For the sake of his daughter's bad face, Song Fusheng was very sensible for the first time, and took the initiative to leave the two young people to talk and leave first.

Perhaps, he is also not in a beautiful mood.

I didn't know how to persuade him, so I threw this hot thing to Lu Pan.

And Qian Peiying is careful, if she can't go to work, you said that Lao Song brought Lu Pan here, and he didn't say anything.

Before leaving, the mother explained to Lu Pan:

"This, you see, she is still crying, it is what your father is used to.

In fact, how can everything be completely satisfied.

Born as a human being, it is also difficult to be the most noble emperor and princess in the world, right? ”

Qian Peiying put the hat of the habitual child on Lao Song's head again.

"No, Minrui, I'll tell you the truth.

When your father was the magistrate of the county, Poria could mix anything, run around with the class, sneaky, and help the class a lot.

Others can earn money, but she doesn't have any money, but she enjoys it.

You have to admit that she is indeed no worse than the errands that there are, and she always thinks about being on errands.

You may not understand how a girl's family can have such an idea.

But our family is different from others, your father and I are just this one, raising one and raising many, it may not be the same, and the teaching of boys is put on her......"

Class room, go to work and get off work, the small words at work, arranged by Qian Peiying clearly, Lu Pan, do you understand? My family is still an only child.

If Lu Pan himself was not a peculiar person, if the young master of the Guogong Mansion hadn't liked handmade since he was a child, he really wouldn't understand why Song Fuling cried, and it was not easy to understand what it meant to be a hobby.

Through himself, he understands that hobbies have nothing to do with nobility.

After getting to know Poria Cocos, I understand that hobbies have nothing to do with gender.

Hobbies are like in the heart, as long as you are happy.

If Song Fusheng didn't often throw new words, words such as "going to work" would also attract Lu Pan's attention.

But there is the existence of Song Fusheng.

He could understand the meaning of the fair, and he wouldn't have guessed anything.

Including talking to Mrs. Ma, some fresh words are often thrown out, Lu Pan relies on guessing, guessing is still very accurate, and I have long been used to it.

"Mother-in-law, don't worry, I understand."

"Okay, then you can talk, I'll go see the meal."

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Parvis.

Song Fusheng suddenly cared about Qian Peiying: "I said, are you quite aggrieved to be a woman here?" ”

Qian Peiying waved her hand, she was okay.

People of her age were used to it, it was just a brick, and it was moved where it was needed.

When the family conditions are not good, she can go out with her husband to work hard to earn money.

If you have a child, if you earn less, you should focus more on your child.

The children study, make up classes, pick up and drop-off, and when her husband is at the beginning of his career and can't take care of his family and body, she has to pay more for her children and husband.

I don't think too much about my career ambitions, because the situation is there, and there is always one party who will make concessions for these at home.

Otherwise, a home will not function properly.

When the child is older, she doesn't need to pick her up, and her husband gets up, and she goes out to work.

And by this time, many years have passed, and I saw those who were not as good as herself in her previous work, just because she was busy at home all these years, and people were busy with more energy in their careers, and they were better than her, and their positions were higher than her, and she was already at peace.

Calmly mess around at the post, or be more energetic, and work harder.

Otherwise, there will be gains.

So, she has experienced all of this, and her age is there.

When I got here, it was equivalent to accompanying my husband to climb the hill again, and I didn't think it was too much, and I was able to do it, and I was used to it.

Even in modern times, most of her generation can also give way to their families, and each generation has a different definition of happiness, not to mention the idea of employment.

But Poria can't do it, Poria has never experienced this, she is too young, and she has a high spirit.

The second is that the education of the children of Poria's generation is indeed different from that of their generation, and the environment and culture they are exposed to are different, and the interpretation of good wives and mothers is different.

The new generation of children is clamoring to live their own lives, talk about women's rights, talk about equality between men and women, and talk about equal rights and responsibilities.

The same rights and the same rights are the same employment rights as men, and what men can do, women can also do. At the same time, whether it is a career or family, what men can take on the responsibility of supporting their families, what else can they bear, and women can too. You can't ask for the same rights and not pay the same obligations, the rights and obligations are reciprocal.

The daughter is influenced by such a culture, or the kind of child who has read a lot of books, has broadened her horizons, and when she came to ancient times, as she grew up as a big girl, she became more and more restricted, but she couldn't stand it.

After listening to Qian Peiying's words, Song Fusheng patted Qian Peiying's hand, "Alas, she has to think about it herself." ”

His daughter wants to go to work seriously, but he really can't do it.

It's not about arranging a position, he manages so many people, where can't it be arranged?

After we arrange it seriously, will it cause a lot of controversy.

Although there are female officials in this dynasty, the female officials in this dynasty are derogatory.

It is conceivable that the princess will not mention that she has become a "female official" in the eyes of others, only the daughter of the prefect family is a "female official", and people will not listen to your explanation and will not take the heart to understand more about this female official, it will be a very bad and unruly impression.

It doesn't matter what he does secretly, like Peiying, he can do anything for him, within the controllable range.

But what the daughter wants is to put it on the table, and once it is on the table, it will be equivalent to an announcement.

He Song Fusheng is not afraid of others talking about himself, but he doesn't want his daughter to hit that head and set that precedent, and he is often discussed by others.

Yes, as long as you make achievements, you will not be underestimated, and time will tell.

Isn't that the problem, time.

In the process of hard work, it has been discussed in a mess, and as a father, he doesn't want his daughter to suffer from this. Spitting stars can drown people.

And, yes, there must always be women who take the lead to prove something for their female compatriots and fight for something, but throughout history, let's take the example of female poets, how many of them have a good ending? You don't have to do anything, just write two sentences to challenge the patriarchal society, and that is equivalent to fighting against all. This is a long-term, feudal, and established society.

He was selfish, and as a father, he didn't want his daughter to be that first.

Their family has done everything they can, Song Fusheng is very disgusted with this kind of thing, don't tie their family to the tree of morality and righteousness, even if they do, only tie him, don't burden the family, we are just ordinary people.

At the same time, Lu Pan was hunched over into a comma, and he and Song Fuling were holding each other's foreheads against each other.

"I didn't expect to see you, and I cried like a little cat."

Song Fuling still had traces of crying on her face, and said with a smile: "I will restrain myself." ”

In fact, she didn't need to be persuaded by anyone, she knew very well in her heart, and that's it.

Even if you don't come here, you can understand this truth through some books, you can be an official like Baoyu like a bear, how many daughters in Jiafu are not more talented than him? But no, only men can.

When she cried, she was talking to her mother in private, and she suddenly wanted to cry.

What more reason does a woman have to cry? What else do you have to achieve? Do you have to listen to some of the teachings?

No, I understand it, but that can't stop the tears.

"There's so much more you can do," Lu said.

"yes, I still have to learn the rules."

"I'm not talking about the rules, learning what to do, but after I get married, I can take you with me whatever I want to do."

Lu Pan clumsily began to help Poria think.

Listening to Poria thinks: Every year and the land bumps for two or three months to go on patrol? Then I'd better rest at home.

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