Chapter 181: How to Live
Ji Jingshi listened to Yun Yan talk about the philosophy of life, not only couldn't help but laugh, so his expression eased a lot.
And Yun Yan was pouring out his heart, but when he heard Ji Jingshi's low laughter, he looked at him and asked puzzledly, "What are you laughing at?" ”
Ji Jingshi didn't answer her directly, but asked, "How old are you this year?" ”
Yun Yan thought about it quite seriously for a moment before replying, "It's almost twenty." ”
"It's only twenty, how can you talk like a person who looks down on the world? The old and depressed are the time when they are full of vitality, can they be a little energetic? Ji Jingshi's voice was joking, and he glanced at Yun Yan and said.
Yun Yan understood that he was laughing at himself pretending to be mature, so he snorted a little speechlessly, thinking that my thinking is mature, that is to have mature experience and capital, you don't listen to it as a joke, if I say it, I'm afraid you will be shocked.
"What's wrong with my young age? Who says that you can't have a sense of life at a young age? That's what I think, that's what my values and outlook on life are, do you still want me to pretend to be the opposite of my essence? ”
Yun Yan's tone was straightforward, and he even looked down on himself when he crusaded against Ji Jingshi, and Ji Jingshi felt funny and helpless when he heard it.
So he also shouted injustice: "You just shouted grievances to yourself, why did you start wronging me?" ”
Yun Yan tilted his head and looked at the next Ji Jing, and then said in disbelief: "What you said is to express that you think I am pretending to be deep, do you think I can't hear it?" ”
Ji Jingshi listened to Yun Yan's slightly aggrieved words, and finally couldn't help but chuckle, "Then you really wronged me, I'm just curious about how your thinking can be so mature, it does seem to be a little incompatible with your age." ”
"It's a personality difference, everyone has their own personality, who says that everyone has to be the same?" Yun Yan retorted with a snort.
Ji Jingshi looked at Yun Yan for a while, careless about everything, and for a while he grabbed one thing and said it to the truth, which looked a little contradictory, but it was also very cute.
So he no longer struggled with her, and took the lead in compromising: "Okay, okay, I said the wrong thing, you are you, I shouldn't measure you by other people's standards, I won't be in the future, okay?" ”
Hearing Ji Jingshi's mistake, Yun Yan also accepted it when he saw it, instead of making trouble unreasonably, so he made a magnanimous expression and said reluctantly: "Okay, I'll forgive you this time." ”
Ji Jingshi nodded with a smile, and then brought up what he said just now, "But I don't agree with your point of view." ”
"What?" Yun Yan asked strangely, not knowing what he was talking about.
"What does it mean that life is for oneself and form for others to see? People are social animals, it is impossible to completely isolate themselves from the world, and at the same time, they can't get away from the attention of others, so you don't have to hide it, live a good life, but also show it appropriately to others, so that the people who care about you will be happy, and the people who hate you will be uncomfortable, why not? ”
Listening to Ji Jingshi's theory, Yun Yan was a little surprised, in her opinion, according to Ji Jingshi's identity and character, she would not have this idea at all, and she didn't bother to expose her life to others, why was she teaching herself how to make her relatives happy and enemies painful?
So Yun Yan asked curiously: "I thought that there was no need to show your happiness to others at your height, but I didn't expect that even if you were high, you would inevitably have this kind of cheesy mind?" ”
Hearing Yun Yan say this, Ji Jingshi said calmly: "I really don't need to show others how good or bad my life is, what I said was for you, marrying me will inevitably put you in an embarrassing situation, and there will be many people who want you to be unhappy and want you to be unlucky to see you laugh, but you can't go to them one by one to fight back, the best way is to show your happiness appropriately, isn't this the best way to retaliate?" ”
Yun Yan was completely stunned, and when she blinked her eyes and looked at Ji Jing, her face was incredible. Ji Jingshi saw her looking at herself with such an expression, raised her eyebrows and asked, "What's wrong?" ”
Yun Yan was surprised, "I really didn't see it, Mr. Tang Ji still knows this kind of careful thinking, it's really unseemly." ”
Yun Yan didn't take it seriously when he deliberately teased Ji Jing, but calmly asked, "Isn't that the case?" ”
"That's exactly what happened," Yun Yan nodded, then pursed his lips, "But it doesn't seem like that when it comes out of your mouth, it's so strange, you don't look like someone who cares about this kind of thing." ”
Ji Jingshi sighed helplessly, "I said that I said this for you, you can understand that I care about these things because I care about you." ”
Yun Yan didn't know how to refute him when he heard it, and he also knew that he didn't have any position to refute him, and everyone made it clear that it was for themselves that they would pay attention to this kind of messy thing.
Thinking about it like this, Yun Yan felt a little moved. I couldn't help but be secretly proud in my heart, look at Ji Jingshi, such a proud and noble, cold and indifferent person, now for his own sake, he is willing to take the initiative to fall into the dust and take care of the troublesome things of chicken feathers.
However, Yun Yan also vaguely guessed, according to what Ji Jingshi said, then he probably had his own ideas about the wedding a long time ago, if nothing else, he was probably ready to do a big deal.
"Since you're so thoughtful, what are your thoughts on the wedding?" Yun Yan asked about today's main topic.
Ji Jingshi smiled faintly, and then said calmly: "As the helmsman of the Ji family, my wedding is naturally shabby, besides, as the head of the Ji family, if the wedding is too simple at that time, it will inevitably make people despise you, so my idea is to handle it well." ”
Yun Yan originally wanted to persuade Ji Jingshi not to exaggerate too much, and just go through the ceremony, but when she heard that he was moving out of his identity as the helmsman of the Ji clan and her identity as the housewife, these two mountains blocked her words at once, and those opposite thoughts couldn't be said.
She thought in her heart that what Ji Jingshi said actually made sense, no matter what she thought, but Ji's face could not be ignored, and Ji Jingshi's wedding was originally a high-profile thing, it must not be simple, otherwise what would others think when they saw it?