Chapter 168 It depends on whether her man is a good husband

"Oh, I'm sorry, I think of something old." Huo Yuzhen also found that she was reckless, if it weren't for her brother-in-law's quick reaction, she would have suffered a crime for this hand.

"Sister Zhen, you can't look at other people's married life, you have to feel it yourself!"

Wei Xiu'er cautiously glanced at the eldest sister and whispered:

"Like my eldest sister, others see her as very happy, the family is harmonious, the father-in-law is maintained, and the husband takes care of the family...... But is she happy? Maybe. ”

After a pause in the words, Wei Xiu'er took the opportunity to neatly finish the work in her hand perfectly, and now she only needs to boil caramel!

"Happiness is to be defined by yourself." Wei Xiu'er tilted her head, looked at the stunned eldest sister, thought about it, and gave an example:

"Like our uncle, the happiness he wants may be a successful career, and my eldest brother-in-law is a big person."

"Like my mother, it is very simple for her to be happy, the family is safe, and every small family is happy, she will be happy."

"And my little father, others always say secretly that he is not a real man or anything, he has no wife and no children and lives with his big brother and sister-in-law, and he doesn't even have a small family! But my little dad is not afraid of these rumors! He, live the way he wants! ”

Huo Yuzhen had also heard some old things about the Wei family, and heard Wei Xiu'er say bluntly with a smile that she didn't care about her little father's physical defects at all......

Even, her last sentence shook her spine:

Live the way he wants?!

What kind of marriage does she want? Or is it...... What kind of life?

"I think marriage is just a part of life, and it depends on the individual's attitude towards marriage."

Wei Xiu'er saw the confused look of the eldest sister, she took the candy and said in a low voice:

"Like a man, he wants a wife and a son to be filial, so that he can pursue his career without burden. Women, most of them have been guarding the family all their lives.

Before getting married, listen to the words of your parents and elders;

After getting married, you have to live as your husband and in-laws want...... Stay at home honestly, give birth to babies and raise children to do housework, while men only need to go to work and go home to sleep, sit and wait for dinner?

When you meet a husband and in-law who are too much, it will be even worse, you have to pay your salary at work, and you have to cook, do laundry, and do housework when you get home from work, sleep later than your mother-in-law and husband, and get up earlier than the rooster! ”

"......" Hearing her brother and daughter-in-law say this, Huo Yuzhen's eyebrows were twisted-

Although the Zhou family is not so excessive, it is almost the same!

Every time she goes to her mother-in-law's house, she really starts from the beginning to the end, and her mother-in-law is like handing over all the work accumulated in half a month to her.

Every time she went, she had to arrive before eight o'clock with meat, vegetables and fruits. As soon as she put down her belongings, her mother-in-law asked her to wash and wash, at least three buckets of bedding, bed sheets and other things.

As soon as I finished this work, I was about to cook, and my mother-in-law would only do it on one side, and sometimes when my sister-in-law came over, if she came over to help, my mother-in-law would only be more excessive......

Sometimes she wonders if this sister-in-law is deliberately trying to make her do more work!

"In my opinion, we women can also hold up half the sky, why is the family status lower than that of men?"

It's humbling!

After Wei Xiu'er made sure that the temperature of the pot had dropped a little, she poured out the remaining oil and hummed with her chest up:

"Sister Zhen, you see, our dad is very good to my mother! Dad respects his mother, and his mother lives happily and gently! You see, our dad can still share the housework with my mom!

Speaking of which, whether a married woman is virtuous or not depends on whether her man is a good husband! ”

"Xiu'er, what you said seems to make sense......

Huo Yuzhen is not stupid, she can already hear that her brother-in-law is comforting and explaining her.

Recalling yesterday, she overheard the conversation between her brother-in-law and Baochun, and thought of her daughter-in-law's sullen appearance yesterday, and after eating caramel steamed eggs, she was really happy.

At that time, she really thought that it was because of the sweets that Baoxi was in a better mood, but now it seems that Baoxi is more like being comforted by Baochun!

Although Baochun has been weak since he was a child, his five senses and IQ are really higher than Baoxi!

She also knows that her daughter has always been Bao Chun's trotting errands, who made Bao Chun lazy and unhappy to move around in the past!

At this time, Huo Yuzhen suddenly found that since her brother set Xiu'er as her daughter-in-law, her life has gradually become warmer, and her mother no longer sighs, worrying about Lizhao's marriage.

The change of the little mother followed her father and became warm.

In the past, when she went back to her parents' house, her parents mostly looked at each other and were silent, but now most of the time, her father sits next to her mother, laughing and teasing Baochun and Baoxi with her......

Lizhao's change is even greater!

In the past, he couldn't wait to work overtime 24 hours a day on business trips, and if it weren't for Baochun at home, he wouldn't even want to go home.

In the past, after a business trip, I usually spent time in the dormitory.

But now, as soon as he took a vacation, he went home and ran to Wei's house with Baochun in his arms.

Or fiddle with his house.

Think about it, when Song Hongying was her brother-in-law, her brother was on a business trip, and she could go for a month at a time!

Moreover, he also made it clear that Song Hongying was not allowed to go up to the second floor to enter his bedroom! If Song Hongying insisted on staying in the old mansion, she could only sleep in a small room on the first floor.

Before he got married, his father and mother also let him buy a wedding house.

But at that time, Lizhao's marriage was like completing the task, and he was not willing to buy a wedding house, so he directly said that the unit had allocated him a dormitory, one room and two rooms, which was enough to live.

There is no decoration, and it is so simple to get married.

As soon as this marriage partner is replaced by Xiu'er, Lizhao will be the boss when he changes.

With a wave of his hand, he bought a bungalow in Lao Yangli, and the wedding appliances were all brand new, not to mention, he personally picked them out!

Even the upstairs bedroom, he had made a lot of changes and cleaned replacements, and she didn't even see how red and glamorous it was......

If it weren't for his father, Lizhao wouldn't have allowed him to change the old bed, saying that it was his grandfather who had specified that he would leave it to him, and he wouldn't be allowed to change it!

And Song Hongying really didn't sleep in his bedroom, Lizhao was able to change the marriage bed!

Listening to Wei Xiu'er's remarks at this time, she suddenly understood why Lizhao didn't look down on Song Hongying, but was so concerned about the brother and daughter-in-law next to him-

Ask:

If Song Hongying is a delicate silk flower that clings to parasitism, then Wei Xiuer is a hibiscus that comes out of the mud and is not stained, with a beautiful scenery, enchanting but not charming......

And Song Hongying is vulgar and pretentious!

She couldn't even look at it.

If it weren't for the fact that this woman was introduced by Dong Sijia strongly, and she first cut and then talked about the marriage, the Huo family was helpless, and for the sake of Huo Wenxian's face, they had to admit this daughter-in-law.

It's also strange that Lu Shuqin despised Dong Sijia at the beginning, but he didn't expect the Song family to be in such a hurry, and he couldn't see each other for three months, so he directly asked for a certificate to set up the wedding wine.

I don't know what kind of this Song Hongying has done, less than three days after the newlywed knot, Lizhao was disgusted with her-

Even when she is pregnant, they don't pity her and the flesh and blood in her womb!