Long Xiang was not used to talking about this, so he found an excuse to leave, and Tian Dani had to come back.

Shen Qiuhua was in a very bad mood, and told Tian Dani about what he had just done.

Tian Dani sighed helplessly, in this case, it is really troublesome.

"Sister-in-law, you have a lot of ideas, otherwise you can give me an idea!" Shen Qiuhua looked at Tian Dani, her eyes lit up, and she said hopefully.

Tian Dani was speechless for a moment, and then said helplessly: "Qiuhua, this... I really can't help you, the matter of your brother marrying a daughter-in-law is a matter of your family, if I give you any ideas, it will be overstepping, this is not good! ”

Shen Qiuhua also knew that this was the case, sighed and said: "Sister-in-law, I know this truth, but I see that my parents have aged so much for my brother's affairs, I am really uncomfortable!" ”

Tian Dani sighed, the girls in the city have just started to ask for a bride price and a house. Through these to show their status in their in-laws' family, it's just that these girls haven't thought that after getting married, they will live a life, not the glory of the wedding day and the eyes of others.

"Brother Zhao Gang is so happy!" Shen Qiuhua said this thoughtlessly.

Tian Dani was stunned, unable to keep up with this person's brain circuit.

And Zhao Gang raised his eyebrows on the side, he was happy? According to the tone of what the two of them just spoke, at this time, Shen Qiuhua said that he was happy because he married a good wife like Tian Dani without spending money?

"I didn't give a bride price, so I married a good wife like my sister-in-law, if my brother's girlfriend is half as good as my sister-in-law, I also approve it, but that woman, relying on her own city, has a job as a salesperson in a building, she looks like the biggest in the world, in fact, she can't even cook, she has a big temper, and she is not virtuous at all, I really don't know, what does my brother like about her." Shen Qiuhua said angrily.

Tian Dani is a little big, in fact, she really wants to tell this girl that in a few years, the world will develop, and it is normal for girls to not know how to cook, and it is strange for them to be able to cook.

Moreover, at that time, when men and women got married, it was not like now, when mothers-in-law could still find fault with their daughters-in-law. At that time, it was the daughter-in-law who picked her husband and mother-in-law. Mother-in-law asks for enlightened and indifferent. And the husband asks for a good husband. There is also the newly released men's three from four virtues!

She still remembers that in her previous life, on the Internet, a man posted that if he crossed over, he would travel back to the eighties, when the girl only had a few hundred yuan to marry, and after he went back, he would marry her dozens...

Although it is a joke, it still shows that compared with the tricks of those girls who abused their husbands in the future, the girls who only ask for a bride price of a few hundred dollars now make men feel not too happy.

"Sister-in-law, why don't you speak? Do you hear me speak? Shen Qiuhua said a lot of things, but when she turned her head and found that she and the person who spoke ignored her, she was really speechless in her heart, was she being ignored?

Tian Dani came back to her senses, smiled at Shen Qiuhua, and then said, "Qiuhua, I was thinking about things just now. ”

"Huh?" Shen Qiuhua looked at Tian Dani puzzled: "What do you think?" ”

"Think about the bride price you said again, in fact, this problem really can't be blamed on the side of other girls." Tian Dani said with a smile

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"Sister-in-law, are you talking for that woman?" Shen Qiuhua pursed his mouth.

"No, I didn't speak for anyone, I just felt it, in fact, the bride price should be a social issue, as well as the national customs of our country. One party cannot be blamed alone. Tian Dani said with a smile.

Shen Qiuhua frowned, and then said, "Sister-in-law, I really didn't understand what you said?" ”

Tian Dani smiled helplessly and said to her:

"Then let's put it another way, now in our national conditions, a large part of the family is patriarchal, and many people think that sons are treasures and daughters are grass. And ah, as soon as the daughter marries, she becomes someone else's.

Let's just take you, after you get married in the future, your current home will not be your home, but your in-law's family is.

Every year for the New Year, even if you know that your parents are lonely at home, but you have no way to accompany your parents for the New Year, you can only accompany your parents-in-law for the New Year.

After giving birth to a child, the household registration of the husband's family is the surname of the husband's family. It's as if this child is just a man's child and has nothing to do with the woman's family.

