Chapter 42 Finger Belly for Marriage
When Han Fuyou was very young, because Han Fuyou's father Han Yunteng and Yao Tingting's father Yao Maihua were doing business together, when Yao Tingting's father was frustrated in business and faced a desperate situation, it was Han Fuyou's father Han Yunteng who gave birth to a helping hand in time, so that Yao Maihua turned around when he was at his worst, and then the business began to flourish.
In order to express his gratitude to Han Yunteng for his enthusiastic help, Yao Maihua spared no effort, and happened to accidentally learn that Han Yunteng's wife and his wife were both pregnant for six months, so after discussing with the Han family, the two families finally chose the best date and got married.
Later, Han Fuyou and Yao Tingting were born on the same day, the same month and the same day, which surprised both parents very much, and the two families have been carrying out business cooperation as children's in-laws for a long time, so that the scale of the two companies has been expanded at the same time, so the two businesses have done smoothly with mutual support.
Han Fuyou has heard a lot about this stolen finger for marriage since he was a child, but when he was a child, when the two children played house games together, the other children would always laugh at him, "The husband bullies his wife!" ”。
And because the two families are in many sides, when the two play together, Han Fuyou always doesn't like his own toys, and always loves to grab Yao Tingtingjia's toys, every time he snatches her toys, the other children see it and shout, "You Zi is robbing his wife's toys again!" The child's words made the adults around them feel funny.
In this way, Han Fuyou has actually been very disdainful and unhappy with Han Tingting since he was a child, in his opinion, Yao Tingting is simply self-inflicted, and he will never marry her anyway.
"I don't feel it with her", when the two families asked that the two of them were old enough to live as husband and wife, Han Fuyou would rather go to Huajie Liuxiang every day, but he didn't react to Yao Tingting at all.
Maybe it's because the relationship between the two families is too good, the two have played together since they were children, and because they know each other too well, they have no sense of mystery, no sense of distance, and even less sense of ritual, so Han Fuyou has subconsciously mistaken Yao Tingting for his own sister.
Many times, the relationship between two people often originates from curiosity about the other half, if they know each other well in an instant, but they lose interest in each other in an instant, so there is no way to talk about love or love.
In order to let the two live together as soon as possible, the two families did not put much effort into it.
The most desperate means is that the Yao family asked Yao Tingting to wear a thin red silk jacket that Yao Tingting looked a bit like the women's clothing of the Qinglou, and let Han Fuyou lock the two of them in a room wearing a pair of big pants in the summer, add a lock on the outside, and stick the food and refreshments into the room through a small opening, so that the two of them were locked in the room for two days.
The result was very funny, Han Fuyou occupied the bed and threw a quilt so that Yao Tingting could sleep on a table. During the day, the two of them went their own way, and at night they slept separately, Yao Tingting wanted to listen to his mother's teachings several times and approached Han Fuyou to stimulate his desire, but he had not mobilized Han Fuyou's desire, Han Fuyou because he had an appointment with a prostitute named Jing Huanhuan in the nearby Qinglou, he did not hesitate to hang the window and escape, and as a result, he threw off two front teeth, which is the future, the two families will never dare to do this again.
After that, Han Fuyou and Yao Tingting, the two families changed from liking to be tough to soft, and deliberately sent older friends with wives to talk about the desires of men and women in front of Han Fuyou, and indulged in depicting how wonderful the life of husband and wife is, as a result, Han Fuyou talked about married life and said that the experience was shallower than that of the older one, and he was ashamed, but this older person with a wife was embarrassed to tell Han Yunteng the truth, so he said, "Han Gongzi is a little more thing, when he is a few years older, maybe he can start to fall in love!" ”。
Later, the family believed the words of the elderly man who had a wife, so they asked a woman from a nearby Qinglou to secretly come to the house to help the Han family try to stimulate their normal desire to be a husband and wife, so as to help their ancestors pass on the lineage.
This matter was known to Han Fuyou's cronies, so Han Fuyou bought the house slave in charge of the matter, but secretly sent that Jing Huanhuan into the mansion for Han Fuyou to have fun, so that Han Fuyou was simply more satisfied, and he was even more reluctant to marry a wife and have children, and inherit the ancestry!
"There are three unfilial pieties, and no queen is great!" , Father Han pointed to a pair of spirit cards from the ancestors of the Han family and said to Han Fuyou, for Father Han, this is simply hatred of iron and steel! Such a good child, why is he so old, and he doesn't know about the succession of the sect, isn't he ashamed of the ancestors under Jiuquan!
"What kind of inheritance, it's just like a bunch of sows giving birth to a bunch of piglets, I'm not uncommon! When you are young, you don't have fun, how can you be worthy of being young, what kind of marriage will you take, Lao Tzu will not get married, what can you do to me? Han Fuyou's rebuttal often made Han's father and Han's mother so angry that they vomited blood, so much so that they were not yet forty, and their hair was already gray.
After that, Jing Huanhuan often fooled around with Han Fuyou under the nose of Han's father and Han's mother on the grounds of enlightening Han Fuyou's ability to pass on the lineage, and he was not very happy, where did he want to get married or something like that.
This matter naturally became a joke in the mouths of the neighbors, but everyone deliberately just hid it from the Yao family. In fact, even if the Yao family knows, according to the convention, the two already have a marriage contract, if it is not for both parties, it cannot be easily dissolved, so even if the Yao family hears some rumors, they will listen to the wind and not the rain, and let it be.
Later, Han Yunteng and Yao Maihua discussed and decided to send both of them to the academy to receive etiquette education, and maybe they could accept the idea of inheriting the ancestry.
For Yao Tingting, after naturally receiving the baptism of Confucian thought, he became more convinced of the concept of gong reception, and almost decided that he was Han Fuyou's person in this life and Han Fuyou's ghost in death.
And Han Fuyou was not moved at all by the finger belly for marriage, and resolutely refused to admit it, that is, he did not complete the duty of worshipping heaven and earth and having sex with Yao Tingting. After being educated by Confucianism, on the grounds of Confucianism's "food and sex", he hooked up with female disciples everywhere in the academy and fooled around with many women of all kinds.
Since Han Fuyou was tempted by Li Jiaping, he has simply changed his past mistakes and changed his mind, he has made up his mind to wash his hands in a golden basin, and he no longer dares to fool around with other women easily, and he no longer easily hooks up with other female disciples, everyone found that he has simply undergone earth-shaking changes. 、
However, everyone in the academy was very happy with this change, and everyone began to think that Confucian education had finally played a role.
In order to further encourage this positive change in him, and because of Han's father's prosperous business, he donated a large amount of money to the academy, so Kong Fan selected him as the head of the academy's disciples, and whenever the academy held large-scale activities, he would often bring Han Fuyou with him.
In this way, Han Fuyou can get more sponsorship fees for various activities from Han's father, and Han Fuyou is called an important participant in this kind of activity, but in fact, he is just an executive of the capital side that uses the funds for the event.