"I'm not tired,"

Wei Xiang'er smiled bitterly in her heart, but she didn't dare to say that she was tired!

It seems that she has had this impression since she was a child:

Every little daughter-in-law is 'from a daughter-in-law to a mother-in-law', and she has come over like this......

Even her mother, the second brother and sister later, which one is not like this?

Obviously, she thinks that this attitude towards life is wrong, but seeing that the daughters-in-law around her are coming over like this, she can only endure it silently-

She can only blame herself for being conservative.

"Sister, how can you not be tired! Moreover, the first purpose of making money is to improve our own living conditions! ”

"If you make money and have to live a hard life, are you still willing to go to work and suffer hardship?"

Wei Xiu'er opened her eyes wide, grabbed her eldest sister's arm, and explained angrily:

"Sister, what do you care about other people's mouths! You don't have any pain! Besides, they are saying this out of jealousy!

It is precisely because they are incapable and unable to make money that they see that your life is so easy, happy, and fulfilling, that people will get pink eye. ”

"Alas~ Xiu'er, you are still young......"

Seeing that the eldest sister sighed and talked about her age again, Wei Xiu'er rolled her eyes and looked at the eldest sister to brainwash her without giving up:

"Eldest sister, what's the matter with this age! If you don't listen to me, you will live another twenty years longer than me, and you will not have a good life!

No matter who you are, if you really want to live for other people's mouths, you will never be happy in your life! ”

"Happiness?"

Wei Xiang'er muttered in a daze, what happiness does she have at all?

"Yes, happiness! Sister, if we women want to be happy, the first thing we must learn is to love ourselves. ”

"Love yourself?"

Wei Xiang'er was stunned.

Hearing her sister's words, she was shocked!

She was never told that to be happy, you must first learn to love yourself......

And she, the one she has always loved deeply, has never been herself!

She puts 'herself' in the humblest position!

At first, she admired her husband's ability, and later respected her father-in-law, and when she knew that her husband didn't look down on her, she worked hard, took care of her father-in-law, and loved and raised her two sons-

Seeing that the eldest sister was talked about by herself, Wei Xiuer made persistent efforts:

"Of course!

Only if you love yourself and feel that you are noble, not a loser, not a white food, can you stand in a leading position in a family and be respected by your family! ”

"On the other hand, you feel that housework is your responsibility, taking care of your elders, serving your husband, educating your children, and taking care of all the housework at home, cooking, laundry, and cleaning, all by yourself."

[This damn broken body, I gasped after saying a few words! ] 】

After taking two breaths, Wei Xiu'er continued:

"When a man gets used to it, he only treats his wife as a cheap appendage! This wife is not as good as a nanny, at least the nanny still has a salary! As a wife, you will make money when you go to work, you have to do housework after work, and in the end, you have to take your salary to supplement the government! ”

"As for the husband of a man, when he comes home from work, he will only hold his hands, a cup of tea, watch TV, and wait for the meal, who is noble and who is cheap, it is clear at a glance!"

When Wei Xiang'er heard these words, she only felt that ten thousand arrows pierced her heart, and her face was ugly: "......"

Wei Xiu'er, who was talking about it, didn't immediately notice the strangeness of the eldest sister, and said endlessly:

"Sister, why do you keep such a husband? In addition to the fact that you can't reproduce asexually when you have a child, where is the need for a man? If I really want to marry such a man as a husband, I might as well live a small life alone, uh......"

After a disgusted mouthful, Wei Xiu'er finally found that her eldest sister's dark face almost made her look up to the sky and cry out.

She didn't mean to!

After saying this, it won't hurt her eldest sister and divorce her eldest brother-in-law, right?

She suddenly felt a dull pain in her lower limbs, and her aunt would beat her to death!

Looking at her eldest sister innocently, she asked cautiously:

"Eldest sister, eldest brother-in-law won't be like this, right?"

"Oh, almost...... It's the salary I have received at work all these years, and I haven't spent a cent. Your brother-in-law's salary is stuck in my hand, and the family uses his salary ......"

Well, fortunately, at least it is not to completely suppress her eldest sister's ability!

Wei Xiu'er rolled her eyes, she always felt that something was wrong, raised her head and looked around, but found nothing, so she asked the eldest sister:

"Then, the eldest brother-in-law doesn't usually do housework? Not taking care of the kids? ”

"It's not all, the helper cleans up the table or something, it's still dry, but it's true that he doesn't go into the kitchen."

Hearing the eldest sister say this, Wei Xiu'er's face was a little dark, as if in this era, most men don't go into the kitchen-

That last time, she directly pulled Huo Lizhao into the kitchen, what did the Huo family think of her?

Forget it, the soldiers will block, the water will cover the earth, she is not afraid!

"As for your two nephews, after they were five years old, he took over and educated them personally......"

"Hmm, that brother-in-law is okay~

…… Actually, eldest sister, how your brother-in-law is, depends on how you train him! People have the instinct to deceive good and fear evil, if you have the right attitude at the beginning, who will dare to take an inch in the future? ”

Wei Xiuer encouraged the eldest sister, "Like Huo Lizhao, he is quite conscious, as soon as we got married, he took the initiative to hand over the bank deposit and salary card." ”

This represents a man's true attitude towards marriage! If he can't even do that, I don't want to waste time with him, "Talking about feelings!"

Suddenly, Wei Xiu'er felt as if she had talked a little too much, blinked her eyes ignorantly, and felt numb in her scalp when she met the eldest sister's ridiculous gaze......

"I can't imagine that our sister-in-law has a very thorough view of feelings and marriage~"

"Hehe, sister, didn't I see a lot before I realized it!"

After smiling awkwardly, Wei Xiu'er solemnly held the eldest sister's hand and said solemnly:

"Big sister, I mean it!

If even you feel that you should accommodate others in everything and wronged yourself, and treat yourself as a female King Kong...... If you meet a ruthless husband who doesn't know how to be gracious, who will pity you?

After all, you didn't love yourself! ”

"Xiu'er, I see what you mean."

Wei Xiang'er hugged her sister and said gratefully: "If it weren't for you saying this, I wouldn't know, it turned out that I wanted to be left." ”

"Well, eldest sister, you have to believe in yourself, you are so good, gentle and self-reliant, are you afraid that your eldest brother-in-law will not love you?"

"......" Wei Xiang'er sighed secretly, at this age, what do you say about whether you love it or not.

"Sister, don't be so pessimistic and unconfident!

You have to believe in yourself!

I think my brother-in-law is pretty good, maybe he's not very good at expressing emotions? Brother-in-law, I can still save my ......."

In this era, is it the afterlife?

Her eldest sister is not her, and her thinking is not so avant-garde.

What's more, her eldest sister also gave birth to two sons to her brother-in-law, one in college and one in high school, how can it be impossible to divorce love at this age-

After all, in marriage, the brother-in-law did not make a mistake!