The Chinese tradition is like this, the more capable people are, the more humble they must be in front of their neighbors. Curling your tail in front of your neighbors won't do you any good. The reputation of loyalty and filial piety in front of the neighbors is more important than any learning.

As for whether you really have the ability or not, it doesn't really matter if you're really filial. The important thing is that others think that you have the ability and that you are loyal and filial.

Fang Dolphin Weng Fang Juren, as a well-known local gentry, attaches great importance to etiquette, originally he thought that his eldest son, who is usually not very careful, may not be able to show off what kind of ghost he will be after returning from abroad. I don't want this to give him a surprise, it seems that this Liu Yiyang has indeed grown a lot.

He handed the folding fan in his hand to Lu Renbing and said, "Your friends in suits don't use this old antique, but it's better than taking a straw hat fan." Then he said to others, "He did well this time!" When I returned to China, I took the second-class cabin, I thought that he must be the first class on the train, he still did the second class, he was not ambitious, changed his true colors, he already understood the truth of being a man. ”

Everyone also echoed the praise, hugged the front and back, and went out of the ticket gate. Suddenly, a man wearing blue glasses and a suit grabbed Lu Renbing and said, "Please don't move!" Take a picture. Listening to the clicking sound of the camera, the blue glasses relaxed his hand, and a person with a camera took a picture of Lu Renbing behind him.

The blue glasses took out his business card and handed it to Lu Renbing, and said as he handed it over, "When did Dr. Fang return to China?" The person who took the picture in the back also came over and gave Lu Renbing a business card. Lu Renbing took a look, and it turned out to be a reporter from two local daily newspapers in the county.

Lu Renbing greeted the two, and both of them said, "Dr. Fang has been traveling for a long time, and he will come to the house tomorrow morning to listen to the teaching." Lu Renbing nodded yes. The two reporters turned their heads to compliment Mr. Fang. A group of people left the train station. ”

Feng Yi said to Lu Renbing, "Brother, you are now a celebrity in this county." Lu Renbing shrugged, in this era, there was a doctor in a county who stayed abroad, and it was really like a person who was admitted to the examination in the pre-Qing Dynasty, and it was almost the same as a jinshi. Even fifty or sixty years later, a Ph.D. is still valued locally. Of course, after the new century, the doctorates who began to wholesale and retail were much lower. That's the good thing about being a small place, talent is scarce.

In this era, the doctors who returned from overseas are likely to go directly to the center at the best level, and it is not a big problem to find a position in the provincial capitals at the next level. Even if you go to some colleges and universities to teach, it is worth making friends. Most of the students who can go to colleges and universities now come from high-ranking officials and dignitaries, and this network alone is worth investing in.

When I finally got home, I saw my mother and two younger brothers and daughters-in-law, and gave them the gifts they had brought back. The mother smiled and said: "I want to go abroad, and if I learn so thoughtfully, I will buy everything that women use." ”

Lu Renbing smiled and didn't speak.

Father Fang asked, "Pengtu talked about a Miss Su on the phone yesterday, what's going on?" ”

"College classmates, I just came back from the same boat this time, so I became familiar with it."

"Your marriage should also be vigorous, you see that your two younger brothers have already married their daughters-in-law, and they even have children. There are a few cases of matchmaking at home, but we old people who are tired of not necessarily being your master, so we don't dare to accept it. As for that Su Hongye, he has some fame, and he seems to have served a few terms in the past······"

Well, behind every cute girl, there is a family, if you want to treasure her, she will drag out his father, uncle, brothers, etc., and she is not so cute at this time. Well, in this day and age, talking about marriage is like homosexual love, not valuing the girl herself, but valuing her Lao Tzu or brother.

Looking at the situation, Fang Hongji's father liked Ms. Su very much, but it seemed that Mrs. Fang didn't like it very much, "I don't approve, Miss Guan can't marry, and it's not certain who will serve who in the family." In addition, it is better to marry a daughter-in-law or a fellow villager, and the temper of people from other counties is always a little inappropriate. She's a doctor, so she's not too young, right? Her two daughters-in-law, who did not graduate from middle school, agreed with her mother-in-law's opinion.

Father Fang said: "People are female doctors, I'm afraid Hong will not be able to bear it?" "It's the same thing that a female doctor is talking about is an indigestible object like a brick or a tile.

"What's wrong with the female doctor, Hong gradually is also a doctor, why can't she be worthy of her?" Mrs. Fang was not convinced.

Father Fang said with a smile that marrying a woman must win my family, and marrying a woman must not be as good as my family's truth, and said with a smile that if you want to marry a female doctor who stays in the United States, in addition to foreigners, you must be a double foreign male doctor.

No matter what the reason, Mrs. Fang knew that the old man did not approve of kissing Ms. Su. So she began to sell a few good girls in her hands, and she also showed Lu Renbing photos.

This scene is no different from those parents who urged marriage in later generations.

So Lu Renbing said that he might be a doctor of five materials or a doctor of seven materials in the future, and then ended the topic. Father Fang, Mrs. Fang and the family began to ask what was going on again. Of course, Lu Renbing began to pretend to be forced again, and suppressed the gangsters. A doctor, Mrs. Fang still thought that she could find a few girls from her social circle to match, and the marriage of these five or seven doctors exceeded his social circle.

Marry a woman with a low match, but not too low. So let Lu Renbing control this matter by himself, and then they will just mix up an opinion.

Anyway, the two of them didn't point to this eldest son for the elderly. Fang Laoju has seen the world, he has already given his wife a vaccination, for example, in the past, those who went out to be officials in the Jinshi, which one could not return to his hometown until he was seventy or eighty, and his father and mother died, so he could come back to worry.

Therefore, the old lady is actually prepared to let go of Fang Hongji's marriage. It's not about being enlightened or not, it's about ability and long-term planning for the son.

After the narration, Lu Renbing began to visit the elders, relatives and friends everywhere, give gifts, and drink some wine. I didn't get home until late. Father Fang took him to the ancestral grave again, and went to the grave of Fang Hongji's grandfather, and the day's journey was over.

For dinner, Mrs. Fang made a very hearty hometown dish, which tasted very good, and Lu Renbing was also really hungry, so she devoured several bowls of rice. The old lady wiped her tears and said to see what kind of starvation the children had become in a foreign country.

Everyone laughed at him, and the foreigners would all starve to death. Bread and milk also feed people.

The atmosphere at home was warm, and there was no room for war in everyone's plans. It's a pity that war is coming soon. The family will soon have to go through a long period of displacement.

However, there is no need for Lu Renbing to spoil the atmosphere at the dinner table for the time being.

After dinner, he was in the study, with Father Fang and Feng Yi, and seriously analyzed the current situation and the possible situation in the future, and calmed both of them.

Father Fang, who has been in Xinwu County and is a big gentleman, basically doesn't pay attention to the outside world, and has been in turmoil for decades, no matter who comes to Xinwu County, he has to deal with him, the head snake, nothing more than to collect food and donations.

But hearing Lu Renbing's scorching analysis, this old man felt the seriousness of the matter.

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