But no one knows how to treat it, maybe the psychological problem is solved, and slowly the physiological reaction will disappear, maybe never. She realized that the longer you get along, the deeper the love, and the more unacceptable it is when you lose it

The skin is the largest visible organ of the human body, which is not only a barrier between the body and the external environment, but also an important organ to receive information from the outside world. Psychology believes that it is the organ that reflects emotional changes and directly receives emotional influences. Under the huge traumatic blow, it may lead to skin sensory impairment, or in other words, it infinitely amplifies the sensory function of the skin, making it overly sensitive and causing abnormal tactile responses, such as pain.

Flower Shadow felt even more sorry for the child. She decided to use the most basic method of conversation facilitation. Let your child vent his emotions first. At the very least, she has to stop running away from it, have the courage to face it, dare to talk about it, this is the first step.

"Did something happen to Dad?"

"Hmm. Car Accident ......"

"Dad has always been very careful, why did it happen to a car accident?"

"He worked all night without rest. However, he wanted to come back early and take me to the mountain to play, and he didn't avoid the car that caused the accident......" Meng Zhuo's tears flowed silently.

"So, Zhuo Zhuo is so sad, is there a sense of guilt?"

Meng Zhuo covered his face and nodded heavily.

"How's Daddy?" Flower Shadow asked.

"Good!"

"Dad wants Zhuo Zhuo to be okay?"

"Hope."

"Will Dad be willing to let Zhuo Zhuo blame himself?"

"No, he never will, let me be sad......"

"Then, will Zhuo Zhuo disappoint Dad?"

Meng Zhuo didn't speak.

She knew everything, but she couldn't do it for a while.

"Before, my classmates said that he was the best father, the best father, and his daughter should also be the best, right?"

Meng Zhuo still didn't speak.

"Zhuo Zhuo, without a father, you still have a mother, a teacher, a friend, at least you still have good memories. There is a child, neither of the parents nor the parents, but they are also trying to make themselves strong, shall I introduce you to each other? ”

Meng Zhuo nodded, wiping the tears from his face.

"Did Dad say Mom was bad?"

"No, Dad just said Mom was busy ......"

"Your dad is such a sunny man! Mom used to be really busy, but now she also regrets that she didn't take care of you like Dad did, and made you feel like you had lost everything. She also loves you, and she will shoulder the dual responsibility of raising a family and taking care of you in the future, are you willing to accept your mother with a big heart like Dad? ”

Meng Zhuo nodded again, and then she said, "But I still miss my father so much...... and the tears broke down again.

Huaying looked at her, thin and weak, so haggard and pale, so helpless that she hugged herself and wept, wanted to hug her, patted her, but didn't dare to touch her. It was the first time she realized so painfully: it turned out that some injuries could really only be treated by herself.

Huaying said softly in Meng Zhuo's ear: "Dad is always there, the teacher is always there, love is always there, we will definitely get better!" ”