Chapter Twenty-Nine: In Search of a Son-in-law
"Since ancient times, the way of heaven is still virtuous, humanity is still love, the right way is not yet attacking, the only move in the world, morality first, value practical benefits and love people, so it can be established and deep-rooted, everyone loves each other, and the world is a family ······"
After Kong Fan's speech, Runzhi, as the founder of the mainstream position of the last conference, immediately followed up after Kong Fan's speech.
In fact, for Kong Fan, he is old, and the fundamental purpose of holding this conference is to find a good husband in this conference, so that his daughter can have the opportunity to find a so-called person with both ability and political integrity as a wife.
For educated women, they often love more literate men, if not, they would rather never marry, which is also the root cause of many people's reluctance to let women receive too high private school education.
"What kind of system? How can a woman make her own decisions, how can the matter of marriage, the words of the matchmaker, and the orders of her parents be easily violated? ”。 Kong Fan's wonderful beard was shaken by Kong Lingqi's beard, and his neck was so red that it seemed to be dyed.
"No, the child has to make his own decisions, how can the child marry a person with shallow knowledge, wouldn't that delay the child's lifelong happiness!" , Kong Ling retorted.
"Bold, how can you break the rules of your ancestors, you will be poked in the back and scolded by many people! Are you afraid or not afraid? Kong Fan seems to be half a threat, half a persuasion, in short, he is simply using both soft and hard.
After all, Kong Ling is twenty years old this year, and he is already the late marriage of late marriages, according to the folk, his daughter fourteen is married to a wife, so in comparison, Kong Ling feels a little embarrassed on his face.
In fact, Kong Ling is not really unable to get married, as early as Kong Ling just turned fourteen years old, how many wealthy and powerful people came to propose, and in the end they were ruthlessly rejected by Kong Ling, either disgusted that the son's writing was too weak, or disgusted with the son's straw bag... In the end, he offended several wealthy nobles who came to propose marriage, and it was only after Kong Fan was left and right that he resolved the past.
"If the father really wants his daughter to marry, the daughter will marry, but the father must comply with the daughter's conditions", and finally saw that the children of his partners and girlfriends of the same age were jumping around and shouting to their "sister", "aunt" and "aunt", Kong Ling felt that it was time to solve his life's major event.
The standard is impossible to lower, even if this girl does not marry for life, she will never marry a straw bag man who is not as literary as herself, if there is a lack of romance and pleasure in those words, then even if she does not marry for life, this girl will not give in easily. Thinking about it this way, Kong Ling made up his mind, if he couldn't find the person he loved at this conference, he resolutely chose to go with the flow, and was no longer willing to use these marriage events to bind himself.
What kind of marriage, a straw bale, how can it be worthy of this girl?
Originally, according to the usual practice, more than one-third of the schools proposed to hold this conference, in order to convene this conference as soon as possible, Suchong Academy did not make a lot of efforts.
Among them, the most difficult is the Taoist, who is unwilling to participate in this kind of thing easily.
In his opinion, wasting time and energy is pure nonsense, and unless it is related to the theme of Taoist alchemy, it is all negative.
After all, it is thirty-six strategies, and it is the best policy, so the Taoist school is often the fastest, although it is said that it is ruled by inaction, in this atmosphere, the Taoist seriously suspects that it violates the spirit of inaction, and is deliberately doing something, so it can refuse to reject it all.
Runzhi observed that the Taoist school participated in the conference of two big figures, one is known as the "indifferent Taoist" Chen Tianlan and the Jianghu people called "tomorrow said" Taoist Qiu Zheyang, these two are the key figures of the Taoist school, and many of the concepts they put forward are not only in the school, but also in the rivers and lakes caused a lot of gossip.
For example, Chen Tianlan once believed that "all major events must be tormented by 9981 days, plus 7749 days of tribulation, and cannot be unimportant, so it must be natural, and it doesn't matter ······", it was this remark that made him an instant hit and instantly became a well-known figure in the Taoist school.
Let's talk about this Qiu Zheyang, this person is similar to Runzhi, he was abandoned by his parents when he was a child, and he survived by a long rescue, and this person is famous all over the world because of his literary talent. The so-called "all major events in the world are won by nothing, and if they lose, they will be replaced by nothing, and they will do nothing, so they must say tomorrow after all, and they will ······ after all."
Of course, in this group of heroes, Runzhi's speech is the biggest highlight, Runzhi's "who are men and women, for the culture of the millennium, so the culture is the first, the concept follows, and everything follows its own reason, can grow and ······"
Naturally, these words unconsciously actually implied Kong Ling's intentions.
In Kong Ling's view, everything without culture is like water flowing in a stinky ditch, because of long-term blockage, so with the accumulation of years, its water becomes more and more smelly.
In order not to spend the rest of his life in such a stinky ditch, Kong Ling was determined to find the man he loved who was only eight buckets tall and rich in five cars before he could marry.
But even if the poor are rich and rich, Kong Fan resolutely refuses, worried that his daughter will inevitably suffer some hardships when she marries, so he can't bear it, even if he doesn't agree.
Most of the rich are the children of the yamen, and the children of the gentlemen can only be talented and high-ranking people, so it is difficult to find a good son-in-law.
Runzhi talked freely at this conference, so Kong Ling had the heart to know this rare talent.
In the discussion at the conference, whenever Runzhi expressed his opinion, Kong Ling listened carefully with his head sideways, in her opinion, no matter what Runzhi said, it was reasonable, and he was so talented.
Of course, everyone had already noticed Kong Ling's eyes, so they deliberately matched the marriage of Kong Ling and Runzhi, and often insinuated in their speeches that some themes about love and marriage, so that the two could talk heartily.
And Kong Fan naturally paid attention to Kong Ling from the beginning of the conference, and from Kong Ling's every move and the change in his eyes, it was obvious that Kong Fan had also seen the clues. But as the organizer of the conference, Kong Fan still maintains the inherent elegance of Confucianism, after all, how can he easily lower his status.
As the conference progressed gradually, the ideological fit between Kong Ling and Runzhi was almost getting higher and higher, and it was very strange to others that Kong Lingnai, as a participant in Confucianism, suddenly issued a Mohist remark, isn't this a mess, or is Confucianism in decline?
Actually, it's not, that's because Kong Ling was deeply moved by Runzhi's talent, so he deliberately catered to Runzhi's thoughts.
Out of love for his daughter, Kong Fan felt such a situation, and it was not easy to refute it immediately, but obviously this conference ended with Runzhi's ink all-you-can-eat.
This group of heroes conference allowed Runzhi to be recognized by the participating figures again, and of course, he unconsciously won the real favor of Kong Ling.
Runzhi is really a god, and it is so similar to Lord Tian Wenjing, it is really incredible! In private, although Runzhi made up his makeup thoroughly on this trip, it still aroused Kong Ling's suspicions, and out of etiquette, Kong Ling did not ask about it.