Chapter 236 Getting along with others is a science
Tian Erya's face was full of unconvinced, she was going to get on a par with Tian Dani, and she wanted to talk, but she was stopped by Tian Sanya.
"Sister, we know it's wrong." Tian Sanya said weakly.
Tian Dani's head hurts even more, Tian Sanya's unbounded confession of mistakes is not as good as Tian Erya's arguments! Does she want them to admit their wrongs like this? She was helping them find out what they were not doing well, and correct it, so that their sisters' path would be more prosperous in the future, but now, they didn't seem to understand it at all.
"Sanya, in your heart, is the eldest sister such a person who does not distinguish between right and wrong?"
Tian Sanya was stunned for a moment, tears flashed in her eyes, and said, "Eldest sister, did I say something wrong?" ”
"Hold it back for me!" Tian Dani was really angry.
"I let the two of you go to school and learn knowledge, not to let you learn this stinky problem of pretentiousness, you look at your current appearance, Tian Erya, you can't listen to other people's opinions, you play tricks vigorously, and you Tian Sanya, cry at every turn, I am innocent with a face, I am kind. You two have seen too much romance, haven't you? ”
Tian Erya and Tian Sanya's eyes flashed with surprise, and they didn't understand why Tian Dani knew.
The two of them were ostracized at school, so they studied desperately from the girls in the city, and they watched them, and they also went to see them, and the romance was really good.
"I guessed it right. I said to the two of you, I don't object to you liking it, but what are you like now? ”
Tian Erya snorted coldly: "Eldest sister, what do we look like?" You just keep talking about us, do you know what kind of life we spend outside? Just entered the school, the two of us studied hard, studied, we just wanted to be worthy of the money you spent on us, we study, sports, literature and art, we are the first in everything. However, the two of us still won the love of our classmates at school, and they said that we were poor and that we were dirty.
In order to fit into that circle, we tried to learn, but no matter what we did, they said we were wrong. At last. The food we bought, some people stole it, some people stole our clothes, even if we went to the canteen to eat, some people robbed it.
Later, I learned very well, whoever provoked me, I didn't care who he was, I scolded him, and I was not afraid of being in a hurry to fight. In this way, no one bullied us two sisters at school, and we could study well again, but because we are rural, we can't do everything well, we are good, but it is wrong, they find every opportunity to throw dirty water on me and bully us.
Are these all what Sanya and I think? ”
Tian Erya cried as she spoke.
Tian Dani listened silently, her heart was very painful, she went over and hugged Erya in her arms and patted her back: "Why didn't you tell me these things earlier?" ”
Tian Erya raised her head and said with a sob: "The two of us are afraid that the eldest sister will worry, we think, as long as we study well, it will be fine." Didn't think so much about ......"
Tian Dani wrinkled, sighed helplessly for a long time, and asked Tian Erya to sit down: "Erya, the eldest sister didn't say that it was your fault, nor did she let you admit your mistakes, but gave you advice to let you go better." You're still young, you're still kids, and you have the right to make mistakes. Got it? There are many things that you see now that are not complete, and the establishment of values and views of right and wrong is incomplete. Tell me what happened at school, okay? ”
Tian Erya nodded, then frowned, and Tian Sanya on the side was the same.
Tian Dani pulled them to sit down, and then carefully asked them what happened at school.
When Er Ya and Er Ya first entered the school, because the teachers were grateful for Dani's love, after all, many people had relatives who were rescued in that fire and took good care of the two of them, and the two girls were also angry, and they were very good at learning everything. Moreover, at the beginning, the people in the school felt that they were well dressed, used well, studied so well, and had so much pocket money, because the two sisters also had a good family background. Therefore, they are willing to associate with the two of them and become very good friends.
Actually, Tian Erya and Tian Sanya are still very good people, and when others ask them about learning, they all tell them. And when they are in the dormitory, they are not lazy in their work, so everyone likes them very much.
In this case, in fact, even if everyone knows afterwards that the two of them are rural, the rebound will not be so big, but there is a good saying, if you are not afraid of no good things, there will be no good people, Tian Jiajia saw that the Tian Erya sisters, who she had always looked down on, were better than herself at school, how could she balance her heart, so she tried her best to make it bad.
