Winter goes to spring, the days pass day by day, the "dark storm" that Banxia thought has not come, Su Zhiyuan also goes home on time every day, looking the same as usual.

Banxia gradually forgot about it, because there was a bigger event at home recently!

My little sister is getting married!!

Xiaomei is now seventeen, in the capital, the age is not very old, many dignitaries are reluctant to marry their daughters, will keep their daughters until they are seventeen or eight years old.

It's also thanks to this in the capital!

If it is in Xiaohe Village, Xiaomei is an "older leftover girl". The long-tongued women didn't know what swear words were going to come up with.

These days, the happiest person is Mrs. Jin, who is busy and happy! His old son is finally going to get married.

Some time before getting married, the groom should take the red paper "Zhili" to invite the elders, relatives and friends to eat wedding wine (good day wine), and the elders should write the word "know" under their names.

And the parents of both sides should invite their sons and daughters to eat buns, cockles, elbows, chestnuts, and lotus seeds, and ask for the "five sons to Dengke" lottery heads.

Three or five days before the good day, the man sends the woman a "sedan chair", which is generally 2 geese, 2 meat sides, 2 fish, etc.

Mrs. Jin has been looking forward to this matter for a long time, and the gift is sufficient.

Su's mother was very happy to see it, and the courtesy was sufficient, indicating that her mother-in-law was very satisfied with her little sister.

turned to think that her daughter was about to get married, and she couldn't help but feel a little sad.

As a relative of the woman's family this time, Banxia felt the cumbersomeness and etiquette of marriage in ancient times, no wonder the old man always said that marriage is a major event in life!

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There's a funny saying here, called "Abed's best man".

The so-called "bed" means that the day before the wedding, the man should invite a "Quanfu" woman to take 24 pairs of chopsticks to tie the red thread and place them under the groom's mat, which is called "making a bed".

One to three nights before the marriage, a boy with both parents sleeps with the groom, and sleeps in the bed, called "the best man in the bed".

At night, I want to eat buns, peanuts, and eggs for this little girl, which means "Bao Shengzi".

When you leave on the morning of the "good day", you should give a red envelope, commonly known as "taking out the urine bottle".

One or two days before enjoying the first good day, the male family gets the sedan chair and wedding utensils from the sedan chair shop to the utensils shop, hangs the lanterns and colors, and entertains the guests with the above feasts, which is called "light rice".

On a good day, at the time of the fifth watch, the male family offers the "Heaven and Earth Monarch Teacher" in the hall with a full set of pigs and sheep or five animal blessings and fruits, commonly known as "enjoying the first". For breakfast, I want to eat "Xiangxian soup fruit".

Banxia can see that the head is the way, and the knowledge here is great! In the future, when Baozi gets married, she can ......

Wait, buns! Get married!!

Banxia glanced at the buns that she was having fun in the garden, and her heart suddenly felt bad.

Yu Guang saw the same expression of Su Mu, and felt a sense of sympathy.

walked over and hugged Su's mother comfortingly.

The tears in Su's mother's eyes fell down.

The two of them were sad for a while before they recovered.

On the day of the little sister's wedding, Su's mother cried again, and Banxia thought that the scene of Baozi's marriage in the future would also cry together.

Su Zhiyuan hugged her and comforted: "Lady, don't be sad, my little sister is married closely, and I will often go to see her in the future." ”

Banxia didn't know what was going on recently, she was very sensitive, wiped her tears with a handkerchief, and spoke in a slightly nasal voice: "When I think about it, I will feel uncomfortable when Baozi gets married in the future." ”

Su Zhiyuan: ......

In this way, he is also a little unhappy! With a small calculation in his heart.

He had to see if there were any stinky boys in the neighborhood who were as big as his baby daughter, and he had to know the character in advance.

It's best to live next door, and when the time comes, open a small door directly in the corner, which is very convenient!

Su Zhiyuan's plan hadn't been implemented in a hurry, and he couldn't even wait for the little sister to return to the door, so he was released by a paper order.

"Qianzhou!" Su Mu worried, "That's an ominous place!" ”

Su Zhiyuan said: "Don't worry, those are rumors, although Qianzhou is remote and the people are a little behind, but it is not as terrifying as my mother said!" ”

"Don't coax me, that place is not as simple as you say, you tell me honestly, did you offend someone in the officialdom!" Su Mu's eyebrows and eyes were anxious.

Banxia's heart sank, after all, it was here! But she believes in her father-in-law.

Although Qianzhou is backward in all aspects, Xianggong is talented and a practical person, and if he goes to that kind of place, he can break out of the world.

Su Zhiyuan faced such a nervous gaze, his face was more calm, and when he saw the little lady's trusting eyes, the corners of his mouth hooked up a smile: "After serving in the capital for three years, I will be released, this is the rule, I just advanced it for half a year."

Moreover, this is the emperor's order, and the emperor has his own reasons for doing this. ”

Hearing the words of the emperor, Su Mu didn't dare to say anything more: "Mother is going to pack up your things, I will leave tomorrow, and I have to pack a lot of things." ”

Father Su touched his sparse beard: "Since you must go, you should prepare well and bring more strong men." Bring money and everything. ”

"My son is provincial," Su Zhiyuan knew that his family was not at ease, so he deliberately said lightly, "Ordinary people come back after three years of transfer, and if their son has good political performance, maybe he will return in two years." ”

Daddy Su nodded and said no more.

Today's dinner was very dull, and even Dabao and the girl felt unusual, quietly pulling the rice on the side.

The rice balls are in full spirit, sitting on a special small chair, wrapped around their pockets, eating rice cereal by themselves, spoonful by spoonful, all over their bodies.

Banxia helped him wipe it, and said: "Rice balls and buns grow fast, just bring the clothes to wear now, and buy new ones in autumn and winter." ”

Su's mother's chopsticks paused: "The two babies are also going?" ”

Banxia smiled softly: "Xianggong will go for two or three years this time, I will definitely go with me, and the buns and rice balls are almost two years old, if you put them at home...... When I say goodbye, I'm afraid I won't know my father and mother. ”

Su Mu didn't speak for a long time.

Su Zhiyuan said: "It just so happens that next year they will also reach the time of enlightenment, and the rice ball must be literate, and I am by his side, so I can teach him." ”

Although Su's mother was reluctant, she didn't dare to delay her grandson's learning, then she would become a sinner! sighed: "Those two children are with you, watch them well, don't be ...... I heard that the place in Qianzhou is not peaceful. ”

Su Mu wiped the corners of her eyes.

"Mother, don't worry, I will protect them." Banxia looked at the two children lovingly.

"Daddy, my son is not filial, and he can't be filial in front of you." Su Zhiyuan knelt down and kowtowed heavily.

Mother Su hurriedly pulled him up: "You child, what are you doing, you take good care of yourself, it's enough to take care of your little family, your father and mother are good, some eat and live in this capital, and they are all good." ”

As he spoke, he cried again.

Father Su said: "Okay, okay, what is it like to cry and cry, just go to a Qianzhou, when we are not busy, just go over there to take a look, it will not take long to take a boat from the dock." ”