"Sister Wen Xin, when I was having lunch just now, Brother Zhang was worried about your body, so he told me about your recent emotional changes, and I guessed that you may be suffering from 'postpartum depression', which is an emotion that produces anxiety and anxiety."

When Wei Xiu'er saw that Liu Wenxin Xu heard the name of the disease, her face turned even bluer, and she patted the back of her hand comfortingly and explained softly:

"Sister Wen Xin, don't be nervous, generally after giving birth, in fact, there are more or less anxious emotional changes.

After all, a pregnant woman is a mother for the first time, and the body of the fetus is still in pain after giving birth, and the newborn baby is fragile and will not express her intentions.

Of course, different mothers have different emotional manifestations, so some mothers are a little milder, some are more serious, but these are not big things, as long as the mother perceives the cause of anxiety earlier and solves it, the easier it is for the mother to heal herself. ”

"Really?"

Liu Wenxin's nervous expression, listening to Wei Xiu'er's soft and gentle explanation, gradually calmed down and listened, and then thought of the emotional changes after giving birth to the kitten, and breathed a sigh of relief:

"It turned out that I had a lot of mood swings because I was anxious and nervous...... If it can heal itself, that's good! ”

After listening to Xiu'er's sister's explanation, she thought about her recent emotions and felt quite reasonable.

In addition, she had a caesarean section, and the knife wound on her body was really painful!

In this era, there is no such thing as a painless caesarean section, and it has only been seven days since she gave birth to a child, and Liu Wenxin's knife is still in pain.

After all, not to mention the length of the knife, the drugs in the hospital are also tight now, and Liu Wenxin is in her thirties and breastfeeding, and her body's recovery is much slower with mood fluctuations, and the degree of self-healing is much slower.

When I saw a girl born prematurely, she was as thin as a cat cub, and it was difficult to raise her when she looked at it......

Liu Wenxin's mood is complicated and resentful, if it weren't for her mother shoehorning that Xu Xiao'an, she herself wouldn't be able to save face, how could she hurt her little girl!

For this reason, she blamed herself for almost killing her little daughter, she didn't even have the face to tell her husband about the pain of the knife, and the entangled self-blame in her heart was far more uncomfortable than the physical pain, and the natural anxiety and depression were more serious, and it was immediately manifested-

"Sister Wen Xin really don't have to worry, you see, the kitten has been born safely, this is a good thing, you should be relieved, smile more, only if you are in a good mood and take care of your body, the kitten can have breast milk."

Seeing Liu Wenxin's sad look, the corners of Wei Xiu'er's mouth twitched.

Knowing that she is now in regret and chagrin, when Zhang Guohui complained about the little nanny before, Wei Xiuer listened to it a few times, and the mother was depressed at this time, so she still had to be relieved, so she carefully persuaded:

"I heard my eldest sister say that breast milk is the warmest for the baby, the kitten is a premature baby, and drinking breast milk is the best for her spleen and stomach, Sister Wenxin should cheer up even if it is for the good of the kitten."

Hearing Wei Xiu'er's words, Liu Wenxin looked at the well-behaved and sleeping girl and nodded again and again, and said with a resolute gaze:

"Sister Xiu'er, I want to be left, and I owe it to you to come and see me, otherwise I will drill the horns of the bull again and make a mistake."

The kitten was already born prematurely, and this fact cannot be changed.

As a mother, the most important thing for her now is to take care of her little girl, so that she can get strong as soon as possible, instead of being indecisive and sighing and self-pity!

In addition, since she started breastfeeding, she really didn't have much milk, and after hearing Wei Xiuer's explanation, she already understood that it was her emotional depression, which made the breast milk production low, knowing the reason, she naturally had to correct it.

After all, it is not the first time she has been a mother, she has already raised two sons, and she is no stranger to how to take care of children and confinement, and she can hear that Wei Xiuer's words are right.

Even the attending doctor also reminded her that she should be happy during her confinement and think more about the obstacles to physical recovery, which is a crude concept that people who have seen Chinese medicine basically know.

"Sister Wen Xin, it's best if you can figure it out yourself! If you can get out of bed, walking around the ground more often will help you recover from the wound. ”

Hearing that Liu Wenxin figured it out by herself, Wei Xiu'er breathed a sigh of relief, the task was completed!

Thinking of the little baby she had just seen prematurely, and her thin face was still yellow, she whispered:

"Also, if the weather is nice, you can ask the caretaker to go outside and bask in the sun at 8 or 9 o'clock in the morning, about 20 minutes.

Remember to cover your baby's eyes, strong light is not good for your child's eye development. Exposure to the sun for a quarter of an hour in the morning and evening is not only beneficial to the baby's jaundice, but also promotes calcium absorption, which is good for the child's bone development. ”

It can be seen that Liu Wenxin is not an ignorant woman without culture, so Wei Xiuer whispered to her some common sense of raising a baby, and the two chatted quietly for more than ten minutes......

Hearing the knock on the door, I found that it was a nurse who came over to take Liu Wenxin's temperature, and was about to hang up the needle water, Wei Xiuer saw that her husband and children had come in, so she took the initiative to say goodbye, and their family came back from Yaoquan Town, and they had not returned home yet.

Hearing Wei Xiu'er's words, Liu Wenxin was even more moved, and her heart was somewhat rational, the emotions that had been taken crooked by her mother recently brightened up, and her husband personally sent off the guests, and there was a caretaker, Zhang Guohui naturally listened to his wife.

……

When I returned to the Ming Medicine Garden, it was almost two o'clock.

Hearing the sound of the car, Ah Gong came over, made sure that the adults and children were fine, waved his hand, and asked everyone to sleep for an afternoon first, and wait for four o'clock if there is something.

The old man went to bed early and got up early, and he was used to sleeping in the afternoon, but he didn't see Grandma sleeping soundly, and even the sound of the car didn't wake her up.

Wei Xiu'er was indeed sleepy, and when she saw her husband driving back to Yixinju, she didn't object.

The mother and daughter went to wash, and Huo Lizhao was responsible for putting away the mattress one by one.

After their mother and daughter washed up, Wei Xiuer changed her pajamas in the bathroom, the bed was made, and the two mother and daughter went to bed and fell asleep within a few minutes.

As for Huo Lizhao, he couldn't sleep.

After taking Lingbao Dan, he has recently been in good health because of medicinal power problems, and he has been soaking in the medicinal spring soup with pure dew for three days in the past few days, and his physical fitness has improved again, but it is a trivial matter such as soaking in medicinal springs and driving, and he has not consumed much physical energy at all, and naturally he does not need to take a nap.

When he returned home, he first took the dirty clothes from the travel bag, washed them, and dried them.

However, after turning around the garden, he saw that there was something to be tidied up, and immediately began to arrange to clean it up.

was busy until half past four, and when he returned to Yixinju and saw that his wife and daughter had not woken up, he washed his face, and then went to the main courtyard again, and slept with his wife and daughter until he woke up naturally-

When Huo Lizhao arrived at the main courtyard, he saw that Ah Gong was already packing up the medicinal herbs, while Grandma went to the vegetable garden to prepare the green vegetables to be used for dinner today.

"Brother Zhao, come here, I'll take your pulse."

As soon as Chen Qi saw his grandfather, he immediately stopped what he was doing and waved and shouted at him.