Feng Xiao's father has been urging Feng Xiao to get married, but Feng Xiao feels that he is not even stable at work, he can fool around by himself and mix it day by day, and even his job is unstable when he is married, what can he talk about supporting his family.

Standard premarital phobia. Feng Xiao's father didn't think so, bought a car and a house for Feng Xiao, just hoped that he could get married soon so that he could make it easier, but the people of his parents' generation did not understand the thoughts of our generation, in this fast-paced lifestyle, our generation basically had no savings and even owed a lot, who could bear to let the people he loved pay off his debts with him?

Feng Xiao often chatted with me and asked me for my opinion. Feng Xiao grew up with me since I was a child, and after so many years of incurable problems, I would ask how to solve them, and it became a habit after a long time.

At work, I can help, I must help, in fact, I am embarrassed to meddle in such a thing, besides, I am not married, and I don't even have a long time to talk about love.

I can't tell him what to do, I can only tell him from the perspective of his parents: at this age, the second elder is almost time to retire, and in the future, they will be in charge of the big things in the family, and the small things can be solved by the young couple themselves.

Feng Xiao also has a younger brother, his younger brother is in college, so he will marry Feng Xiao first, and the family can delay for a while, and when the younger brother gets married, the family will also ease up, and then marry his younger brother.

That's all for later. From our point of view: the good youth has not been squandered, and getting married so early is simply a regret for youth.

The second big problem in life, the first big problem is going to college, we individuals, we didn't study hard in school before, and now we are all like illiterates, obviously, our first big problem has been done wrong.

What follows is another headache about a lifetime of life. But at this point, he has to make up his own mind.

The ancients said: Start a family and start a business. As the name suggests, start a family first and then start a business. With a family, you can strive better.

Another friend was more thoughtful. Before we got married, we should go to work, and we should be fooling around like us.

After getting married, he didn't contain his heart, and he kept to himself for a few months, and returned to his pre-marital life.

The child was about to be born, and it was not a way to go down like this, so he quit his marriage house, bought an excavator, and began to work hard, the work was very tiring, but the remuneration was still quite considerable, and it could be regarded as his own business.

After graduating from college, there is less contact with roommates, but several roommates have been married. I have received a lot of invitations, but while blessing others, I will also have a little inexplicable loss and emptiness in my heart.

I have always lamented that I am still young, but time has proved that it is not small. I used to talk about it: I want to get married, I want to be the first person in our circle to get married, and my wife must be knowledgeable and understanding..... In the end, I found out that the people who are most reluctant to talk more are often the first to get married, and I, who is full of trains, is the one who has not met the right one for a long time.

In fact, there is no conflict between starting a family first and starting a family first, and when you start a family, you just meet the person you want to take care of most for a lifetime, then you will want to give her a better life and work hard.

On the contrary, if you don't meet someone you want to live your life when you get married, then you should work hard first to give her the happiness you want when you meet her in the future.