Chapter 93: Deep
Qi Yuan nodded lightly, everyone has their own ambitions, so there is nothing to say.
Glancing at Brother Song again, he saw that he was making a look at him, so he knew that he was a little crooked, so he quickly got back to the topic and asked, "What do you think of Zhao Guangbo's interpersonal relationship?" ”
"Huh?"
"Do you think it's easy for him to offend people with this temperament?"
"That's easy." Shi Kunsen said: "He has good grades, and he is stubborn, he is actually quite introverted, he doesn't like to talk, familiar people are fine, and people who are not familiar with him may think that he is very arrogant and looks down on people, in fact, he doesn't have any such thoughts, it is purely a personality problem."
It's nothing when I'm studying, and we know each other after getting along for a long time, but I'm really helpless when I go to work.
The world outside is no better than inside an ivory tower, and the human heart is too complicated, and once the first impression is not good, it is difficult to reverse it later.
So he was in the factory...... The relationship with many people is not very good, and the relationship with workers is average, which is not bad, but it is quite bad with the squad leader and the workshop director.
Especially with his squad leader, how to say it, his squad leader has been in the factory for five or six years, and he has always wanted to climb up, but he has not been able to climb up, he may be a little neurotic, and he is only an ordinary third-rate university graduate, so he is a little unaccustomed to a high-achieving student like him.
It's not just him, they also have a master's degree in their group, and they were also targeted by the squad leader, but people with high emotional intelligence will come to trouble, and he is quite comfortable to shoot his squad leader, so you should all understand.
That's basically it, that's what he told me, but I don't know the specifics, I'm not in the same workshop as him. ”
"In other words," Qi Yuan asked, "after graduation, he didn't have a good relationship with most of his co-workers, right?" ”
"Hmm."
"Have you ever had a conflict with anyone?"
"No, I don't." Shi Kunsen immediately replied, followed by a pause, as if reminiscing, and after a while, he shook his head firmly and said, "I don't have an impression." Don't look at him as stuffy and stubborn, but in fact, he has a good temper, four years of college, two years of work, and never saw who he blushed with.
With his girlfriend...... Oh, it should be called an ex-girlfriend, and his ex-girlfriend should be an exception, and a couple who never quarrel should not exist, right? After all, the closer the relationship, the easier it is to have conflicts, and the less easy it is to suppress your temper.
So he should still have quarreled with his ex-girlfriend and family. But I haven't really seen it, I don't know.
But they can't do anything to Bo Zai, right? The family won't talk about it, and the ex-girlfriend, that's also a peaceful breakup, I have to say, I still think it's her, it's her family who is sorry for Bo Zai, she can't hurt Bo Zai. ”
"You've never seen him get into trouble with anyone?" Qi Yuan repeated.
"Never." Shi Kunsen said: "He really has a good temper, and he won't take anything to heart, anyway, I haven't seen him have conflicts with others."
But at the same time, his sullen temperament, speaking of which, is quite indifferent, so there are not many real good relationships, our dormitory is barely counted, and the relationship with the previous class committee is also very good, and a few high school and junior high school classmates are also in contact, and nothing else is gone.
Oh, with his ex-girlfriend, it can be regarded as a real relationship, something else...... I don't know anything else. Anyway, he is a person, and the interpersonal relationship should be quite simple......
Ah, yes, there's another one, the landlord of the house he rented. It's strange that the two are in their twenties, and they can still be friends for the New Year, and they have a good chat. But the landlord is really good, he takes good care of him, and I have played cards with him a few times. ”
Qi Yuan looked at Brother Song and signaled that he was fine.
Brother Song coughed dryly, moistened his throat, and asked, "His friends, you should be familiar with them, right?" ”
"Partially familiar, I don't know my friends in high school and junior high school." Shi Kunsen said: "But there are not many high school and junior high school classmates who are still in contact, only three or five, and I basically know the rest." After all, the university recognizes that now, the social circle is still relatively overlapping. ”
"Can you give us a list? It is best to include a phone number and address. Brother Song said.
"Okay."
After about ten minutes, Shi Kunsen returned the notebook to Brother Song.
Brother Song took a look, there were not too many names on it, only a dozen.
"Of course, I know a lot of friends, but most of them are not in Yuqiao." Shi Kunsen explained: "I studied at Harbin Institute of Technology. ”
Brother Song bowed his head, thought about it, and asked again: "Did he offend ......?"
"Didn't you just say it, I've never seen him quarrel with anyone." Shi Kunsen interrupted.
"It's not a contradiction," Brother Song shook his head: "It's about offending people, maybe inadvertently, such as occupying someone's resources, making people hold grudges." ”
"This ......" Shi Kunsen's tone hesitated, thinking and recalling.
After a while, he shook his head slightly: "It doesn't matter, it shouldn't be." He has an indifferent temperament and never fights or grabs, who can he offend? ”
"So does he believe in 'fairness'?" Brother Song suddenly asked.
"Huh?" Shi Kunsen was stunned: "What do you mean?" ”
"He is stubborn and stuffy, and he has a relationship with the tobacco factory." Brother Song said: "But if you think about it, his mind is still different from you, right?" In the end, he still wants to climb up, or does he want to get ahead, at least he recognizes that he can get ahead in the cigarette factory, right? ”
Shi Kunsen opened his mouth, then nodded slightly.
Brother Song chuckled: "How can this be called not fighting and not grabbing?" ”
"......" Shi Kunsen pursed his lips and shook his head: "Probably because we understand the meaning of 'no fight and no grab' is different." What I want to say is that what he wants, he will only rely on strength, not means, to convince everyone.
Take the scholarship as an example, when he went to college, his grades were the first in the same major, and the scholarship should be his, and no one is convinced. ”
"In other words, you also agree with me, he still wants to climb up, but he doesn't want to use any means, he just wants to rely on strength, right?"
Shi Kunsen nodded: "Yes." ”
"But when you go out of society, it's not the same as college." Brother Song handed him another cigarette and said, "Most of the time, there is no longer a relatively fair way to judge strength as 'test scores', or in other words, many things can not be won by relying on strength."
Everyone is a worker, what can be used to prove that they are better than others? Do more work than anyone else? This kind of work with no technical content, in addition to proving that it can endure hardships, what strength can it prove?
On the contrary, you said that he has always relied on his strength to get what he wants, so he should believe in the word 'fairness', right? After all, when strength is outstanding, 'fairness' is the most favorable condition for him.
So...... He must be quite unwilling, right? When 'fairness' is lost, will he think otherwise? ”