"Mom, I don't want to get married, I want to accompany you for the rest of my life, isn't it fragrant to drink tea and chat at home?"

Every now and then, Tang Shuqin said so.

Tang Shuqin's mother smiled lightly at this time, and she was noncommittal.

Tang Shuqin is also a typical family jasper, who grew up under the care of Tang San and her mother, and is the only daughter in the family.

People are talking in private, this Tang San doesn't know what sins he created in his previous life, seeing that he is a busy, diligent, and honest person all day long, he was actually killed like this, so that the Tang family will soon be cut off?

The surrounding neighbors persuaded Tang Shuqin's mother to sell drugs and try to persuade her to find a son-in-law, and let Tang Shuqin have a few more children in the future, so as to give one of the children the surname Tang, so as to be worthy of the Tang shopkeeper who once worked hard to earn the tea shop.

As there are more and more teahouses selling tea in Yanjing, the life of Tang Shuqin and her mother is also more difficult than one.

Tang Shuqin's mother saw it in her eyes and remembered it in her heart, but she unknowingly fell ill, and gradually couldn't get out of bed.

In order to have an up-to-date understanding of the tea market, with the great help of Zhang Mengfei next door, almost everyone who went to his pen, ink, paper and inkstone shop was educated about tea.

Tang Shuqin stayed with Zhang Mengfei every day, and the two almost began to talk about everything.

Naturally, they started chatting about tea leaves, and when they talked about this major event in life, they unconsciously had great blessings for each other

"If my mother wants you to come to my house to be a door-to-door son-in-law, I don't know if you are willing?"

Tang Shuqin suddenly asked after a snuggle.

"I've also heard about your father, otherwise, you still marry me, and we will abandon this son-in-law's law, you come to my house, we can have three or four children, and use one of the most boys as the surname Tang."

Zhang Mengfei didn't seem to think about this, or maybe he had thought a lot about it for a long time, so he replied almost without thinking.

"I'll go to my mother to discuss this", in this case, Tang Shuqin can only say so.

Naturally, after Tang Shuqin went home, she immediately told Zhang Mengfei's meaning to her mother, but she didn't have anything she liked, but the other party wanted to marry normally, just give birth to a few more children, and let the most child be surnamed Tang.

Tang Shuqin's mother remembered that she had spoken first, so she no longer wanted to interfere too much with Tang Shuqin's choice, but said:

"So very good, it depends on your own choice, as long as you like that person, everything is not a problem, what your mother wants is your lifelong happiness, even if no one has the surname Tang, it doesn't matter, the most important thing is that you must be happy! Be sure to find someone who really loves you, the right person, don't give in easily, it is often difficult to bring you any happiness, but it will leave countless endless sorrows"

When Tang Shuqin heard this, she asked:

"Mom, what type of man should you and I find as my husband?"

Tang Shuqin's mother, Qiu Xiangzhu said:

"In this world, the best man is the most suitable man for you, don't easily listen to the so-called rich and handsome, not the so-called literary style, etc., the most important thing is that this man must be suitable for you, and the man who is suitable for you will be with you and get married, grow old together, this marriage ship, will go through countless stormy tests, among these tests, maybe the rich will become poor, the handsome people will pass with the years, and tall, short, fat and thin is only a temporary standard of society, the Tang Dynasty likes fat, In our Qing Dynasty, people have begun to like thin people, Liu Bang people are tall and big, people like high, Genghis Khan is not very tall, and the concept immediately changed. Some people may be polite in front of you temporarily, or in the blink of an eye, in a bunch of fox friends and dog friends, they begin to make a lot of nonsense and foul language, so the right person is the right person."

When Tang Shuqin heard this, she continued to ask:

"So what makes the right person? In the vast sea of people, how do you know which is suitable and which is not? ”

This Qiu Xiangzhu touched Tang Shuqin's beautiful curly hair, looked down and inadvertently saw that some of her gray hair was already fluttering slightly in the wind, in order to help her daughter find a more suitable other half, she told Tang Shuqin as much as possible about her life experience, so this Qiu Xiangzhu replied:

"Different people, the right person is different, and the core criterion is not what is in the outside world, but yourself, you have to ask yourself, what kind of person you are, what you like to do, what you don't like to do, what you like, what you don't like, what people you like, what people you don't like, your own knowledge and geometry, what personality traits you have, what kind of lifestyle you want in the future, in fact, the most suitable person, that is, many people who are similar to you with the above views, And the most important point is the similarity of knowledge, two people with different knowledge are destined to have a common language. ”

This Qiu Xiangzhu drank a cup of Wuyi Mountain's big red robe, and continued:

"You also need to ask yourself what kind of person you want to create or enjoy this lifestyle with. If you were asked to describe yourself in five key words so that others could recognize you at a glance, what words would you use? ”

Tang Shuqin's mother, Qiu Xiangzhu, suddenly asked Tang Shuqin amiably.

Tang Shuqin lowered her head and thought about the time of about a stick of incense before she said slowly:

"Perhaps the five key words that best describe me are: gentleness, kindness, beauty, knowledge, and family jasper, which is just my own thoughts, I don't know what others think."

Qiu Xiangzhu listened to it and said with a pleasant face:

"In this case, the man who is suitable for you should be kind, smart, handsome, with both ability and integrity, and a healthy family"

This Qiu Xiangzhu continued:

But often most of these words are a little ambiguous, and lack of hard reference indicators, in reality is difficult to distinguish, or easy to use for some unscrupulous people, so to two suitable hard standards, you can refer to a core index, three basic hard standards and if a negative indicator, a core indicator refers to the quality of the man, whether the character is kind, cheerful, generous and courteous, the three basic indicators refer to: a look at the occupation, the higher the degree of professional similarity, the two together happiness index will be much better; Second, depending on the level of knowledge of men, the general level of knowledge of men needs to be higher or the same than that of women, so that the two will have more common language, and the future economic potential index will be much greater; Third, looking at the comprehensive economic potential, including the past, present, and future indicators, we can try to delineate ten or twenty years and comprehensively measure them according to the characteristics of the male career. If you reject the target with one vote, it depends on your own settings, generally people who have a record of violating the law and discipline, patients who have no sexual function or other genetic diseases, people who are highly violent, or who regularly participate in fights, etc."

Tang Shuqin listened to it and couldn't help but sigh with emotion:

"It turns out that finding a husband is so complicated!"

Qiu Xiangzhu chuckled and said:

"This is relatively simple, and when you enter the marriage, you will realize that because of your own negligence, any one of the many things brought about by the medicine is far more complicated than these drugs, I don't know how many times! So it's careless in this regard! ”

In general, only parents' love for their children is unreserved naked love, for the sake of their children, parents can do whatever it takes, but how many people are really so good to their parents?

At that time, parents often repeatedly tell their children:

"Eat more, grow taller"

"Learn more, the future will be better"

"Wear more clothes, or you shouldn't catch a cold!"

But when they grow up, how many children care about their parents' lives from the bottom of their hearts?

When the children grow up, the parents grow old.

When the child grows up, the parents actually gradually transform into a child.

At this time, the once coercive parents began to become weak and powerless, they began to need the care and care of their children, and longed for their children to care more about themselves, instead of gradually drifting away, and even caused the tragic ending of the tree wanting to be quiet but the wind not stopping, and the son wanting to raise but not waiting for his relatives.

Indeed, with the passage of time, parents are no longer the physically strong parents of the past, and perhaps an accident will separate parents and their children.