Where there are people, there are grievances, although they are middle school students, but when they have just established their values, they say that they are adults, they don't understand anything, they say they don't understand anything, and they all think that they are already adults.
At this time, children are easily misled, coupled with their rebellious nature, they never think about whether they have done something wrong. It's about thinking about how to make yourself more dazzling, let yourself be in the limelight, and if something goes wrong, it's all someone else's fault, at such an age, they have no intention of hurting anyone, but they hurt others all the time.
After being provoked by others, they wronged Er Ya and Sanya, if Er Ya and Sanya are mature and talk to them well, maybe, they will feel that they are wrong, but unfortunately Er Ya and Sanya are also children, when they are unjust, they will hate these people and will resist, and their resistance, whether it is right or wrong, is unacceptable to others.
As a result, the contradictions between the two sides are getting higher and higher.
So in the end, the two sides have become enemies, and what jokes do the enemies have, does the other party care if it is true or not? Of course you don't need to, as long as the other party is not good.
Therefore, when the bad words of Er Ya and San Ya came out, the classmates at school didn't think about whether they were wronged at all, they thought that they had finally made a fool of themselves, and it would be good to see the two of them make a fool of themselves, so why should they care if they were right or wrong?
"I admit that in this world, many things are a slap in the face, someone is doing you badly behind your back, and you have also been wronged, but if you do nothing wrong, you will not be excluded by the whole school, right? The thousands of students in the whole school, maybe they are all the kind of students with bad conduct? No way. Tian Dani said helplessly.
looked at the two sisters and said: "Take what you just said, this squad leader of your class, for the first time, she listened to other people's words, was misled, and mistakenly thought that the class fee was taken by you.
Although the last shift fee was found, it proved that you didn't take it. But the bond between you and the other party has also been concluded.
In fact, I can understand that you two are angry about this matter, but I have also taught you two that there are some things to be broad-minded. This time, although the squad leader was unfair, she was also responsible, and she did not wronged you casually without evidence, but because she was misunderstood and gave the wrong information.
It's over, it's completely passable.
But what? At the class meeting once a month, the class leader asked you for help and gave a show top-notch, which is about the honor of your entire class, as a member of the class, you should have come forward, but because of that incident, you directly refused.
After that, the squad leader found a few people to convince you, and he was already very sincere, but as soon as the two of you tempered themselves, they lost face, and in the end, the two of you won, and the squad leader didn't take out what she was good at, she was ashamed, and was told by the teacher, but is your class also ashamed. The few people who came to persuade you, although they will not hold a grudge against you, will they stay away from you in the future? ”
Tian Dani sighed, and then found another thing to continue talking.
Until the evening, Er Ya lowered her head and felt ashamed.
"You two don't know the depth too much, and besides, classmates get along with each other, you have to help each other, and you have to tolerate each other, just like a few of us sisters, Erya, are you okay with yourself? You also have Sanya, right, and Siya, do you also have it? You will also be angry with each other when you are helpless, but if you have something to do with each other, will you also take action? It's like inclusivity.
The most important point. You have to learn to look at people, those gossip, those children who have nothing to say, their opinions and thoughts, why do you care so much? You are from the countryside, why do you change yourself because of their opinions, and you change yourself? Do they approve of you?
These children are villains, and you can treat these people with the same energy that you treat your class leader. It doesn't matter if you ignore them or scold them to death. ”
Tian Dani sighed and said, "I understand now, why your sisters' popularity is so bad is because they don't know how to look at people. Second, there is no tolerance. The third is the immaturity of the concept of right and wrong! Fourth, it is not clear what is important. It's my fault that I didn't teach you how to behave in the world. ”
Tian Dani really knows that she is wrong, and getting along with people is a science.
Who can be heart-to-heart, who should stay away, and who will be face-saving.
Where is the degree of getting along with people, these are too important, fortunately, the two younger sisters are about to have a summer vacation, and when the summer vacation comes, she takes them out to experience it on the spot.
"What I said to the two of you, you can think about it yourself, as for the gossip, I have already talked to your homeroom teacher, and she will give you the answer when school starts!"