CHAPTER XXIII
Yu Fangfang's mother-in-law's family did not show up in the hospital for a few days, Zhang Jianguo went once, sat for a meeting, and left a thousand yuan, saying that he had something to do, and he never showed up after that.
Most of the time, Yu Fangfang stayed alone in the ward, and Yu's mother always chattered that Yu Fangfang didn't listen to her at the beginning, how could she be, what should she do now, if they are divorced, how should others look at them, and all relatives and neighbors will look down on Yu Fangfang after divorce. What kind of sin did he create in his previous life, how could he give birth to such a daughter. Other people's daughters buy this and that for their parents, and add money to their younger brother to buy a house, and my daughter was born to punish me and wipe shit on my face. How can I live, and what do your aunts say about me? I might as well die and be refreshed.
When Yu's mother spoke, Yu Fangfang lay there without saying a word, staring blankly at the ceiling.
In the end, Yu's father was not there and let Yu's mother come over, and Yu's father always sighed.
On the day he was discharged from the hospital, Yu's father sat down rarely, as if he wanted to say something to Yu Fangfang, but he didn't know how to say it, and finally made a lot of determination, and then said: "Fangfang, after going home and resting for a few days, you go to Wenwen's place for a few days, you also know your mother's temper, if you are doing well, she won't say anything, at most she will nag you a few words, this time something like this happened, she felt sorry for you again, but she was also angry with you." Your mother's feelings for you are very complicated, because of you, she was divorced at that time and did not get divorced, and because your grandmother treated her badly, she almost took all her anger out on you. Xiaowei is a son, you also know, your mother has no brothers, and your mother values her son, so she prefers her son. Wenwen is the youngest, and your mother was in her thirties at that time, so she naturally loves Wenwen a little more. She didn't feel guilty about you until you went to college and went outside, but as soon as you came back and stayed with her for a long time, her old problems returned. Your mother doesn't agree with your divorce, she says it will affect Xiaowei, and relatives and friends in the neighborhood will look down on you. Dad doesn't want you to live with Zhang Jianguo anymore. You know the first time you quarreled with Zhang Jianguo, I saw the porridge dregs thrown by Zhang Jianguo on your back in the past, and my father's heart tightened. You're almost on the line again this time. If it weren't for the fact that Xiaowei had experienced a lot of things in the hospital, and seeing your words about taking care of your parents, I felt that something was wrong, and I called Zhang Jianguo, and my father didn't know how to live in his life. So what Dad means is that you want to go to Xinjiang after the Spring Festival, some places over there are recruiting teachers, taking care of food and housing, and you will stay for a few years first. Later, he slowly broke off with Zhang Jianguo, divorced the marriage, and found a suitable one over there. Explain your divorce to others, do you say it's okay? ”
Yu Fangfang looked at her father, Yu Fangfang hadn't taken a good look at her father for a long time, her father was indeed old, his hair was much whiter, the wrinkles on his face were deeper, and his face was full of exhaustion.
Yu Fangfang nodded and agreed.
After being discharged from the hospital, Yu Fangfang was taken home by Yu's father. Yu's mother was still nagging as always, Yu Fangfang just listened quietly, Yu's father would always say what they were doing, what was the point, at this time, Yu's mother would aim the gun at Yu's father again, and began to look through the old accounts.
A few days later, Yu Wenwen called her and asked her to go to her house. Yu Fangfang cleaned up and went to Yu Wenwen.
Yu Wenwen has been taking care of her children at home since she gave birth.
In the evening, Yu Wenwen and Yu Fangfang chatted: "Sister, I think my brother-in-law is still very good to you, Dad said to let you go to Xinjiang, I don't think this idea is good, unless you go with Zhang Jianguo, I think as long as you and Zhang Jianguo leave that home, and there is no mother and his sister to stir up between you, you will definitely have a good life." Besides, divorce is not a good thing, although it is said that you have no children, but it is not good after all, let your aunt know, and you should look down on you. If you get divorced, my mother-in-law won't know what to think of me. And my brother, they will all think that their parents are not educating their children well. How can a husband and wife not quarrel and fight, do you think my mobile phone is okay, and I changed to a new mobile phone, why do you think I invited a confinement sister-in-law, why did I not go to work and take care of the children by myself. Do you remember why my dad suddenly came to the city when I was hospitalized for a few days after giving birth? As soon as I gave birth, my mother-in-law and my sister-in-law found fault with me, and Han Tong spoke to his mother, hey, sister, I won't say it. You see, I'm not living like this, Han Tong still has to get it back to raise my child after he pays his salary. I also want to get a divorce, but I can't leave the children behind. Even if I don't have children, I don't have the courage to divorce, and the price a woman pays for divorce is too great. As long as you get divorced and let others know, there will definitely be many people who will come to introduce you to the object, and the introduction is all those men who are divorced and have children, do you want to be a stepmother to others? There are also old men who introduce you to fifty or sixty years old. If you are picky, others will say that you are a divorced woman, what else do you choose, a man's divorce is gold-plated, and a woman's divorce is a price drop. There is a woman in our community, and she finally remarried her husband, and she is doing well. It is better for husband and wife to be the original match, as long as it is not a matter of principle. Sister, think about it. ”
Yu Fangfang felt a little uncomfortable when she heard Yu Wenwen say something about her. This is her favorite sister since she was a child, and she can't see her sister being bullied, but her sister is married and has her own family, and from her sister's words, she has also made her own choice. ”