When a woman's parents are old, the daughter's pension will be said by the in-laws, who feel that this is a matter that is not tolerated, and the daughter-in-law will be spurned by everyone if she does not support her in-laws. ”

Shen Qiuhua was silent for a long time, raised his head and said to Tian Dani: "Listening to my sister-in-law say this, I really think it's too unfair to us women, in the man's dictionary, women are not the wives they marry back, but buy them back." This..."

Tian Dani said with a smile: "After listening to what I said, did you suddenly feel that under such customs, girls are knotted."

When you get married, you should be accustomed to asking for a bride price. ”

Shen Qiuhua nodded: "It seems to be, but I don't feel good about this custom." There are many old people around me who have gone bankrupt because they married a daughter-in-law to their son. ”

Tian Dani smiled: "Yes, this custom is really bad, but to change this custom, to change from the root, the first thing to change is the patriarchal thinking in everyone's heart, and then, to change the most traditional daughter in the era does not support the old, pension refers to the son's way of thinking, and finally, we must understand that whether it is a man or a woman, the blood of the child born is the same in both men and women, and men are passed on from generation to generation, just the old thoughts." The child born to a woman is also the blood of her own family.

When these are settled, when they get married, the custom of girls asking for a bride price will naturally disappear with the wind. ”

Tian Dani really didn't lie.

After 00 years, the daughters of the family are all treasures, and their daughters get married, not to mention what bride price they want, how much they want to bring to their daughters, such as the custom of buying a house for the mother-in-law and buying a car for the mother-in-law.

And there are also aspiring young men and women who start their own businesses and earn money to buy a house and a car after getting married.

There are also many naked married men and women.

Those are the effects of progress after getting rid of the erroneous idea of patriarchy. Although there are pros and cons, the pros outweigh the disadvantages!

"This seems to be a bit difficult." Shen Qiuhua couldn't imagine that such a thing would happen. In their family, her parents are good enough for her daughter, but as long as her affairs collide with her brother's, then she will completely give way.

It's the same for both men and women, and it's just talking.

"Perhaps, it won't be long before it happens." Tian Dani said a little incomprehensibly.

"Maybe!" Shen Qiuhua raised his eyebrows, and then said: "However, no matter what happens in the future, if I have a daughter in the future, I will definitely spoil her as a princess, and as for my son, please step aside." ”

Tian Dani agreed with this statement and said: "Actually, it's right to think so, is it right to raise a son and a rich daughter? Boys will have to set up a household in the future, and girls, if you don't give them some good things since you were a child, when you grow up, aren't you casually deceived by someone else's piece of candy? Therefore, the daughter must be rich. ”

"Hmm!" Shen Qiuhua nodded in agreement.

Zhao Gang and Long Xiang glanced at each other, both speechless.

The two women are talking a little far, one is not married, the other is not married to her husband, and they start to talk about children.

However, they were right. Daughters are to be rich.

If the two of them have daughters in the future, they will stand aside for any son or not.

"Two ladies, it's not early in the morning, when are you two going to talk?" Zhao Gang asked helplessly.

Tian Dani and Shen Qiuhua came back to their senses and looked at the sky outside, it was getting dark.

"It's so late, I'm going home." Shen Qiuhua said.

"It's okay, don't worry, Long Xiang will send you in a while, he has a car, and he will be there in a while." Tian Dani immediately got up and said soothingly.

Long Xiang frowned, helplessness flashed in his eyes, this Tian Dani was used to directing him.

However, Shen Qiuhua and his feelings and reason all want him to send them.

"Let's go, I'll be late to go back later, and my aunt should clean me up." Long Xiang said helplessly.

Shen Qiuhua was stunned for a moment, and then smiled embarrassedly: "It's all my fault, I talked too hard and delayed time." ”

Long Xiang was stunned for a moment, he didn't think that she would apologize to himself, turned his head to look at her cautious appearance, suddenly felt guilty, and said, "It's not your fault, that's right, you have waited so long and haven't eaten yet." You're patronizing and chatting, what do you think in a while, I'm in for a treat! ”

Shen Qiuhua was happy in his heart, he still cared about himself.