When Tang Yao was young, he didn't have much concept of the two solar terms of Qingming and Winter Solstice.

First, most of the things like going to the grave to worship ancestors do not allow children like her to participate. Second, her father is the eldest son, and her grandparents are still alive, so there is nothing to kill pigs and sheep at home to offer incense.

In her grandfather's house, she is a foreign surname, although Tang Yao is the youngest and is deeply favored by her grandparents and grandmothers, but the major events in her grandfather's family naturally have her three cousins first, and no, there are also her three cousins, so it can't be her turn.

Therefore, her concept of death is very weak. In Tang Yao's concept, everyone in the family is the same age, and because she is the youngest, she just keeps looking forward to growing up. Tang Yao thought about the many things she could do when she grew up, but she never thought for a moment that if she grew up, the people in her family would really be old.

People are always going to get old, and when people are old, they will die one day.

Before Tang Yao was ready, the third uncle fell ill. When Tang Yao heard the news, she couldn't accept it, not to mention her grandmother, who gave birth to her third uncle.

Grandma knew that her ability was limited, and all she could make for her children and grandchildren was a bowl of water.

Now that the youngest son is sick, it is like the sky has fallen by more than half, and even if my grandmother has the strength to spare, it is difficult to serve three bowls of water as flat.

The grandmother asked the grandfather to come up with the money, and the youngest son had to bear part of the surgery anyway.

My grandmother asked my grandfather to move the kitchen to the third uncle's room to cover the food expenses of the third uncle's family.

Grandma also asked the family now, big and small, all of them have the third uncle as the priority, and the rest need to stand aside.

These are human nature, and they couldn't be more normal.

But people's hearts are different, although brothers are born from the same root, and their hearts are naturally connected, now the three of them are in a group, and they can't wait for one person to get sick and the three of them suffer together, but the daughters-in-law are all married later, and the feelings are not so deep, and there are three.

It is said that three women are in one play. Tang Yao thinks about it now, although the women are all for the sake of the small family, and the men do not fight or grab, it is understandable that they can only find ways to compete for it, but everything needs to pay attention to the occasion and timing.

In the words of my aunt at the time, "My little brothers are dying, and you still come to talk to me about how every brother is the same to me." ”

The world is not fair, just like everyone is born from a different starting point, you can't decide everything, and you can't dictate everything. Many people say that life is ups and downs, take care of your heart, as long as your heart is free, you are free. But that's not the case, you'll understand it sooner or later.

Tang Yao's first job did not last for more than two months. It's not that Tang Yao is not suitable enough, it's not that Tang Yao is not hard-working enough, but he was really hurt by the blonde hair and blue eyes.

Tang Yao used to be very obsessed with blonde and blue-eyed Europeans, especially middle-aged men with some experience, which was really a dreamlike existence for a little girl who had just stepped out of college.

The boss of Tang Yao's first job happened to be a middle-aged European with blonde hair and blue eyes, and his figure was well maintained, without the slightest feeling of a middle-aged uncle's fatness, and what was even more rare was that the boss's eyes were as green as the deep sea, and Tang Yao never dared to look at the boss's eyes on weekdays. Only once, Tang Yao saw his eyes, but he didn't see the princess in the fairy tale scene to see the prince-like infatuation, on the contrary, the boss glared at his green copper coin eyes and scolded angrily, "Jessica, I tell you. The world is unpair.”